Should i ask her?

[thatcountrykid]

So theres a girl that i met through ffa awhile a go that i like. I kinda of flirted with her but not really i guess. I was really nice and talked offered to buy a smoothie just that sort of stuff. Well im kinda shy with girls i like and i never really flirted or anything. People told me she was flirting with me and even my dad told me and he always says theyed have to talke me to let me know they like me haha. Well anyway i gave my self one of my famous pep talks. " man up! Man up! Grow a pair and do it!" Well i told her i like her and she hasnt told me yes or no. I asked her if that made it awkward she said no. I asked later and i said " look i gotta know. You know i like you do you like me?" She didnt answer we texted since but never brought it up. We have an ffa meeting soon and i will see her and i was just wondering if i should bring it up?

[Croconaw]

If she didn't text back her phone might have died or she is just busy. I would bring it up, but that's just me. Your situation might be completely different. Well, I think you should bring it up or tell her next time you see her. Things could change between you and her.

EDIT: Typo. I fixed it.

[MoonMan]

Seems like the worst kind of rejection to me, I call it the "black hole rejection." This is where feelings are revealed on one side and, usually, the receiving side doesn't feel the same way but doesn't know how to break it to the former side in fear of hurting feelings, ruining friendship, etc. As a result, the person who revealed their feelings is casted into a black hole where they don't have a solid answer, which makes it 100x times harder to move on from than a regular rejection, because there's always that ambiguous glimmer of hope that the other person might like them back since they never really said no. But really, they're just swirling around in their own bouts of denial and should just move on. Think about it, if someone you liked told you they liked you would you just casually ignore them like it never happened? Fuck no, even if there were other obstacles preventing you from being together, you should tell them about these obstacles. If you don't like the other person, simple, tell them you're not interested. If you're truly confused about your feelings, tell them you're confused. Just be honest. But whatever you do, don't fucking throw someone into the twilight zone and not give them any answer. If the friendship ends, so be it, you can't always help who you like. And if the other person is not mature enough to handle a rejection, they should've never asked in the first place.

[Bilbo Baggins]

Just tell her, that you have to get it out of the way, and that I want to know.