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RCT109
July 27th, 2013, 11:30 PM
Why is it that the nice guy always finishes last

I mean nothing I try works
What has sosiety come to where being nice is an automatic turn off
Harley Quinn
July 27th, 2013, 11:32 PM
I hate it when guys always do this. It's like you're blaming the girl for not liking you. If someone isn't attracted to you it has nothing to do with whether you're nice or not. They just don't want to date you. It's like when guys go on about the friend zone like it exists.
Plasma
July 27th, 2013, 11:44 PM
I'd say guys in their teens believe this but after highschool/middleschool and all the drama that goes with that, the girls that are worth your time DO go after the nice guys. And man, I cannot wait until that day comes...
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July 28th, 2013, 12:35 AM
I hate it when guys always do this. It's like you're blaming the girl for not liking you. If someone isn't attracted to you it has nothing to do with whether you're nice or not. They just don't want to date you. It's like when guys go on about the friend zone like it exists.

:clap: Somebody finally gets it! Dude, so what if someone doesn't like you, they just don't like you. Don't beat yourself up for it, you'll find someone who likes you for who you are.
imaguybro
July 28th, 2013, 05:05 PM
Because some guys are wayyy to nice to the girl or they get friendzoned.
Harley Quinn
July 28th, 2013, 05:05 PM
Because some guys are wayyy to nice to the girl or they get friendzoned.

The friend zone does not exist.
imaguybro
July 28th, 2013, 05:07 PM
The friend zone does not exist.

It does exist.. they even have a Tv show about it on MTV lol.
Harley Quinn
July 28th, 2013, 05:08 PM
It does exist.. they even have a Tv show about it on MTV lol.

Because having a show on MTV clearly means that there's a friendzone.
imaguybro
July 28th, 2013, 05:12 PM
I hate it when guys always do this. It's like you're blaming the girl for not liking you. If someone isn't attracted to you it has nothing to do with whether you're nice or not. They just don't want to date you. It's like when guys go on about the friend zone like it exists.

''It's like you're blaming the girl for not liking you.''

A girl, my friend. She said straight on to my face that she finds me attractive and likes it but does not want to ruin the friendship and make it awkward. You might like the word ''Friendzone'' but its real.
StoppingTime
July 28th, 2013, 05:17 PM
Right, so if they don't want to date you, that's that. You aren't in a special place because of that and it's not because you're too nice or too whatever; it's simply because she wants to be friends. (Also note it probably isn't because she "doesn't want to ruin the friendship" as that's usually bullshit and just means she doesn't want to date you, but I'm not here to judge).

So bottom line: No, there is no such thing as a "friendzone." You're friends. Being friends with someone is not synonymous with "being in the friendzone." That basically means "she doesn't want to date you." So say that instead.
Emerald Dream
July 28th, 2013, 05:27 PM
I'm going to chime in here and confirm something - there is NO "friendzone."

I don't like when guys say they got "put in the friendzone." News flash, guys - you didn't get put there. We (girls) considered you a friend from the start.

Nothing changed.

The only reason you believe you were "put in the friendzone" was because you finally realized you weren't going to get a relationship, or sex...whichever you were looking for. There was never any intention in the first place. Just your overactive imagination.