how to stop masturbating

[blahblahblah]

im masturbating atleast 2 times a day...im addicted...is there a good way to cut down:confused:

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Two times a day is perfectly fine. No need to cut down at all. Most guys do it once a day AT LEAST. As long as you don't do it soo much that you start to get a rash then you don't need to cut back.

[Sage]

Two times a day is perfectly fine. No need to cut down at all. Most guys do it once a day AT LEAST. As long as you don't do it soo much that you start to get a rash then you don't need to cut back.

Patting him on the back, saying "Everyone does it" and letting him off isn't helping. So, to answer the original question...

Masturbation is, (though I forget the proper term) a form of addiction. It's being addicted to a particular activity- Like gambling. The best way to stop doing it is simply fill up your whole schedule with other stuff to do, don't give yourself that much free time. Find a hobby or something. Another good thing to do is get yourself a website blocker of some sort, and when you're prompted to make a password for it, just look away and slam at the keyboard a few times. Cut your sources (mainly porn I'd guess) and leave no time to do it.

That, or you'll probably just get tired of it sooner or later like I did. No, seriously. :rolleyes:

[spyfly25]

im masturbating atleast 2 times a day...im addicted...is there a good way to cut down:confused:

To make it simple have will power and find something else for itself to do.

And dont let it take over ur life

[Patchy]

2 times a day is normal but if ur wanting to cut down the best way is to keep busy...try not to touch your penis in a stimulating way and that should help you cut down.

[byee]

Patting him on the back, saying "Everyone does it" and letting him off isn't helping. So, to answer the original question...

Masturbation is, (though I forget the proper term) a form of addiction. It's being addicted to a particular activity- Like gambling. The best way to stop doing it is simply fill up your whole schedule with other stuff to do, don't give yourself that much free time. Find a hobby or something. Another good thing to do is get yourself a website blocker of some sort, and when you're prompted to make a password for it, just look away and slam at the keyboard a few times. Cut your sources (mainly porn I'd guess) and leave no time to do it.

That, or you'll probably just get tired of it sooner or later like I did. No, seriously. :rolleyes:


Where'd you hear that masturbation is a 'form of addiction'? It most certainly is not!

Masturbation is a perfectly normal activity, caused by a biological imperative: Sexuality. The only harm in it comes from incorrect understanding of it's function and normalcy. And the unnecessary guilt that provokes.

it isn't the frequency per day that determines if it's 'unreasonable', it's the consequences. If you're able to get on with your other responsibilities Ok, if masturbating doesn't interfere with them or any other activity, how ever often you do it is fine.

'Stopping' is really hard, because it is biologically determined, that urge is a biological thing (like hunger or sweating). The goal should be to control it (if needed) so it doesn't preoccupy you to the point where it prevents you from doing other things. And, as for 'cutting down', as you get older and more accustomed to those hormones, your desire/need will probably diminish as well.

[Crazysam]

masterbation in the quantity is perfectly healthy don't worry. If it does bother you it is one of those things your going to grow out of anyway.

[Gavin]

masturbating twice a day isn't much lol,i don't know where you got that from.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Yes, I think that IAMSAM's made a very good point, that those sexual urges, and relieving them, is a biological thing. If you eat three times a day, and want to stop, that wouldn't be an addiction to eating. You can apply the same thing to masturbating. Two times really isnt that many(as others have said), as long is it doesn't interfere with your everyday life, there really isnt any need to worry about it.

[MoveAlong]

two times a day is not addicted. Man for a month I masturbated 4 times a day or more. It's just your hormones and your sex drive is much higher, and that's normal for any teen. there's no need to stop.

but if you want to stop, do things like take walks or go outside or something. I never found a way to skip 1 day though.

[apz4]

I personally believe that masturbation can become an addiction.

It's defiantly possible to cut down to once or twice a week, I know people that only masturbate once a week. But I know that different people have different sex drives and that it can be harder for others.

As everyone else has said... keep occupied and don't do anything that would provoke you wanting to masturbate.

Also, try and set a routine. eg. just do it in the morning or just before you go to bed and don't sleep naked or with very little clothing if that gets you in the mood.

[Sugaree]

Two times a day is about the average for most guys. So it's fine. If you want to cut down you can do it about once a day. It's normal to like masturbating.

I went about 2 weeks without it and it improved me.

[jswan]

:yeah:Hi guys,
I thing that this might help for all those that are trying to stop masturbate. Several years i could not understand why i wanted to masturbate so mush but after some experiments and found out why. For guys its because your private area is to warm, it is suppose to be lower than your body's temperature. Also the reason why guys gets so horny at times it because of the smell of virgina in the air. the worst thing that can happen is to have a woman's underwear around you that she had worn for some time. And also because of the sent of period. when guys are around women at these times they tends to have a higher urge to have sex then normal. Some of you'll might say that im igorant but its the facts. I have tried several times to stop masturbating but never had any success until one day i notice that i was around one of my frinends and she had her period and i had a serious urge to masturbate. the next time it was so hot i could feel the semen running out of my dick so i started too masturbate. after acouble of the documentation i stop wearing underwear which made my dick cooler and i goes to sleep naked which helps to lower my bodies temperature. then one day i notice i have not masturbate in one week the two, and then 5month can. Guys dont take my word for this try it and you will see , you will stop masturbating in weeks.

For the ladies, it has been said that if you don't wear any undies your are a slut. This is Bull Shit!!! I have seen SLUT IN THE CHURCH CHOIR!!! AND 3/4 OF THEM WEARS LONG SKIRTS AND DRESS LIKE LITTLE ANGLES. Being a slut is all about your actions !!! If any girl want to stop masturbating just stop wearing underwear when your sleeping, and if your conformable you can stop wear it all together accept for that time of the month!!. However, i would say please wear a long or a nice skirt that will cover your ass when you bend over or just wear a pant and now underwear. For those who say that guy would see your pussy. This is also BULL SHIT!!! Guys can only see up there if your leg is wide open like the grand cannon!!! it is hard as hell to see a women Virgina if her legs are close or just a little bit open. You have to pass seeing a girls thighs first before seeing her Virgina. Just act normal and guys would stop looking at you. Its when you start acting funny that people become curious about what your hiding!!! remember the the cooler your Virgina is, the lest you will masturbate!!! also remember to wash up there to prevent the itching.

[Skeln]

Do not bump old threads. they died for a reason and are most likely no longer helpful.

[Requin]

Bumped thread. :locked: