Best friend?

[teenmanchester]

Ok so since turning 18 I decided to check out a few sites and see whats on them. Long story short I found my oldest and closest friend on one of them wanting to hook up with guys. I don't mind the liking guys thing at all but the fact that he never mentioned anything. Granted I haven't told him about me but me being gay is the only thing he doesn't know about me. I'm just stuck on whether I can use this as a hurdle to come out to him or to just ignore it because the profile I use is anonymous so I know who he is but he doesn't know who I am. It's just an awkward situation and i'd like to know what to do about it.

[Seth.]

I don't see why you think you need to do anything about it. If you want to come out to him, it sounds safe enough to me. otherwise I'd say to let it go.

[Magnus Bane]

tell him how you feel!! sounds safe like the person said above me.

[Pierce]

You can come out to him but mention nothing of the site or his profile. Let him come out to you at his own pace and it might escalate to something else only if you want it to happen, and you let him act first. Eventually, and I mean a while down the road, you can mention the site but if you mention it soon it might just freak him out.

[Laquifa]

You can come out to him but mention nothing of the site or his profile. Let him come out to you at his own pace and it might escalate to something else only if you want it to happen, and you let him act first. Eventually, and I mean a while down the road, you can mention the site but if you mention it soon it might just freak him out.

Pierce is right. If I saw one of my friends on a site like that I'd say nothing about it unless they say first. I know it must be hard keeping that a secret...

[kirikiri94]

Be honest. Come to him as soon as possible.