Is this inappropriate

[Miss_Hollywood_]

So last weekend my family was having a BBQ we were sitting on the porch. All the seats were taken so I sat on my dads lap . However, after a few minutes I felt something .. um let's say poke me.

[uga_countrygirl]

i wouldn't say it was inappropriate. He's a male so things like that happen, regardless of the relationship..in my opinion. It also depends on how you feel about it..

[graci]

yea i wouldnt read too much into it, id just brush it off your shoulder

[Luminous]

No I don't think he could control it.. imagine how embarrassed he must have been

[Moondust]

O_o
Uh, don't bring anything like that up with your family. You know, guys get those all the time, mostly with no reason. Unlike with girls, they come randomly.
Just forget about it, Hon :p

[elliee16]

I dont think you can read into it to much, this kinda stuff happens to men

[freakyindiangurl]

I wouldn't read to much into it as any guy who had a girl sit on their lap even their own daughter would get an erection they just can't help it. I remember my dad doing the same when I sat on his lap when I was younger and I just let it go.

[Jenny13]

He doesn't mean it. He's not a perv. He loves you. Forget about it.

[Croconaw]

Lol, this was kinda funny to me. Sorry, I'm immature. :\
Anyway, it doesn't sound like a bad thing. I wouldn't look to much into it.

[Miss_Hollywood_]

Thanks for the advice when it happened I honestly didn't know what to do . I didn't know that it was normal .

[SammyG17]

As a nudist we not only feel, but get to see when things like that happen. I've seen friends, and my own family, get hard at the most bizarre things. A good guy friend of mine was sitting on our couch when our dog came up to him. The dog put his paws over my friends lap, wiggled a bit (but kept the paws with constant pressure) and bam, the guy friend was hard.

I've seen my brother and father get into a "tickle match" with my dad's friends kids (the girl is 5, the boy is 4) and both of my dad and brother were hard afterwards. All hands/tickles were kept above the waist.

I've learned that a puff of air can make a guy hard, but that when it comes down to sex it requires his mental ability. If your dad made suggestive remarks to you, then maybe he wanted more, but if it was just purely physical, you have nothing to worry about.

[Taryn98]

this is a little messed up

[DerBear]

This isn't really a puberty discussion or sex ed discussion :locked: