My Sexuality

[Crispy]

I've been unsure of what I am for the past month. Sometimes I think that I am bi and sometimes I think that I am gay and sometimes straight. Some people on the internet say I'm straight just a little confused. Can someone point me where I am? I think I'm bi leaning straight. I am attracted to men and women, but I don't like to see naked men. I wouldn't have any sex with a man either. Any suggestions on me?

[Chrono]

well then to me it sounds like you are straight, if you have no desire to see men naked or no desire to have sex with a guy you definately aren't gay or bi. The feelings you have towards guys probably just mean that you like them as friends you are just confused.

[Crispy]

Men do arouse me, I like to look at men, just not naked. I would try making out with a man, just not any type of sex. I really don't care one way or another, I just wan a general idea of where I am.

[Sco1988]

U sounds str8 but curious! u can neva truely be gay unles su cud have gay sex and love a man...u just sound curious to me

[Crispy]

So I'm probably bi-curious.

[Sco1988]

ye thats what i wud say anyway..but remeber ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE what u want to be

[///James///]

ye thats what i wud say anyway..but remeber ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE what u want to be

omg you dont choose how your sexual orientation is! its ur body, your hormones and mostly your heart!

[CamXV]

I sense a heated discussion comming.... but yea, most male teens go through a stage of curiosity, you will probibly turn out straight. SOme of us on the other hand will not, because of mutated genes. :wink:

[Sco1988]

nearly everyteen has a curious stage, what i meant was you can choose whether u follow that curiousity further to become gay or take peoples advice and believe ur str8

[castillo_98]

I've been thinking I've been getting 'straighter' lately.... but every time I try and look at myself logically, I just can't.

Like I know I'm not gay, but I have feelings for guys so I'm not totally straight either. So that's why for a long time I've been calling myself bi. It's really confusing, hell on some days I'm like super-gay and on others I'm average-Joe-straight-guy. Ah well, just have to wait and see, but I like being bi.

[Cr0oked.Butterfli__x]

As far as I see it, there is no reason to label your sexuality. For me it's who the person is and that's who I fall in love with, fair enough you can find yourself attracted to the opposite or the same sex just going on appearance but in the end it's your heart and soul that make the decision for you, whether you choose to ignore it or not is up to you.

So I say don't worry about calling yourself Bisexual or Homosexual or Hetrasexual, just say you're open minded and go with the flow of things.

[johhny_k]

i look at men naked...i am atracted to men, i have emotional attractions to me i like to see men naked but i also have emotional and sexual attractions to women...does this mean i am bi?

[Mirataku]

search on wikipedia for the kinsey scale

[Maverick]

i look at men naked...i am atracted to men, i have emotional attractions to me i like to see men naked but i also have emotional and sexual attractions to women...does this mean i am bi?
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