Confused.. i guess..!

[Jungle]

I just want to know what you think, what you honestly think, anyone!

Currently I am wondering whether I am BI or just curious. I know it sounds like the typical sort of question, but oh well I just need to know!

I like girls, I knwo that much. As for guys, I do find them attractive, and have done ever since I started puberty ( even before, but not quite in the same way).

I find girls both physically and emotionally attractive, always have done. I always thought guys wer ephysically attractive too, but only recently I have developed quite strong feelings for a friend of mine ( feelings going beyond just friendship!)

So is this just common bicuriousity or am I just a bisexual?

And before anyone answers, I would just like to say I would rather be bisexual than just bicurious, so don't think it would be comforting to say ' Yeah you're just curious'.

Thanks :)

[Yugen]

First of all, why would you rather be bisexual than bicurious? You are who you are, you really don't get to choose. It's like saying you'd rather be tall than average while you're still growing.

But anyways, to me it sounds like you're curious. Could you be bi? Totally. Could you be straight? Sure. Just try out those feelings, see what fits YOU. We can't tell you who you are. :)

[NikosamA98]

Well, the only way to find out your sexuality is experimenting, waiting (till you're sure you do like boys and it isn't just a hormonal rage) and asking yourself what you really like, not us. From my point of view, you're bisexual and I can't tell more since idk your age :P

[Jungle]

"Well, the only way to find out your sexuality is experimenting, waiting (till you're sure you do like boys and it isn't just a hormonal rage) and asking yourself what you really like, not us. From my point of view, you're bisexual and I can't tell more since idk your age"

I thought it came up on my description :L I'm 15, and yeah I have experimented before with guys quite a few times, the first time being quite a while ago :L And yeah each time, it's true I did enjoy it :L

[Lost in the Echo]

I honestly think it's just your hormones doing this to you, but there still is a possibility that you're bi.
But yeah...in my opinion, if you're feeling a bit confused about your sexuality, it's best to label yourself after puberty, because then, your true sexual orientation should be more evident to you, because your hormones have settled. Your hormones are probably making you horny, so just wait it out, and see if you're truly bi.
But remember, you can't change your sexuality, so whatever your orientation is, you just have to accept it.

[Jungle]

Yeah that's very true. But from the moment I began being interested in girls, I began being interested in guys at the same time. And before that even, I was more fond of guys than most people normally would be. I would have thought if it was my hormones, my perspective would have changed, but it hasn't, it's remained consistant the whole time. But maybe you're right. Guess I'll just have to wait and find out..!

[teen.jpg]

First of all, why would you rather be bisexual than bicurious? You are who you are, you really don't get to choose. It's like saying you'd rather be tall than average while you're still growing.

But anyways, to me it sounds like you're curious. Could you be bi? Totally. Could you be straight? Sure. Just try out those feelings, see what fits YOU. We can't tell you who you are. :)

Pretty much this.

[Jungle]

Thanks everyone. You've shown me that putting a label on these things isn't the correct thing to do. I'm a don't-really-care kinda person anyway so I culd just tell people I'm bisexual, whether I am or not entirely, doesn't really matter. < Well maybe this is the completely wrong way of looking at it, but I see now that i was wrong to catagorise something which really should not be. Whether I am right or wrong, thanks! I feel a lot mroe confident now!