How to end a relationship?

[NikosamA98]

Hi! Im Aaron, 15, and i want to end a pseudo relationship with my almost boyfriend. Its kinda confusing because he is not my boyfriend, i dont like him (not even his personality. His body is ok but too short for me) but, we do sexual stuff. It all began with experimentation and then we agreed on being fuckbuddies (no penetration) . The thing is, he fell in love with me and after many times of telling him i didnt like him, i said "i kinda like you" and other stuff that made him have hopes again with me. I want to stop doing everything with him because im not curious anymore and i dont like him in any way. How do i end this pseudo relationship!? :confused:

( thanks for your help)

[Meganium]

Hi! Im Aaron, 15, and i want to end a pseudo relationship with my almost boyfriend. Its kinda confusing because he is not my boyfriend, i dont like him (not even his personality. His body is ok but too short for me) but, we do sexual stuff. It all began with experimentation and then we agreed on being fuckbuddies (no penetration) . The thing is, he fell in love with me and after many times of telling him i didnt like him, i said "i kinda like you" and other stuff that made him have hopes again with me. I want to stop doing everything with him because im not curious anymore and i dont like him in any way. How do i end this pseudo relationship!? :confused:

( thanks for your help)

Simply say, "I'm not interested in this anymore and I'm finished doing this." Or something along those lines. Explain that you're not interested in a relationship and taking your current arrangement any further.

[handle with care]

i can't really give you to much advice on this but the advice i can give you is at least end it face to face. tell him you want to stop doing sexual things because you are no longer curious that you don't have feelings for him.

[britishboy]

just say, im feeling uncomfortable with this, please can we end this? and can we stay friends?

[MoonMan]

Face to face, genuine statement that you're not interested in him romantically. Him becoming attached to you isn't entirely his fault, you stringing him along just for sexual convenience and then raising his hopes with the whole "I kinda of like you" leads to me giving you no sympathy. I wouldn't be surprised if you caught yourself in a webbing here and you two end up distant from one another by the end of this thing. Understand that humans have emotions and are rarely able to stay just "fuckbuddies" with something so intimate, even if you both agreed on it, emotions and feelings are more than likely to pop up.

[NikosamA98]

Well, I told him from the beginning I didn't like him. It all started with curiosity and it was just experimentation. In fact, I decided to do it because people in this forum told me that it was ok. The thing is... I was afraid of doing this stuff until I came to VT. We had some fights, I told him many times to stop doing it and that I didn't like him but he still wanted to do it. I talked with him yesterday and he explained why he wanted to keep doing stuff, apart of the fact that he liked me, he didn't want to lose me and my friendship, so he kept trying to "experiment". At this point, I wasn't curious anymore, I didn't want to do stuff, I was sick of his dirty talks (he asked me to watch pedo porn together. WTF?) and that's why I decided to end it once and for all. I didn't want to hurt him, that's why I came to VT :P. Thanks for the advise!