Trust issues

[Kainesp2]

The other day I was about to have sex with a girl that I have spent A LOT of time with and we have been really close the last couple of years but just as we was getting ready my other friend came in and said babe what are you doing come downstairs where we can have some private time. I don't know what I should do since I think she may have been cheating on me (yes she is my girlfriend) and if so should I confront her about it since I know this can really damage a relationship and I honestly would break hundreds of relationships in return to keep mine with her. Has anyone got any suggestions?

[SammieRose]

So, you are saying your friend came up and took your girlfriend to another room or apartment? are you sure he's your friend? are you sure that girl and you are on a relationship? Cause:

1.- If the friend that took her away knows you two are in a relationship he will not have said that in front of you.
2.- seeing that you were both were getting ready, he would have excuse himself out.
3.- she would not have gone with him and leave you knowing she is cheating.

My thoughts are that the only relationship existed in your head and she never knew it was more than a good friendship; your friend actually did not know you were onto her; or actually all these is just made up and you are just wanting attention in the forums.

The whole story is fishy and hardly believable as it stands.

in case is true, are you sure you two agreed it was an exclusive relationship? Here in the states if you do not put that upfront, many people will think is an open relationship until one propose to go steady and exclusive. On open relationships it is not cheating to sleep with other people.

[Kainesp2]

Trust me the whole world knew that me and her were together and I would be pretty surprised if she thought different and I see where you are coming from saying its fishy and it doesn't fit right in my head either but I quickly went to go get some protection from the bathroom and whilst I was in there I heard a voice say as I said so I took a look and there my other friend was taking her out the room. It confuses me too since I don't understand why she would in a sense get ready for it then leave me for him even though we are together. I just seem to think of it as getting ready for a high five to been left hanging as she goes and gives somebody else a high five but thanks for the help anyway I may just have to confront them both.

[Plasma]

Its easier to believe when you add that second part in there...