Worried about my period

[uglyinsideandout]

I have only ever just spotted a little but now it hasn't happened in about 2 months. I've never been to a ob/gyn and I don't think anyone would take me. Can anyone help put my mind to rest, I'm getting kinda worried because... well you know why I think.

[Luminous]

When did you get your first period? If it was within 1 or even 2 years ago it could just be because you aren't regular yet.
And since you're worried about being pregnant, when was the last time you had unprotected sex? You say you have missed 2 cycles so did you have sex 1-2 weeks (aprox) before that first miss? Are you feeling any nausea or pregnancy symptoms?
I am wishing you all the best.

[uglyinsideandout]

I started spotting occasionally when I was 11 but it didn't become a regular thing for about 6 months.

Unfortunately I've been having unprotected sex quite a bit though it often isn't vaginal. As far as pregnancy symtoms I don't really know what they are except feeling sick but I feel sick all the time it's not new, that's why I'm worried is I don't have any idea. I want to get a test but I don't know how I could ask without it being a really big deal and well... things are already pretty bad I don't want to make it worse. :(

[LouBerry]

I started spotting occasionally when I was 11 but it didn't become a regular thing for about 6 months.

Unfortunately I've been having unprotected sex quite a bit though it often isn't vaginal. As far as pregnancy symtoms I don't really know what they are except feeling sick but I feel sick all the time it's not new, that's why I'm worried is I don't have any idea. I want to get a test but I don't know how I could ask without it being a really big deal and well... things are already pretty bad I don't want to make it worse. :(

Don't do that. Unprotected sex is bad. Bad. You're barely a teenager, you don' need a baby.

Also, have you just been spotting or have you actually started your full on, my vagina bleeds for seven days thing yet?

[uglyinsideandout]

13 and pregnant? .....get help, please. This IS a big deal.

I don't know for sure and I really don't know what to do. If I can get to a store I can probably steal a test but that's all I know of to do. If it's positive I'm so screwed. I don't know what to do if that happens so I kinda don't want to know. I'm scared.

Don't do that. Unprotected sex is bad. Bad. You're barely a teenager, you don' need a baby.

Also, have you just been spotting or have you actually started your full on, my vagina bleeds for seven days thing yet?

I don't exactly have alot of choice about it. I'm not doing it because I want to.

And the other thing... I don't know it's never been more than spotting I think. Sometimes more sometimes less. I don't have anyone to talk to about it in RL so I don't know what to compare it to. :(

Please don't double post. Use the "Multi-Quote" function instead. :) ~Lost in the Echo

[LouBerry]

Okay, does it feel like your body is trying to kill you? Like, curl up in a ball and cry pain?
And are you bleeding, non stop, for around 5-7 days? A lot of blood, not just little amounts here and there, I mean like you've been shot bleeding.

That, my dear, is your period.

Also, if someone is forcing you to have sex, that is rape, and it's not okay. You need to notify someone immediately.

[uglyinsideandout]

Okay, does it feel like your body is trying to kill you? Like, curl up in a ball and cry pain?
And are you bleeding, non stop, for around 5-7 days? A lot of blood, not just little amounts here and there, I mean like you've been shot bleeding.

That, my dear, is your period.

Also, if someone is forcing you to have sex, that is rape, and it's not okay. You need to notify someone immediately.

I get some cramps but not real bad. I've never had heavy bleeding.

yeah the notify someone stuff has already been covered to death.


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[LouBerry]

I get some cramps but not real bad. I've never had heavy bleeding.

yeah the notify someone stuff has already been covered to death.



It's not really my choice. My father isn't usually in a very good mood to hear about what I want or need. Thanks for checking in with your opinion I'll try to keep that in mind.

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Uh, what? If someone is raping you, don't even bother with your family, go to the police. They don't mess around with that shit.

And also, you haven't started your period yet, so it's extremely unlikely that you're pregnant.

[Luminous]

Uh, what? If someone is raping you, don't even bother with your family, go to the police. They don't mess around with that shit.

And also, you haven't started your period yet, so it's extremely unlikely that you're pregnant.

Lou, she might just have a very light period.

Nicolette if you are pregnant with your dad's baby, or think you might be, you need help NOW. But don't tell him or your mom or siblings. Go to a friend's house and tell their parents (since school is out), even if you don't have any close friends, go to a neighbor. If you can muster the courage please tell the police. Rape = bad. If you are also not getting any treatment while being constantly abused it can be really bad for both you AND your possible baby.
Have you lost a lot of weight recently? Girls who are underweight usually start their periods later, have lighter flows, and often skip.
If you had a flat stomach before, check and see if there is a slight bump or hardness, I heard that you get that when you are pregnant early on, but unsure.
Are you feeling any nausea? Or even thrown up?
What about slight cramps a few weeks ago?
Are your breasts sensitive? Areolas darkening?
These are all early symptoms of pregnancy.

[uglyinsideandout]

Lou, she might just have a very light period.

Nicolette if you are pregnant with your dad's baby, or think you might be, you need help NOW. But don't tell him or your mom or siblings. Go to a friend's house and tell their parents (since school is out), even if you don't have any close friends, go to a neighbor. If you can muster the courage please tell the police. Rape = bad. If you are also not getting any treatment while being constantly abused it can be really bad for both you AND your possible baby.
Have you lost a lot of weight recently? Girls who are underweight usually start their periods later, have lighter flows, and often skip.
If you had a flat stomach before, check and see if there is a slight bump or hardness, I heard that you get that when you are pregnant early on, but unsure.
Are you feeling any nausea? Or even thrown up?
What about slight cramps a few weeks ago?
Are your breasts sensitive? Areolas darkening?
These are all early symptoms of pregnancy.

I'm on some heavy stuff so its hard to concentrate. I'm staying with a aunt on my mothers side for now so I'm safe. I guess it's all over and just getting started at the same time now. It's hard for me to remember what I've said and I can't find my posts so... yeah. I'll figure it out and get back to you. All I know for sure to say is I don't like hospitals. And I'm ok I promise.

Edit--

Ok wow the good meds have pretty much worn off and now I'm just taking some oxycotin thing that I'm not sure of the name of (they won't let me have the bottle becasue they think I might take the whole thing... and yeah I thought about it so I guess they're right).

So I asked my dad to take me to the CVS and he had a million questions. I just felt so wore down I gave up and told him I wanted to get a pregnancy test. Well he freaked out to put it mildly. We have this thing where we don't even hint about the stuff that goes on so I made a pretty big mistake being so blunt. More later have to go.

Edit again--

Even though I'm staying with my aunt I'm still keeping my posting here secret that's why I have to run off sometimes so I'm sorry for doing that but its necessary.

Ok so he starts yelling and calling me names and just going off. I tried to leave the room and he grabbed me and things got very physical. I got banged up pretty bad and was bleeding all over the place. He wasn't going to do anything but the apartment manager came by because of the noise and happened to see me bleeding all over. Long story short the cops were called and I went to the hospital for stitchs and to stay overnight. I don't know how they knew to call my aunt but she came and got me this morning. I'm not for sure but I think he was arrested but got bail so I don't know for sure whats going on there.

They said it looks like I have amenorrhea (I hope I spelled that right) and that's why my periods are light or non-existant. I'm pretty sure they did a pregnancy test but I never heard the results I need to talk to my aunt about that but I'm waiting until things calm down a little I can't take much more stress right now. They also discovered that I cut so that was really bad too, but at least they didn't decide that I was trying o kill myself that would have made everything even worse. But I guess I'm supposed to start seeing a councilor or therapist or something. It doesn't sound like fun but maybe they can help me.

[Luminous]

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