When can I be sure im over her?

[TransformR]

About six months ago I'd been with this awesome girl I met where I used to go to taekwondo,right after christmas last year she broke up with me out of the blue. I took it somewhat hard and wasn't with another girl for about 2 months, that ended after another couple months. I'd hoped the first girl might've considered getting back with me, but her posting of 'we are never hetting back together' incessantly told me otherwise. She hasn't spoken to me since. I had worked at the taekwondo studio I went to, but this january I was laid iff, so I havent been back to tkd in ages. Partly because of her and how awkward it'd be to see her again. I mentioned her to the mkst recent girl I was with, but saw online that dringing up an ex means you arent over them. Had to bite my tongue to not mentuon her. At this point im still questioning whether I am over her. Even though I've tried reminding myself of the flaws the relationship had. Similar experiences? Solutions? I find a comeback, or someone better difficult to find..

[Meganium]

About six months ago I'd been with this awesome girl I met where I used to go to taekwondo,right after christmas last year she broke up with me out of the blue. I took it somewhat hard and wasn't with another girl for about 2 months, that ended after another couple months. I'd hoped the first girl might've considered getting back with me, but her posting of 'we are never hetting back together' incessantly told me otherwise. She hasn't spoken to me since. I had worked at the taekwondo studio I went to, but this january I was laid iff, so I havent been back to tkd in ages. Partly because of her and how awkward it'd be to see her again. I mentioned her to the mkst recent girl I was with, but saw online that dringing up an ex means you arent over them. Had to bite my tongue to not mentuon her. At this point im still questioning whether I am over her. Even though I've tried reminding myself of the flaws the relationship had. Similar experiences? Solutions? I find a comeback, or someone better difficult to find..

This is too long, bro. The only way you're going to get over her is if you let yourself.

Take up a hobby, read some books, play some games, do SOMETHING to get her off your mind. Don't check her Facebook, don't go to any place or do anything that reminds you of her. Ship sailed. She's over. Move on. If you keep dwelling on this, you're never going to be happy. It just takes s little push from yourself to knock her out of your mind.

At this point, mingling wouldn't be a bad idea either.

[Jon1903]

Get out there get to know knew girls. Socialize. If you dont, your head will just keep spinning around the girl that is now no longer possible. Also, defriend her. Itd be nothing personal, itll jhst help you.