my gay boyfriend

[happykid]

Hey guys. im a bisexual. so last year i had this relationship with another guy (he was gay). we were happy and all but we kept it a secret. after a few weeks, i came out and labelled him as gay in front of everyone. the name never really stuck and i feel guilty about it and now i want to reignite the relationship. need some help :)

[PinkFloyd]

You just need to approach hi and apologize. Say that you know you betrayed him and you're really, really sorry.

[Harley Quinn]

This is why you never, ever out someone. Just apologise and say you want to start again and forget it ever happened. You made a mistake and that you're willing to restart.

[Hermes96]

talk to him i'm sure if you apoligise he'll forgive you

[Trenton_]

dont worry about it. the truth is the truth. if he was doing gay stuff, he's gay. not your problem. wheres his gay pride? maybe he decided to be straight instead. just ask him

[teen.jpg]

You can't? You forced him out the closet, you really don't deserve his forgiveness. You broke his trust. Just move on.

[Tze-]

dont worry about it. the truth is the truth. if he was doing gay stuff, he's gay. not your problem. wheres his gay pride? maybe he decided to be straight instead. just ask him

No shit. He wasn't asking if his friend is gay. They were dating. It is his problem, because he outed him, and he wants to get back together with him and make up for what he did.

I'm not even going to grant the last 3 sentences with a response. >.>

[Wisconsin]

You can't? You forced him out the closet, you really don't deserve his forgiveness. You broke his trust. Just move on.

This is wrong on so many levels. Just because you broke someones trust once doesn't mean you can't gain it back. And just because of one stupid action, forgiveness isn't deserved even after the person already knows he's done wrong? I'm sorry, but I have to ask, is there something wrong with YOU? What kind of person just tells someone that there's no hope, just move on!? They'res always a chance for redemption. I guess this means that you're prefect then because if you ever did something wrong, you wouldn't want someone else telling you you don't deserve forgiveness or trust.
Gahh. Ill probably feel bad for bitching at you for this, but it needed to be said.

Anyway, back to the topic at hand. There's basically only one thing you can do to try and reignite this relationship:
-be honest with this guy, tell him you know you've done wrong, you know theyres no forgetting, but could he forgive you? Start over? Start off as friends first, and then gradually earn back his trust. Once you do break someones trust, it can be difficult to get back to the way things were. Trust me on that :/

[teen.jpg]

This is wrong on so many levels. Just because you broke someones trust once doesn't mean you can't gain it back. And just because of one stupid action, forgiveness isn't deserved even after the person already knows he's done wrong? I'm sorry, but I have to ask, is there something wrong with YOU? What kind of person just tells someone that there's no hope, just move on!? They'res always a chance for redemption. I guess this means that you're prefect then because if you ever did something wrong, you wouldn't want someone else telling you you don't deserve forgiveness or trust.
Gahh. Ill probably feel bad for bitching at you for this, but it needed to be said.

Anyway, back to the topic at hand. There's basically only one thing you can do to try and reignite this relationship:
-be honest with this guy, tell him you know you've done wrong, you know theyres no forgetting, but could he forgive you? Start over? Start off as friends first, and then gradually earn back his trust. Once you do break someones trust, it can be difficult to get back to the way things were. Trust me on that :/

Outing someone is a big deal, and I don't see why anyone would forgive someone for doing that to them. I don't think he really deserves his trust again. But its not for me to stand in the way of the OPs actions, so he can go ahead and ask for forgiveness if he wants to.

[pilarsalmuera]

You have to apologize

[The Flash]

You can't? You forced him out the closet, you really don't deserve his forgiveness. You broke his trust. Just move on.

I agree with this, if it were me, I wouldnt even talk to you.
But on the other hand, if I really like(d) you, then I would obviously forgive you. And if the apology was good enough.