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ValerieR10
July 25th, 2013, 01:59 AM
Update:
We are doing fine. Thanks for all the help and support. It really helped.
We just passed our Year Anniversary. On the 10th of this month, we will reach our Year and month anniversary. :3

imaguybro
July 25th, 2013, 04:19 AM
From what I read, hes nice to you. Then from what I read about the joking and the desperate thing, hes kinda of a jerk. But you love him. Hes probably going through a faze in which hes scared to do things with a girl, or maybe he never had a sexual girlfriend before and you you might be the first girl to do it with and hes scared that he might mess up and laugh at him. Or maybe hes not mature enough to say, ''im sorry'' and do the things you wanna do. If it is his first time with a girl (with you) you should say something on the lines.. ''I just wanna have fun and have fun with you. If you wont know how to do it, then ill teach you and wont tell no one.'' And then finally hes on the suicide part which is bad and he probably has that in his head, if he screws it up with you, life would be over. And from the desperate part, he might not be looking for a girl thats need sexual needs and just wants a normal relationship. Try and talk to him again with you and him alone and see whats wrong.

MoonMan
July 25th, 2013, 06:31 AM
His heart's in the right place, he's just a sarcastic asshole at times it seems. He says stupid shit, you retaliate with something deeper than he expected, and then he gets hurt. If he makes a sly remark again, try not reacting to it defensively, tell him those comments genuinely bother you, and maybe he'll start losing interest in doing it. You're 14 and, assuming you're dating within your age range, guys are unlikely to be mature at that age. He's going to have retarded slip of the tongue moments here and there, especially when it comes to sexual subjects, but there's obviously a reason you've stayed with him this long. Try talking to him in a more serious, yet reassuring manner and discuss these things with him. If you can't meet each other half way perhaps it wasn't meant to be. Besides, you've already lasted longer than 90% of couples I've seen your age.

ValerieR10
March 1st, 2014, 08:47 PM
Thank you all. Sorry I didn't get to read these but now I did finally and everything's fine. Plus we've already reached our year anniversary this year on February 10 (:

Dwemer
March 2nd, 2014, 08:14 PM
Glad to see your relationship is doing well

xban
March 4th, 2014, 07:57 PM
Thank you all. Sorry I didn't get to read these but now I did finally and everything's fine. Plus we've already reached our year anniversary this year on February 10 (:

Congratz on that.

ValerieR10
March 5th, 2014, 01:14 AM
Congratz on that.

Thanks (:

ValerieR10
March 5th, 2014, 01:15 AM
Glad to see your relationship is doing well

Thanks (: