My Girlfriend Walked In On Me

[Sebastian H]

I was home alone. My girlfriend was supposed to come by in an hour. So i decided to have some alone time. Well, she ended up coming in 30 minutes earlier and walked in on me wanking. She saw me and started yelling at me saying she was offended. She hasn't talked to me since. I don't understand why she's so pissed. We've had sex before, so I don't understand why she was so offended. What am I supposed to do? And why was she so bothered?

[Lost in the Echo]

I think you should just politely ask her why she was so upset about it.
I obviously don't know why she was so angry, but i'd assume she figured you were masturbating because she'd assumed you were't satisfied with sex the two of you had, or she thought you were fantasizing about someone other than her.

Again, these are just assumptions, but I suggest you talk to her about this.

[beautiful__disaster]

She probably thought she doesn't satisfy you enough and that's why she might have gotten upset. Talk to her when she cools down

[Taryn98]

She probably thinks she doesn't satisfy you which is a sign of her having low self esteem or not being mature. It shouldn't be a big deal.

[blackskinhead]

i guess she mad that she wasnt there to give you a hj

[ovoxo23]

Wow. Sorry, but if she gets mad over something that small, then maybe it was time for a different gf anyway

[imcoolbro]

she probably thinks you didnt enjoy the sex with her

[trimm_tom]

why was she pissed?

[Laquifa]

Maybe she doesn't feel like she's pleasing you. Instead of getting mad about it, she should have talked to you about it and asked questions to get your side of it.

[PinkFloyd]

She most likely feels like she can't satisfy you, so you have to do it yourself. That's obviously not true because like 95% of teens do it.

When my girlfriend walked in on me jerking off, she laughed and just walked away. It was cool because she knew that what I was doing is normal. What I'm trying to say is that you need to apologize (even though you shouldn't have to) and say that it's in no way her fault.

[RAGE DJ]

Could be she it mad you for thinking about another girl or watching another girl(If you were watching porn), if you weren't then maybe she just overreacted, or it's just her.

[GigglyAbby]

Maybe she was upset because she wanted to be intimate with you when she came and seeing you masturbate could've spoiled her mood. as others said -- maybe she saw you masturbating as an insult to the intimacy you have. Calmly ask her and then you both can decide whether or not -- you 2 are meant to date.

[graci]

agreed with everyone, she felt like she isnt good enough for you

[trimm_tom]

it is not a big deal she should learn to deal with it

[johnsmith1]

gently approach the subject. Some girls would have found it fun and joined in. Others may have just been grossed out. It may have just even been that you hadn't kept it "private" (eg in the bathroom)

[SkootuGurl]

gently approach the subject. Some girls would have found it fun and joined in. Others may have just been grossed out. It may have just even been that you hadn't kept it "private" (eg in the bathroom)

You're about six weeks too late. They've either gotten over it or broken up by now.

[jktx97]

i cant imagine a gf getting angry over me masturbating, thats crazy

[ska8er]

she wanted to take care of business an u ruined it for her.

[nklarke]

Maybe you were watching porn so she was like jealous.