AllIsWell
July 28th, 2013, 08:18 AM
Hey guys,
So recently I've been up and down emotionally with girls who initially show a lot of interest in me but about a week or so after seem to lose all interest.
The last incident hurt me pretty badly, but at the same time left me confused. Let me recant and tell me what you think I should do.
I'm on vacation right now with my friend and his family and we met up with some girls from home who were also vacationing here. One of the girls I had already met, but her friend, I hadn't. Anyways, from the moment we met it was the cliche subtle smiles, prolonged eye contact, the occasional blush. Anyways, it ended up with us inviting them to a party back at our place.
I'm usually a quiet guy and usually sit to the side and play guitar and smoke my cigarettes in peace, while all my friends enjoy the party inside. The girl, she comes out to me and asks me to sing her a song, so I do and we talk about life and everything.
Anyways, the night drags on and we go dancing and drinking and have a lot of fun together. At this point I think she's pretty cool and have a strong sense of attraction towards her.
That night she sneaks into my room and we have sex and sleep together holding hands. All really romantic ya know.
The next morning when we wake up, we just stare into each others eyes and smile and start kissing and cuddling. Then we sit outside and watch the sun rise together. She tells me how glad she is she met me and how she wants to meet up back home.
We exchange numbers and she tells me she wants to hang out with me and my friends again tomorrow night. I kiss her goodbye.
For the next two days she texts me constantly and of course I text back. It's all kisses and smiley faces from both sides.
When the night actually comes for them to arrive again, she smiles and kisses me on the check hello, but it just seems that the rest of the night she tries to avoid me. Which is fine by me. I instead hang out with my friends and drink and try to have a good time.
Later in the night we're in a club and one of my buddies says to me, "my dude, she says that she just wants to be friends."
Throughout the night, she comes over to me and kisses me on the lips and asks if I'm alright and if it has anything to do with her that I'm so sad. I tell her it's not. She kisses me some more and goes to dance with my friends.
I'm crushed. It doesn't help that I'm already very drunk. I decided to walk home alone. I get back to the hotel and crash into my bed and fall into a restless sleep.
I'm woken up at 5 AM by my friend telling me to go sleep on the couch. Feeling shitty, I crawl out and collapse on the couch. I hear one of my buddies whispering about how the girl i like is trying to hit on my friend with a girlfriend. Her best friend lies down next to me and tells me how I can talk to her about anything. Right now I just want to be left alone in a quiet room and sleep. Anyways, her best friend finds her and tells her that she should talk to me, but apparently she doesn't want to.
Then about 15 minutes later, I hear her voice calling my name, so I get up and go to her. She's lying alone in my room on my bed and says, "talk to me, tell me what's wrong"
I lie down next to her, but I can't find the words to say, but she just guesses. She says, "I can't like someone I've known for one day, but I do want to get to know you better when we get back home. I think you're really sweet." We make out a bit before she falls asleep in my arms.
I wake up earlier than everyone the next morning and go to the porch to smoke a cigarette and play some songs. She comes out and sits across from me, watching me play, listening silently. We all have breakfast together, but for some reason I can't get myself to say anything to anyone. I get back to the room and crash in my bed. A few minutes later she comes in and lies down next to me and asks if everything is alright. I put on my best fake smile and say, "yeah, haha of course, don't worry about me."
She just stares at me with her green eyes for a long while and then leans in to kiss me. i kiss her back. She says that she just wants me to be happy.
After her and her friends leave, she sends a text saying that I should be happy. I ask her to hang out with me back home and she says, "yeah sure haha, it could be nice :)"
From then we snapchat a bit, text here and there, but nothing serious.
In retrospect, I'm glad it happened. I feel a lot better after writing this out. I've been kinda sad for the past few days but i feel as if a burden has just been lifted off my shoulders. I still would enjoy a girl's perspective of this situation, of maybe how she felt or what she was thinking.
Cheers,
AllIsWell
So recently I've been up and down emotionally with girls who initially show a lot of interest in me but about a week or so after seem to lose all interest.
The last incident hurt me pretty badly, but at the same time left me confused. Let me recant and tell me what you think I should do.
I'm on vacation right now with my friend and his family and we met up with some girls from home who were also vacationing here. One of the girls I had already met, but her friend, I hadn't. Anyways, from the moment we met it was the cliche subtle smiles, prolonged eye contact, the occasional blush. Anyways, it ended up with us inviting them to a party back at our place.
I'm usually a quiet guy and usually sit to the side and play guitar and smoke my cigarettes in peace, while all my friends enjoy the party inside. The girl, she comes out to me and asks me to sing her a song, so I do and we talk about life and everything.
Anyways, the night drags on and we go dancing and drinking and have a lot of fun together. At this point I think she's pretty cool and have a strong sense of attraction towards her.
That night she sneaks into my room and we have sex and sleep together holding hands. All really romantic ya know.
The next morning when we wake up, we just stare into each others eyes and smile and start kissing and cuddling. Then we sit outside and watch the sun rise together. She tells me how glad she is she met me and how she wants to meet up back home.
We exchange numbers and she tells me she wants to hang out with me and my friends again tomorrow night. I kiss her goodbye.
For the next two days she texts me constantly and of course I text back. It's all kisses and smiley faces from both sides.
When the night actually comes for them to arrive again, she smiles and kisses me on the check hello, but it just seems that the rest of the night she tries to avoid me. Which is fine by me. I instead hang out with my friends and drink and try to have a good time.
Later in the night we're in a club and one of my buddies says to me, "my dude, she says that she just wants to be friends."
Throughout the night, she comes over to me and kisses me on the lips and asks if I'm alright and if it has anything to do with her that I'm so sad. I tell her it's not. She kisses me some more and goes to dance with my friends.
I'm crushed. It doesn't help that I'm already very drunk. I decided to walk home alone. I get back to the hotel and crash into my bed and fall into a restless sleep.
I'm woken up at 5 AM by my friend telling me to go sleep on the couch. Feeling shitty, I crawl out and collapse on the couch. I hear one of my buddies whispering about how the girl i like is trying to hit on my friend with a girlfriend. Her best friend lies down next to me and tells me how I can talk to her about anything. Right now I just want to be left alone in a quiet room and sleep. Anyways, her best friend finds her and tells her that she should talk to me, but apparently she doesn't want to.
Then about 15 minutes later, I hear her voice calling my name, so I get up and go to her. She's lying alone in my room on my bed and says, "talk to me, tell me what's wrong"
I lie down next to her, but I can't find the words to say, but she just guesses. She says, "I can't like someone I've known for one day, but I do want to get to know you better when we get back home. I think you're really sweet." We make out a bit before she falls asleep in my arms.
I wake up earlier than everyone the next morning and go to the porch to smoke a cigarette and play some songs. She comes out and sits across from me, watching me play, listening silently. We all have breakfast together, but for some reason I can't get myself to say anything to anyone. I get back to the room and crash in my bed. A few minutes later she comes in and lies down next to me and asks if everything is alright. I put on my best fake smile and say, "yeah, haha of course, don't worry about me."
She just stares at me with her green eyes for a long while and then leans in to kiss me. i kiss her back. She says that she just wants me to be happy.
After her and her friends leave, she sends a text saying that I should be happy. I ask her to hang out with me back home and she says, "yeah sure haha, it could be nice :)"
From then we snapchat a bit, text here and there, but nothing serious.
In retrospect, I'm glad it happened. I feel a lot better after writing this out. I've been kinda sad for the past few days but i feel as if a burden has just been lifted off my shoulders. I still would enjoy a girl's perspective of this situation, of maybe how she felt or what she was thinking.
Cheers,
AllIsWell