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Blablabla36489
July 31st, 2013, 01:12 PM
Hi!

I'm 13 and I'm going to go in the 7th grade this fall. I've always been a little bit shy but I've always liked to hang out with my friends, but it is really rare. I' m different from the other guys 'cause I don't swear or similar and I like to read and study. But, I'm not like some geek or nerd. I dress well, but I don't know what's my problem. It's hard for me to find company. I've got one friend who is a girl and we've hung out but not really lately. Many of my friends are at the vacations but two of them are here, so I'd like to ask them to hang out with me but I'm really shy and uncomfortable with that. What should I do and what's the best place to go with them cause I didn't hang out with friends really much? Is it cinema, McDonald's or something else?

My second problem is that I don't like to go out on the corridors in the school so I don't meet other students, like many other do. I want to change in this one month. How should I start to 'become a part of civillisation'? I'd like to meet other people from other classes because I think I'm nice and I could make a lot of friends, just if I'd become more sociable. Please, help me with that! I've got other problems so I'd like to some of you contact me by PM because I think only sensible person who has been in situation like me, can help me!

Lost in the Echo
July 31st, 2013, 01:15 PM
P101 :arrow: Family & Friends

dontfiguremeout
July 31st, 2013, 11:20 PM
Okay, so first to even make friends you need to get out of your corridors! You need to start interacting with other people! Join clubs that have your interest! You'll find people in there! Start smiling and talking! Even if you start out with a small talk. Small talks lead to bigger and better things. So that's what you first do. Now from then you can basically do anything you wanna do to hang out with them. Go to the movies, or park, or beach, or really anything.

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August 1st, 2013, 06:32 AM
Just try to be yourself, be open, and be social. That's basically all it takes, and eventually you'll make some friends. Somehow it works for me.