How do you know if your gay?

[converse]

I am very confused with myself and it is driving me insane. I have and been having sexual feelings towards the member of the same sex for awhile now, but I still cannot bring to find myself gay/lesbian. I was wondering, how you can determine if you are gay/lesbian? I have had many homosexual experiences, but im still confused on if i really am a lesbian. can someone please give me some advice???

[thesphinx]

you really can't tell until after puberty because your changing so much, just wait it out.

[chris__robin]

I still cannot bring to find myself gay/lesbian
the idea isn't someone you could get used to overnight, and it can be a really confusing time but just wait a while and eventually you will figure out what your orientation is through thoughts, feelings and experiences with the people around you.

[archangel]

How old are you? That can make a load of difference. But think about pleasing yourself before society; what do you really want? that may make your decision easier.

[Half Angel]

You know your bisexual or gay if you have had sexual feelings for more then one person of the same sex. If you have felt that and you think you are gay, then I wouldn't try to hide it. All it will bring is saddness. Be honest to yourself first, not caring about what other people think.