Torn Between the Two

[DippityDoo]

So I'm 15 years old with my first boyfriend who is 16. We've been together for 8 months but things aren't really that great. He is too sexual and he sees me like a toy. We haven't had sex since I'm too young and just not ready. He never wants to go anywhere with me. All he wants to do is stay at his house or mine and go on Netflix. It's getting boring and I'm losing interest but I don't know if I have the guts to leave him. We had a short break about a month ago but I decided to give him another chance which I regret. He's my first boyfriend and it would just seem hard since my life would be a lot different but I don't know if it's for the better or the worst.
And then there is this guy. He's my friend's brother. He respects me. He doesn't treat me like a toy. He's a total sweetheart and we would text for hours. He's what I need in a relationship. But I'm afraid of what the outcome would be if I breakup with my current boyfriend. What should I do?

[Yugen]

I think it's pretty obvious that you're not happy in your current relationship, and there for you should end it. There's no point in hanging on to something that only makes you miserable.

[Jess]

You should end it. Good luck

[Plasma]

Do whatever makes you happy. Good luck with the new boyfriend :D

[DippityDoo]

I'm just afraid of how different my life would be and what if I regret it later or how he's going to take it. I'm afraid of his reaction. I don't want to look like the bad guy.

[Browny]

Life changes all the time sometimes the changes are bad as sometimes their good it seems like you can make a positive change.

[beautiful__disaster]

i was in the same situation as you a couple months ago. i wasn't sure i had the guts to leave him either, but when i finally did, i felt extremely relieved and wished i would've done it sooner. now i am with a new guy and couldn't be happier. if you aren't happy, don't stay. leave him and be happy with the other guy. good luck.

[Eric57]

I think the right decision is pretty obvious. Break up with your current boyfriend. If you aren't happy with the relationship and the way he treats you, what is the point in staying? By staying with somebody who doesn't make you happy, you are missing out on the chance of being with somebody who actually does make you happy and actually gives you what you want in a relationship.

You are afraid of the outcome, but how bad could the outcome really be? In my opinion, the only outcome is happiness. You can be happy with another guy or you can be happy by yourself. If you ask me, just knowing you aren't going to be with somebody who doesn't treat you like you want to be treated is something to be extremely happy about.

I wish you good luck! :D

[Bilbo Baggins]

Break up. Its the best thing to do