Confused, what a 'surprise'

[Aidoon123]

So, recently I had a crush on a lad, he is gorgeous, but then I kind of lost interest. So then, I had the biggest crush on a girl, I was obsessed with her, like I was the previous guy, and then things went haywire and I lost interest again, so then I went on omegle, and I started talking to this lad, he is SO gorgeous, and sweet, and has all the same interests as me, I even had a dream about sexual things involving him, basically, my question is, for other people who are bi/curious does your sexuality shift like this? One minute I would be in love with a girl, then it suddenly turns to a guy, it is really confusing. Can someone give me advice about this please? Thanks :)

[1_21Guns]

You're 14, I'm assuming your hormones don't know what they're doing! It's totally normal, I'm bisexual and my preference sort of sways about although I'm currently with a boy, there's nothing strange about curiosity and change of preference especially at your age :)

[Aidoon123]

Anyone else?

[teen.jpg]

Not recently, no. It's been pretty consistent for me. But everybody's different, so it doesn't really matter.

[Luminous]

You could just be bisexual. Or maybe bicurious.

[Victory]

I've been in your place. I haven't been attracted to a guy in quite a while to be honest with you though. You like what/who you like, guy or girl. Take it from someone who's been there. No biggie ;)

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So, recently I had a crush on a lad, he is gorgeous, but then I kind of lost interest. So then, I had the biggest crush on a girl, I was obsessed with her, like I was the previous guy, and then things went haywire and I lost interest again, so then I went on omegle, and I started talking to this lad, he is SO gorgeous, and sweet, and has all the same interests as me, I even had a dream about sexual things involving him, basically, my question is, for other people who are bi/curious does your sexuality shift like this? One minute I would be in love with a girl, then it suddenly turns to a guy, it is really confusing. Can someone give me advice about this please? Thanks :)

i've had this a couple of times and was just as confused as you are. I later began to consider myself bisexual, but that's not always the case: it may just be curiosity :)