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southernguy
July 25th, 2013, 05:28 PM
So, I had put this in another thread, but it started to get off topic, so I figured I would post an entirely new thread.

So, situation is there is a guy that I like (I'm a guy, too), and we were at camp together and he was flirting and stuff with me, but he asked one of my friends if I was gay or anything, and friend told him that I was straight. In reality, I'm actually bi-curious and interested in starting a relationship with him.

Since camp is over, we only see each other occasionally, but we text a lot, but he definitely still thinks I'm completely straight and I wasn't supposed to know about him asking my friend (my friend told me about it anyway), so now I just need help on how to text with him to subtly flirt with him and let him know that I'm not exclusively straight. Any thoughts? Thanks!

Cygnus
July 25th, 2013, 07:51 PM
If you are going to flirt do it in real life, thats it.

southernguy
July 25th, 2013, 10:29 PM
If you are going to flirt do it in real life, thats it.

I get that, but like conversation between us has been a little awkward since he was told I was straight, and I want to figure out how to subtly tell him I'm not exclusively straight over text before I see him again in person...

southernguy
July 26th, 2013, 08:59 PM
Bumping this post up since I have only had 1 reply...

Melodic
July 26th, 2013, 09:09 PM
Well by how I've learned, Words don't mean anything until they become real. So texting him how you feel wouldn't be the right way. Just show him or man up and tell him in person.

southernguy
July 26th, 2013, 09:16 PM
Well by how I've learned, Words don't mean anything until they become real. So texting him how you feel wouldn't be the right way. Just show him or man up and tell him in person.

I really would like to tell him in person, but I won't see him for like a month. And how do I show him?

teen.jpg
July 26th, 2013, 10:42 PM
1. Don't flirt over text. It looks really bad. Just do it in person.