View Full Version : Is snapchatting cheating?
Ohthatguy45
July 24th, 2013, 10:31 PM
Hey ppl so i am dating this girl for aboutt two weeks now and shes not the type of person to send pics or anythin and i am. Anyway a few days ago i felt lonely and physcially overlooked so i ask my friend fo snapchat me pics.... I feel really bad about it and its killing me inside knowin that i did it and i feel like i cheated but i also dont know if i should tell my girlfriend in case she dumps me....advice?
Origami
July 24th, 2013, 10:35 PM
If by "pictures" you mean pictures of a provocative nature, then some would consider that cheating (among other things). What you should do is based on your moral values.
A) Be a man and tell her and face the consequences of your actions.
or
B) Don't tell her, build a relationship on lies, and pray she never finds out. If she does find out, you're fucked.
It's that simple.
AyVannah
July 24th, 2013, 10:51 PM
Yes, it's cheating. Grow a pair, man up, and tell her.
I hate it when people do this!
Maybe if you would have just been PATIENT she would have showed you sometime or another. But no, you went to a friend.
That is never the right answer! :/ tell her.
Seth.
July 24th, 2013, 10:53 PM
Anything of such a nature you do behind the back of your significant other is cheating.
Harley Quinn
July 24th, 2013, 11:18 PM
If you feel lonely and physically overlooked, why don't you talk to her about it then? I mean that way you wouldn't be in this situation questioning whether or not you cheated. If you feel guilty then damn right you cheated. However, in this circumstance the best thing to do is be totally honest and openly admit to what you did. No one likes being lied to, the quicker you tell her before someone else does also, the better. But, I do hope this makes you realise that you can't just go around getting pictures from a friend and think nothing of it. Grow up, face it like a man and respect your girl please.
Meganium
July 24th, 2013, 11:52 PM
If by "pictures" you mean pictures of a provocative nature, then some would consider that cheating (among other things). What you should do is based on your moral values.
A) Be a man and tell her and face the consequences of your actions.
or
B) Don't tell her, build a relationship on lies, and pray she never finds out. If she does find out, you're fucked.
It's that simple.
It really doesn't get simpler than this. You need to tell her about this.
Swem
July 25th, 2013, 02:09 PM
Yes there is only a problem when she doesn't know or agree. You shouldnt have done iy without her knowing it or just you shouldnt have done it
Rayquaza
July 25th, 2013, 02:33 PM
Yes it is cheating, if you're going to continue to do that then you're not ready to stay in a committed relationship.
Cygnus
July 25th, 2013, 03:17 PM
If it is cheating or not depends on the content of the pictures. However Origami summed up what you have to do.
Fanta_Lover44
July 25th, 2013, 03:53 PM
This is cheating depending on what the pictures are, I would tell her what you've done before it comes from someone else....
DerBear
July 26th, 2013, 09:29 AM
I would take that as cheating, I mean you're giving out pictures of a sexual nature and receiving them so yes I would consider this some form of cheating. I personally think you're looking more out of this relationship or at least more forward in the relationship than she is.
The first thing you should do is speak and be open to your girlfriend and admit what you did and then see where this will take you. Not telling her runs the risk of her finding out by other sources and that will make things 100% worse and then she'll feel even more betrayed.
I also think you need to think about what you want in a relationship and if you can't respect that she's not into that stuff and wants to take things at a slower pace then maybe she isn't right for you.
Anyway the first step you should take is by admitting what you've done wrong and then work things out from their.
teen.jpg
July 26th, 2013, 10:47 PM
Just a helpful tip; if you have to ask if its cheating, its cheating.
britishboy
July 27th, 2013, 12:34 PM
you cheated, tell her because if she finds out otherwise you will be in more trouble, if I was her I will dump you
Troy35216
July 27th, 2013, 12:41 PM
first, trading nudie pics when you or the other person is a minor is illegal.
yes it's cheating
maybe you think you won't get caught. maybe you think you can trust this person. i bet Anthony Weiner thot the same thing. twice.
if you tell her she will dump you.
if you don't tell her she will find out anyway and dump you.
learn from your mistake. this relationship is doomed. your only chance is tell her and pray for mercy and then whey she dumps you anyway, don't do it again with your next gf.
sorry to sound so harsh but actions have consequences (ask Anthony Weiner)
BlueEyedFloridian
July 27th, 2013, 12:42 PM
Well maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship if you even think you might have cheated.
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