Is it wrong?

[DippityDoo]

So I've been planning on breaking up with my current boyfriend for many reasons and I have been talking to this other guy who makes me really happy. My soon to be ex is in Texas on vacation so I can't break up with him yet since i want to do it in person but the other guy wants to hang out. Is it wrong to hang out with another guy even though I'm still technically with my current boyfriend?

[Lost in the Echo]

In my opinion, if you're absolutely 100% sure you're happy with this guy, and positive you're going to break up with your "current" boyfriend, then yeah, I don't see a problem with you hanging out with this guy you currently have feelings for, as long as you make sure to follow through with the break up.

[DippityDoo]

I am definitely going to break up with him no doubt. I just don't want to do it over text or phone call.

[LouBerry]

I still wouldn't hang out with this other guy if you have romantic intensions for him. Even though you are going to break up with your boyfriend, right now he is your boyfriend. You do NOOOOT want to be labeled as a cheater.

[Magenta]

Unless she plans to jump into this other guy's pants or glue herself to him by the lips, she's not cheating. Besides, she's breaking up with her boyfriend. If she's completely sure then who cares if they hang out?

I mean, yeah, I'd hold off on any super couple-y things until after the break up just as a courtesy but frankly it's not anyone's business and I doubt you'd a) be moving that fast unless you were already cheating in the first place (which I don't think you were) and b) be flaunting the situation around anyway.

Don't worry about it, it's perfectly fine.

[DippityDoo]

Me and the new guy haven't had any intimate contact at all. I like him and he likes me and we just want to hang out. I'm not going to kiss him. I'm not going to hold hands. Maybe a hug but I'm not going to be cruel to my soon-to-be-ex and cheat on him.

[beautiful__disaster]

as long as you are going to follow through with the breakup, i see no problem with it. good luck. :)

[Maria72k]

i dont think its wrong if your really going to break up with him

[YodRicA]

I'm not saying that it's completely wrong, but it is to a certain degree.

You're leading your current boyfriend on basically, and he has no idea that you're corresponding with this other guy, and that's not fair to him.

If you would have broken up as soon as you made a connection with this other guy, he could have a sooner chance to repair his broken heart and look for another girl.

[ovoxo23]

So I've been planning on breaking up with my current boyfriend for many reasons and I have been talking to this other guy who makes me really happy. My soon to be ex is in Texas on vacation so I can't break up with him yet since i want to do it in person but the other guy wants to hang out. Is it wrong to hang out with another guy even though I'm still technically with my current boyfriend?

If you are 100% positive that you are going to break up with him, then I don't think so.

[Bilbo Baggins]

I don't think its wrong