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RCT109
July 30th, 2013, 07:33 PM
Don't y'all hate it when your parents try to set you up with some one.

My mom and I work at the same place so she decided to tell this girl who is 21 that she wanted her to date me.

Now I have to meet her and idk what to say

Please help

imaguybro
July 30th, 2013, 07:43 PM
Well, your 17 and shes 21. I hope you guys dont have sex, or shes going to be in jail for rape. If you like her then talk to her like with your normal friends that are girls. If you dont like her, tell her and she might understand.

thatcountrykid
July 30th, 2013, 07:51 PM
Don't y'all hate it when your parents try to set you up with some one.

My mom and I work at the same place so she decided to tell this girl who is 21 that she wanted her to date me.

Now I have to meet her and idk what to say

Please help

I would just tell your mom to let you do this stuff on your own. I think its kind of messed up your mom told her she wanted her to date you.

Magenta
July 30th, 2013, 08:21 PM
Well, your 17 and shes 21. I hope you guys dont have sex, or shes going to be in jail for rape. If you like her then talk to her like with your normal friends that are girls. If you dont like her, tell her and she might understand.

That's ridiculous. 17 is over the age of consent to have sex technically and one year away from being a legal adult anyway. She wouldn't go to jail unless the OP reported her or anyone's parents did which considering the situation sounds like the last possible scenario. It's not like he's a child and, besides, if he doesn't even like her, who said anything about sex? Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill here.

Just explain to your mum that you don't like her trying to set you up with people. And then maybe explain to the girl that it's a bit of a misunderstanding and your mum was just doing a thing mothers sometimes do. Just try to reassure her that it's not because of her though... unless it is, in which case I'd still say try to reassure her to just diffuse the situation as easily as possible. But who knows? Maybe it will actually turn out well. Just chat for a bit and see what happens.

imaguybro
July 30th, 2013, 08:31 PM
That's ridiculous. 17 is over the age of consent to have sex technically and one year away from being a legal adult anyway. She wouldn't go to jail unless the OP reported her or anyone's parents did which considering the situation sounds like the last possible scenario. It's not like he's a child and, besides, if he doesn't even like her, who said anything about sex? Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill here.

Yes, 16 and 17 are legal ages to have sex but for only 16 -17 year olds. 18 + year olds can have sex with anyone but no one younger. Its the law. And maybe his mom is one of those moms thinking that ''shes the one to marry''. And yes, she can go to jail IF someone reported her, but I was just letting him know before he gets attached to her. And no, I didnt say anything about sex.. I said ''I hope'' you guys dont do it.

teen.jpg
July 30th, 2013, 08:47 PM
That's never happened and I hope it never will. I'm still young enough for my parents to tell me to "focus on school".

Not a problem, seeing as I don't have a social life. I have no other choice :lol:

RCT109
July 30th, 2013, 09:04 PM
ATTENTION ........ PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING

Let me set this straight for any further confusion


I am 18
The age of consent in Texas where I live is 17. The window of who they can have sex with is a 3 year window so no one over 20.

Also my mom is trying to be nice and I apriciate the jesture because I have had no luck withgirls

Bilbo Baggins
July 31st, 2013, 04:40 PM
Don't hate your mom for this. She is just trying to help you maybe have a good time. Not meant in a weird way. Anyway, bring up BOOKS. They work.

RCT109
July 31st, 2013, 11:19 PM
Don't hate your mom for this. She is just trying to help you maybe have a good time. Not meant in a weird way. Anyway, bring up BOOKS. They work.

I'm not hating her for it I appreciate the jesture