Anyone been abused / molested?

[ThisGuyKnows]

I was at one point, it was by another guy to, he was 3 years older. It happened when I was 10, and it was in a room full of 7 people, those 7 people never saw anything. No one found out, they had no idea what was going on. I'm 14 now. I don't stress over what happened, in fact I don't mind. I achieved my first orgasm from it. It was during a movie, and we were in a basement sharing a fouton with a blanket over us. He just kinda in the back, stretch my front. There was a blanket over us. Anyway point being, anyone else gone through a similar experience, or am I alone on it? And experimentation doesn't count.

[moonwolf9]

I don't think it is healthy to look at rape or sexual abuse as an acomplishment you might want to tell someone and go see a therapist, because even if it seems okay there is alot going in your mind and I can almost promise you that the experience you had will someday manifest its self negatively in your life. In addition the guy and the 7 who watched will do it again to someone else (who may not take it as well as you) if they think that there is not punishment for what they did.

[Swagging god]

I don't think he feels its a great accomplishment, I think he's just looking on the positive side of a terrible experience idk though

[DerBear]

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[ThisGuyKnows]

I don't think it is healthy to look at rape or sexual abuse as an acomplishment you might want to tell someone and go see a therapist, because even if it seems okay there is alot going in your mind and I can almost promise you that the experience you had will someday manifest its self negatively in your life. In addition the guy and the 7 who watched will do it again to someone else (who may not take it as well as you) if they think that there is not punishment for what they did.

I don't think he feels its a great accomplishment, I think he's just looking on the positive side of a terrible experience idk though

No I don't see it as an accomplishment at all. Swagging has it right. I'm just not brutally traumatized. I just wanna know how often kids are put through that situation. Not all 7 people knew, and they don't know to this day. It was during a movie, and we were sharing a couch and laying down, and he was, behind me, you know. There was a blanket over top. I guess I just knew the guy well. Now looking back, with the things he was saying during it, it was weird. Glad there family is moving across the country.

[Swagging god]

No I don't see it as an accomplishment at all. Swagging has it right. I'm just not brutally traumatized. I just wanna know how often kids are put through that situation. Not all 7 people knew, and they don't know to this day. It was during a movie, and we were sharing a couch and laying down, and he was, behind me, you know. There was a blanket over top. I guess I just knew the guy well. Now looking back, with the things he was saying during it, it was weird. Glad there family is moving across the country.

So he touched you while you were under a blanket? I've only ever known one other guy who was molested, but he looks back on it as an experience like you do maybe even enjoys it, he was like 17 when it happened and all she did was jump in the tub with him and touch him.

[Seth.]

When I was 10 a neighbor boy who was probably 14 used to suck my penis. I had no idea I was being molested. I just knew it felt incredibly good and thought of him as a really cool kid.

[AyVannah]

My foster sisters boyfriend used to make me watch porn with him when I was 6 and made me touch him and whatnot. I don't remember much about my younger years of 6.5-10 or 11, but i do remember being touched. Not raped, but touched inappropriately.

[uglyinsideandout]

Glad it wasn't a big deal to you. Maybe because it doesn't happen to you every night it doesn't seem too bad. Hope it doesn't come back and mess up your life later on.

[ThisGuyKnows]

Glad it wasn't a big deal to you. Maybe because it doesn't happen to you every night it doesn't seem too bad. Hope it doesn't come back and mess up your life later on.

I think its just the fact that I knew him really well. We were basically best friends. Also that it never hurt, it felt good. When I look back, he was wrong to do so, but I don't hate him because nothing bad actually came out if it.

[Yugen]

When I was younger my neighbor's kid who was a few months older than me would touch me a lot. Not all of the time, but a lot. It still haunts me.

[Croconaw]

I've been sexually assaulted if that counts.

[Abyssal Echo]

when I was about 5 1/2 I was molested by a 17 year old neighbor boy.
when I was 10-11 I was at a school for LD. I was molested there by several 15-17 year old boys.

[Silent Tears]

It happened multiple times, for years. It only recently stopped for me.

[jeremy96]

I have been sexual assaulted.

[suicidalbutter]

When I was six. It only happened once, but my innocence was forever lost. I still have flashbacks, I wake up every morning remembering that night. I have nightmares. The thought practically taunts me all day, every day.

[LouBerry]

When I was 5, my mom has this boyfriend. And she was stuck with him, because she hot pregnant.

Every morning, he would call me out to his back porch and he would molest me. And I didn't understand what it was or what was happening, so I never told. Then when I was six, he raped me. My mom died a few months later, and I never saw him again.

[Luminous]

I have not, and I am extremely grateful about that. Not everyone is that fortunate.

[Mystery33]

A family friend did to me repeatedly for over a year. I was about ten, he was 14. I eventually told my mum and then the drama spread around our family like gossip (which is why I dont tell her anything anymore). I'm not really traumatised by it either, I knew what was going on and he wasn't trying to hurt me or anything. Sometimes I think its the reason why I'm so incredibly dirty minded.

[RonDane]

It was actually around two months ago when my dad's friend came over (he's 28 years old). And some other friends. And it coincidentally came out that we need to sleep in the same bed due to lack of numbers of bed (it was quite a big crowd) and it was 3 am when I "accidentally" hugged him. (I tend to hug anything near me) and I just woke when he put his hand on my butt (squishing it and stuff) I didn't react because I was scared. After that he made me lick his nipples and then i just suddenly felt my hands going down to his thing ._. I felt a bit weird at the same time with pleasure ._.

[qert4321]

Thankfully no

[harley95]

I was molested by my ex-step brother when I was 10 or 11 don't find it traumatizing but I know it happened and it doesn't really affect my life

[justin 13]

I was bullied from some guys in my school. They called me faggot cuz my long hair, I HAD to fight they replied back hard, I got a suspension, my Dad told me to cut my girly hair style.

[enriqueroxx]

My dentist used to touch me and press my breasts.He made it look like an accident every time.....Once he even made me spread my legs and sit cuz he "couldn't see my teeth properly".I was 10 and I didn't realise what was happening...He happened to be a family friend so I was scared to tell my parents:( I regret it now.

[Katiya]

Yes. I'm still virgin though. Thankful for that. It happened in a few places outside my home and it were powerful people so I couldn't tell anyone BC they'd never go away for it and I'dbe llabeled crazy. I just have to live with it. Its not that bad to me, other things that I've gone through are Much worse to me.

[Kylecolby]

I am lucky enough to have never been

[Wyatt 13]

I was molested. I don't know what to feel about it. Never shared this stuff with anyone this is the first time here, on a safe place. I was 10 y.o we were in a tent in an trip. There were like 3 or 5 kids my age and two older guys. One was my uncle he is 27 y.o the other was his friend, I guess he was like 22 or 23 y.o I don't know for sure. Well the shit happened, one nite we were sleeping he woke me up and force me to touch him and asked me to give him head, then he blew me then he tried to fuck me but he couldn't. The think is I was so Idiot cuz this guy was always so nice helping me with everything, and he was not rude I mean I didn't feel like he was aggressive or whatever, anyway happened just that nite, my uncle never knew about it. I didn't say anything. Well finally said it.

[Amazerful]

When I was 12-13 a 17 year old family friend used to touch me inappropriately, it only stopped when my mom found out, this honestly hasn't affected my life, its not like I can change the past or anything

[Charlie48]

yepp

[puffmylife]

Mind reporting what happened to the authorities? I mean that's rape then why tolerate, those people will not stop what they do unless they get busted.

[Dark Unicorn]

Oh wow.I'm sorry to hear all your horror stories.

[Lofiel]

It is pretty sad to see how common this is....

[Hiallforu]

Yea abused

[Hiallforu]

14 years old

[Living For Love]

No, fortunately not.

[Celtic.]

molested. A cousin made me touch his penis and he stroked mine. I never got over it until a few years ago. He hung himself because somebody was molesting him

[The Trendy Wolf]

Yes. I'm still virgin though. Thankful for that. It happened in a few places outside my home and it were powerful people so I couldn't tell anyone BC they'd never go away for it and I'dbe llabeled crazy. I just have to live with it. Its not that bad to me, other things that I've gone through are Much worse to me.

You wouldn't be labeled as crazy. You need to tell someone, especially your parents. Power cannot overcome the law, no matter what you may think, you simply cannot let them get away with whatever they did.

[tisser]

Yeah, when I was maybe 6 or 7. Went over to a friend's house and his brother was visiting and while my friend was watching TV, he led me into another room and started rubbing me and making me rub him. All I can remember. He ended up hanging himself last year while he was in jail.

[thorn]

Thankfully no

[Croconaw]

I've been abused

[Pulp501]

When I was really young I was once, by a stranger. I have nightmares a lot. I'm constantly reminded of it. But for about 9 years I never thought about it. Recently the memories came back to me, and never left.

[AlexOnToast]

Yes I was, I was 11 and he was 15. It was a very ... effecting experience, and I don't really want to go into detail

[jacktvv]

Once when my cousin came to sleep over he was at the end of the bed, and i was at the other end. He told me it was cold (It was snowing) so he just went to the middle of the bed with me and he got really close to me & i was sleeping. I can remember few things that happened that night, my hand was on his penis & i was like really turned on i heard his voice whispering "Fuck Me" i was freak out i then went back to sleep right away. I woke up in the middle of the night for like 1/2 mins and thats what i remember that happened that night.

[billys-big-gun]

I have it started at 4 with our baby sitter who was 29 at the time and lasted a long time till i think 12-13 every day and night cause my mom worked nights and my dad drives truck over the road so he is gone all the time

[geetry]

Yep, I've been abused.

[Gottaloveaginger14]

I wasmolested and raped for over 4 years by my father, step mom and their "clients". Essentially my dad would let men pay to do whatever they wanted to me. And then about 2 years ago i was raped by the guy I was in a serious long term relationship with. so no you're not alone.