how do i get started?

[Skycaptain124]

im gonna start dating this coming school year and i want to find someone i can really relate to but im gonna be moving in a few months and i dont know if i should just wait till im in my new place or try dating here and if i find someone i really like just stay here and stay with her but i have no idea which i should make someone please help :whoops:

[DerBear]

If you're moving to a new place then I'd hold off trying to form a relationship --if one suddenly happens, that's a different story --but for the most part if you know you're moving then I'd suggest waiting until you're at your new place.

[Skycaptain124]

thing is i dont know where were moving yet and most of the places my mom listed i didnt like because of the heat but id actually be more willing to stay here if i do find a relationship

[LouBerry]

I won't seek out a new relationship, but like Derri said, if it happens, it happens. But definitely when you move. It's the perfect time. You get to leave behind whoever you were before, and you can start all over. It's pretty great.

[Skycaptain124]

ive been thinking about this alot and i really want to start a relationship with someone but i want it to be a good one, ive heard my mother talking about how happy she is with the man she was dating and i want to feel that way to but with a woman... this would be my first relationship so i dont want to mess anything up so can any girls out there give me any advice on who to look for (meaning who to look for as in someone who would like me for who i am) and how to ask her out?