Never been in a relationship?

[KcMay21]

So I'm 18 years old and I just graduated from high school last week. Its safe to say that high school was great. But all throughout it I felt that something was missing. I have never been in a relationship. I mean I dont know if I'm doing something wrong to repel guys. But it's always been the case where a guy seems to want to be friends with me and rely on me for advise on their relationships, but no one seems to care about my feelings. :confused: I honestly wouldn't mind being single but I think the time has come for me to find a boyfriend. And added to that the fact that I'm the only one out of my friends to still be single. I think the problem is that all these guys I know treat me like their sister or something. HELPP!!!!!!!:what: I don't know what to do. Should I just wait for the right one to come along or try to make a move?

[MoonMan]

Good question, my advice would be to do both. Wait for the right person to come along and then pull the trigger and make a move if he hasn't already (I know guys are usually expected to make the first move for whatever reason). You don't want to make a move on someone just because you want a boyfriend and you're afraid your reputation is in danger because you're 18 and single, that's a great way to get whipped in a bullshit relationship with someone you don't really like. At the same time, you don't want to come across someone you like and be too afraid to make a move and let them pass you by. You don't mind being single, you're just too afraid what your friends think of you because you haven't had a boyfriend yet (I doubt they really care that much). Don't let this be your motivation, you should date someone because you want to not because you believe you have to or else risk being judged. You seem to have have a tendency to be friendzoned (which sucks ass, I know) but I doubt you're repelling guys by being yourself.