mhh8780
July 28th, 2013, 11:44 PM
This is more of a vent than seeking advice.
The people in my family are
Father, 51
Mother, 51
Sister, 20
Sister, 17
Me (Male), 15 I'm an introverted guy, and I'm the complete opposite of my 20 year old sister.
I love my 17 year old sister and parents to death. My sister (20) on the other hand is the biggest bitch you could possibly meet.
My 17 year old sister has problems with cutting, drugs and the likes of it. She until very recently, hung out with the worst people who influenced her to do illegal and immoral actions (shoplifting). My parents took the right way by scorning and punishing her, however my sister (20) screamed her hot-headed head off. She screamed said things like , " I don't believe you", "You still cut/ do drugs and marijuana", "You fucking convinced your friend to do Molly". I swear, she acts like my mother who does a great job. My entire family has problems with her, and she degrades my mother and father by acting incredibly rude and snobby. My father *had cancer, and whenever my sister or I do something wrong she tells us " I can't fucking believe you did this, don't you realize your dad has fucking cancer", she treats my father like dirt, whenever he's talking and she wants to to talk she yells a him to stop speaking. Whenever she does anything wrong we never dare talk about dad's cancer, because it simply irrelevant. Whenever I ask my 17 year old about my 20 year old sister, she tells me "She's a cold bitch, when I'm old enough to drive I will
Now problems between my sister and I.
1.Her room is directly underneath me, and the floor creaks at the slightest bit of movement. Every time I move whether to go to the bathroom or something she comes up starts yelling at me "Stop fucking jumping" when I'm simply trying to walk someplace in the house.
2.She has this obsession with being fit and has this distorted view of me as a fatass.
3.I have two dogs, when I play with them they occasionally growl. She either yells "Stop fucking molesting the dogs" or "Don't you realize growling means get the fuck away moron".
4. NO respect for privacy. She barges in my room without knocking and turns on the lights. I typically knock to go to her room (her room is connected to the laundry room, basement and garage).
5. I have told time and time again that I would not have an adult relationship with her, she makes fun of me and says " When I grow up I want nothing to do with you" in front of guests.
6. I am regretfully in special education, and whenever I receive a bad grade she says "No wonder he's a sped".
In general my problem with her is how she tries(and fails miserably) to be like a mother, and her obnoxious behavior.
I'm typically quiet and respectful, never picked a fight with anyone. I only use yelling and cursing as a last resort, she uses it as a primary way of communicating. When I tell my 20 year old sister about her behavior she tells me "It's the person I am". She frequently yells at the entire family that their giving her an attitude. She is sad she doesn't have a better relationship with me, but she must realize her attitude MUST stop. She's UNBEARABLE this summer.
The people in my family are
Father, 51
Mother, 51
Sister, 20
Sister, 17
Me (Male), 15 I'm an introverted guy, and I'm the complete opposite of my 20 year old sister.
I love my 17 year old sister and parents to death. My sister (20) on the other hand is the biggest bitch you could possibly meet.
My 17 year old sister has problems with cutting, drugs and the likes of it. She until very recently, hung out with the worst people who influenced her to do illegal and immoral actions (shoplifting). My parents took the right way by scorning and punishing her, however my sister (20) screamed her hot-headed head off. She screamed said things like , " I don't believe you", "You still cut/ do drugs and marijuana", "You fucking convinced your friend to do Molly". I swear, she acts like my mother who does a great job. My entire family has problems with her, and she degrades my mother and father by acting incredibly rude and snobby. My father *had cancer, and whenever my sister or I do something wrong she tells us " I can't fucking believe you did this, don't you realize your dad has fucking cancer", she treats my father like dirt, whenever he's talking and she wants to to talk she yells a him to stop speaking. Whenever she does anything wrong we never dare talk about dad's cancer, because it simply irrelevant. Whenever I ask my 17 year old about my 20 year old sister, she tells me "She's a cold bitch, when I'm old enough to drive I will
Now problems between my sister and I.
1.Her room is directly underneath me, and the floor creaks at the slightest bit of movement. Every time I move whether to go to the bathroom or something she comes up starts yelling at me "Stop fucking jumping" when I'm simply trying to walk someplace in the house.
2.She has this obsession with being fit and has this distorted view of me as a fatass.
3.I have two dogs, when I play with them they occasionally growl. She either yells "Stop fucking molesting the dogs" or "Don't you realize growling means get the fuck away moron".
4. NO respect for privacy. She barges in my room without knocking and turns on the lights. I typically knock to go to her room (her room is connected to the laundry room, basement and garage).
5. I have told time and time again that I would not have an adult relationship with her, she makes fun of me and says " When I grow up I want nothing to do with you" in front of guests.
6. I am regretfully in special education, and whenever I receive a bad grade she says "No wonder he's a sped".
In general my problem with her is how she tries(and fails miserably) to be like a mother, and her obnoxious behavior.
I'm typically quiet and respectful, never picked a fight with anyone. I only use yelling and cursing as a last resort, she uses it as a primary way of communicating. When I tell my 20 year old sister about her behavior she tells me "It's the person I am". She frequently yells at the entire family that their giving her an attitude. She is sad she doesn't have a better relationship with me, but she must realize her attitude MUST stop. She's UNBEARABLE this summer.