I need some help

[moparman99]

Hi my name is Matt. I have some little issues i need to talk about. I am going into 9th grade this year and that's not my problem. I haven't had one girl friend. All of my Friends have girls but I don't. Girls what do you see in guys, im tired of being alone, my family is boring i have a few good buddies but i need a girl friend any advice at all is appreciated :)

[Swagging god]

are u looking for male or female advice or both?

[moparman99]

both

do you get a girl and what do they see in guys

Please don't double post/// Harry

[gra24]

Dude just calm down. I'm the same age as you and am going into 9th grade also, its really not that uncommon. I mean are you that creepy kid who sits in the corner and says creepy things?

[Jenny13]

So just find a girl you like being around and text her and find out about her and tell her she's pretty. And then ask her on a date

[teen.jpg]

I know how you feel, but the right person will come along eventually. It's not something you can rush.

[tarheelboy8888]

Dude, it's perfectly ok....I'm going into the 11th grade this year and I haven't ever had a girlfriend, much less done anything with one. I just don't see the point in having somebody that just takes your money all the time (just the way folks are at my school) and stuff. I am just gonna wait until a girl presents herself to me, for a relationship I mean

[Seth.]

My significant other is due to pure luck really. A matter of being in the right place at the right time. What do/did we look for in each other? Honesty, genuineness, loyalty, kindness, being easy to be with.

[ihavetoomanyerrors]

Hi my name is Matt. I have some little issues i need to talk about. I am going into 9th grade this year and that's not my problem. I haven't had one girl friend. All of my Friends have girls but I don't. Girls what do you see in guys, im tired of being alone, my family is boring i have a few good buddies but i need a girl friend any advice at all is appreciated :)

Hey man don't worry if you don't have a girlfriend. High school is full of drama and what not, just pace yourself and you'll find the right girl. Be patient you want to find the right girl not a person to hang around and eventually break up. And so what if your friends have girlfriends, I bet you their wallets 'love' them. But if you really want a girlfriend ask one of your friend's girlfriend to introduce you to one of their friends. That is probably the best way.

Another thing is look presentable and clean. Make sure you use deodorant and spray some cologne or AXE/Lyxn (don't overly spray it though). Dress nicely, girls like it when a guy dresses nicely (or that's just the girls I know).

You could also go into clubs, play musical instruments (piano or guitar preferably), do sports or go to social events with your friends and talk to girls there.

Another thing is don't wear your heart on your sleeve when you meet a girl you are genuinely interested in, don't be that guy who does everything for her. Girls want a challenge so don't be like *let me do this for you*; or you'll get friend-zoned. That is from my personal experience; but that's all I have to say.

[Kjack31]

I've never had a girlfriend either. Just look for a nice girl and ask her out if you want to.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[Obsidian]

I think that it's silly to feel like you have to have been in a relationship by a certain age. Relationships shouldn't depend on age, they should depend on whether or not you've found somebody that you are interested in dating. Why date someone for any other reason besides that you like them and want to be with them? It just seems pointless to me. When you find somebody that you're interested in, that's a good time to worry about being in a relationship. Not just because you're going into high school and you feel like everybody else has dated someone before.