I am I bring paranoid/overprotective?

[Browny]

So my girlfriend who I have been dating for almost two months she lives somewhat far so I only get to see her once or twice a week. Sometimes she likes to bring her friend along with us when we hang out. Personally I don't really like her because she's always aggressive, demanding and rude to my gf. Every time that we have double dated her friend has had a girl with her since she is a lesbian. Other than the things I have listed above I don't like her because she constantly is trying to piss me off by making jokes about me or judging me even though she says she's only joking I can always tell when it's not an actual joke. The other thing that really bothers me is that whenever my gf and I are kissing or having a romantic moment she makes it really awkward most of the time she is more preoccupied with us two than her own "date".

I really care about my gf and I want the best for her and honestly her friend in my opinion isn't what I would call a friend. The thing is even though she.does all these things my gf still hangs out with her and I don't wan to make her choose between her "friend" and me, that's why I decided to just keep quiet about it.

So I am doing the right thing? Because at this point I'm not sure.

[Trace]

I think you're right. She shouldn't be so invasive of your privacy. Tell your girlfriend you'd like to take her out alone for a chance.

[spiderdude]

I'm just saying, It might be possible that your girlfriend could get defensive. She's been friends with her longer than she's been going out with you?

[Meganium]

So my girlfriend who I have been dating for almost two months she lives somewhat far so I only get to see her once or twice a week. Sometimes she likes to bring her friend along with us when we hang out. Personally I don't really like her because she's always aggressive, demanding and rude to my gf. Every time that we have double dated her friend has had a girl with her since she is a lesbian. Other than the things I have listed above I don't like her because she constantly is trying to piss me off by making jokes about me or judging me even though she says she's only joking I can always tell when it's not an actual joke. The other thing that really bothers me is that whenever my gf and I are kissing or having a romantic moment she makes it really awkward most of the time she is more preoccupied with us two than her own "date".

I really care about my gf and I want the best for her and honestly her friend in my opinion isn't what I would call a friend. The thing is even though she.does all these things my gf still hangs out with her and I don't wan to make her choose between her "friend" and me, that's why I decided to just keep quiet about it.

So I am doing the right thing? Because at this point I'm not sure.

I think you'd be fine if you asked your girlfriend to go out alone sometimes.

You have to remember though, that it's possible for her to always invite her friend because it could ease her nerves when she's out with you. While she may be able to handle her friend, you can't.

Just explain your reasoning and I think she'll take it fine.

[YOi'mMO]

As a girl, I know there are some friends who just honestly we shouldn't have because of the way they act, but, oddly enough, we stay friends. But from what you're saying...this girl in particular is pushing it. Bring it up to your girl. If it makes you uncomfortable or certain things upset you, you should tell her just not in a jerk-ish way. :P

[Jess]

Tell her your worries and also ask her if you two could go alone sometimes. Good luck

[Cygnus]

Tell her to go somewhere alone, you have accepted her to bring her friend after all so she should accept going alone somewhere.

[Bilbo Baggins]

Just ask her to go alone sometimes. Like, every other week or once a mounth