groping

[freakyindiangurl]

The other day I was at the park for a festival and then their was fireworks afterwards and it was crowded. throughout the whole night I kept having different boys walk by and grope me. some will brush their hand against my butt or boobs and others will take it further and grab or take their time feeling me up. I am use to this happening everytime I go to a huge event. I am use to it and not care about it anymore. do other girls have this happen to them and do you care if a guy does that or not?

[Jenny13]

That's weird... I've never heard of that happening before. Did you know those guys?

[honeybear]

it has happened to me a few times over the years...concerts and stuff like that..i usually don't say anything because I'd be afraid of what might happen

[PandaLeah]

yes this happens to me all the time - I used to slap people for it now I just look at them with my "really guys" look lol

[Jenny jr]

I never had that happen to me before. I'm not sure what I would do either

[freakyindiangurl]

That's weird... I've never heard of that happening before. Did you know those guys?

No I didn't know them.

[Staci]

Had it happen a few times. Wierdest was at a concert and the dude behind me humped me.

[Jenny13]

No I didn't know them.

That's really weird then and inappropriate. I wouldn't let them get near me

[Luminous]

No never that's weird.

[Mollypop]

I wouldn't put up with it.

[Elysium]

Things like this are why feminism exists. That's disgusting and wrong and nobody should feel that they have the right to touch someone inappropriately without their consent.

[anyone50]

Well if your talking about being in a crowd where people are so packed in you can't help bumping into people as you make your way thru the masses that's one thing but if someone actually reaches out grabs my ass or tits as they walk by me that's just wrong by anyone's definition. I strongly suspect that there are a lot of guys that will go out of their way to walk through a crowd of girls hoping to brush up against a girls behind or get some elbow boob action. This has happened to me while at parties or other events and it's not really that big a deal unless I notice it's the same person coming around for seconds or even thirds. My suggestion is if this bothers you avoid areas where people are close enough together to make brushing up against you body look accidental.

[Miss_Hollywood_]

Never

[kentucky girl]

i've had it to happen a few times and if they just brush up against me then it doesn't bother me much but if they actually grab then that makes me mad. i have actually noticed that it is older men that do this instead of boys our age

[stepht]

I've never had that happen at least not where someone was definitely grabbing or feeling. Maybe brushing up against me but that didn't seem weird at the time so barely noticed - usually focused on the music or whatever.

[Akasuki]

Guys do it to me all of the time at concerts much to my boyfriend's dismay, lol. It bothers me so I just move away from them.

[Abgail 16]

It happened to me once when I was at the mall with my dad.My dad saw the guy doing it and punched him in the face.

[marrisa]

Umm sometimes it happens but it clearly was an accident.But never on purpose.Guys aren't aloud to "grope" me unless I want them to.

[Amy15kitty]

it happens because there are weirdos out there

[Luminous]

It happened to me once when I was at the mall with my dad.My dad saw the guy doing it and punched him in the face.

haha wow awesome dad!!

[Abgail 16]

:)

I was hugely embarrased and quite proud at the same time.

[SandyBomb]

Happened to me once, I pretended not to feel as was scared to say something, but didn't like this at all as I felt pretty helpless.

[Mollypop]

scared to say something, but didn't like this at all as I felt pretty helpless.

And this is exactly why it's so bad for guys to do this to us.

[Harry Smith]

this isn't related to puberty and there is no real question or point to the thread :locked: