First 'real' relationship

[Liii]

I'm nearly 16 and haven't really had a relationship yet. I don't even have a crush on someone.

So when did you have your first real girlfriend/boyfriend and where did you know her/him from?

[imaguybro]

I have my first real girlfriend at (I think) age 15-16 idk. I met her at Spring Break and then we dated for about 5-6 months then she cheated on me.

[numbness]

When I was fourteen he was the year above at school

[Cognizant]

I would say that I had my first at 16 (I met him through my best friend's friend), but our relationship is so corrupt that I don't really know what to consider it.

You shouldn't worry about falling in love at a certain age. Giovanni certainly came unexpectedly for me. Hell, you might be 18, 25, hell maybe even 42 when you get your first relationship, but it's more important that you can take care of each other and love one another for who they are.

[Cygnus]

I haven't had a "real" relationship yet, I have had a few, but I was either too young or it wasn't that serious.

[Browny]

I'm nearly 16 and haven't really had a relationship yet. I don't even have a crush on someone.

So when did you have your first real girlfriend/boyfriend and where did you know her/him from?

I'm currently in a serious relationship and I'm 17
The right person will come along just don't worry about it.

[beautiful__disaster]

I had my first real relationship when I was 13, we dated for a year & a half. I met him at school.

[Plasma]

I'm in the same boat. I've never had a girlfriend either. The right one will come eventually... I hope...

[Vocabulous]

when i turned 13. she was the daughter of my youth pastor, which is sort if ironic seeing that i am an atheist now.

[Camazotz]

I had my first relationship at 16, and it lasted about three years. There's honestly nothing to worry about Liii, there are lots of teens that don't have a relationship until later on (twenties). It's nothing to be ashamed of, and there's no reason to pity yourself. When the opportunity presents itself (mutual interest), just make sure you're willing to put yourself out there and ask them out.

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That is me. I am him. We are one.

[Jess]

I've never had a relationship, and I'm 2 years older than you. My brother is 20 and he's never been in one either. No rush.

[Bilbo Baggins]

Not exactly a real one, but we consider it one

[LouBerry]

I think I was 14 when I started dating my ex boyfriend, Austin, and we went to school together, he was a Junior and I was a Freshman.

[Obsidian]

I'm eighteen and I've only ever been in one, and it was recently. I used to be really worried about it when I was around your age because everybody was dating and I never had. But you shouldn't just date because you feel like you're supposed to, or because everybody else is. You should date somebody because you want to be with them. & I don't know about you, but I'd rather be the person that's had a couple of good relationships than the one that's dated a ton of different people just for the sake of being in a relationship.

[Liii]

I'm eighteen and I've only ever been in one, and it was recently. I used to be really worried about it when I was around your age because everybody was dating and I never had. But you shouldn't just date because you feel like you're supposed to, or because everybody else is. You should date somebody because you want to be with them. & I don't know about you, but I'd rather be the person that's had a couple of good relationships than the one that's dated a ton of different people just for the sake of being in a relationship.

Thank you for the kind words!

[Gen-Kun]

I've never been in a relationship as of now. I'm actually trying to start getting out of my shy zone, and getting the urge to talk to girls now.

[Bougainvillea]

I always had crushes on girls in school, but it was until I met this girl named Rachel that I had a semi-real relationship. If you can call real at 14. She was the first person I opened up to, but she ended up moving which sucked.

But then I started talking to this girl I hated named Cathy, and it turned out that she was awesome, so we started dating. And then she moved in with me. And then we got married.

And now she's in the restroom. So yeah, things can just happen. Don't worry about it, because it'll happen when you want it to. Or even when you're least expecting it.