Questioning...

[southernguy]

I have always grown up in an environment where everyone is straight, so naturally, I've grown up liking girls. However, especially lately now that I'm making a lot of my own decisions, I'm noticing that I'm also attracted to some guys. I'm still attracted to girls, but now there are guys thrown in the mix as well.

For example, I was at a camp this summer and this guy who is gay started to hit on me. Normally, I would just take it as a compliment and move on, which I did in this scenario, but I couldn't help but have some feelings back.

I guess what I'm trying to get at is, is this just one of those "I'm curious about my own gender" phases, or am I actually bisexual or pan sexual, etc.? It's something I'm really not sure about...

[beautiful__disaster]

You sound bi-curious to me. Are these feelings you have sexual or emotional? Or both?

[southernguy]

You sound bi-curious to me. Are these feelings you have sexual or emotional? Or both?

A little bit of both. Like, personality has to be compatible before I go any further into an attraction.

[Abyssal Echo]

sounds like hormones and being curious

[beautiful__disaster]

A little bit of both. Like, personality has to be compatible before I go any further into an attraction.

Yeah, I think you might be bi-curious. I also went through a phase like that

[britishboy]

you will be fine:) and for most this is just a phrase and if your gay, so what?:)

[imaguybro]

Your bi-curious and its normal. Its a faze your going through because your body is changing.

[southernguy]

you will be fine:) and for most this is just a phrase and if your gay, so what?:)

Your bi-curious and its normal. Its a faze your going through because your body is changing.


Now, then, my next question would be is would it be normal to want to date another guy to see if that's exactly what I'm into?

[britishboy]

Now, then, my next question would be is would it be normal to want to date another guy to see if that's exactly what I'm into?

if your curious then yes it is normal, however I recommend you know your emotions before getting dates

[imaguybro]

Now, then, my next question would be is would it be normal to want to date another guy to see if that's exactly what I'm into?

Yes, it is normal to date another guy if your curious. Just make sure, the other guy is good with it.

[southernguy]

if your curious then yes it is normal, however I recommend you know your emotions before getting dates

Ok, thanks!

Yes, it is normal to date another guy if your curious. Just make sure, the other guy is good with it.

So just like make sure that whoever I date knows that they're almost an experimental boyfriend to see if I like it or not and they understand my situation?

[imaguybro]

[/QUOTE]So just like make sure that whoever I date knows that they're almost an experimental boyfriend to see if I like it or not and they understand my situation?[/QUOTE]

Yes, exactly.

[britishboy]

the last thing you want to do is get a bf only to find out your straight

[southernguy]

the last thing you want to do is get a bf only to find out your straight

Well, I guess you never know unless you try, right? ;)

[teen.jpg]

It doesn't matter. You'll find your label when you're sure of it.

[Ruairi]

Yea I think you're just curious dude, nothing wrong with that

[Unsubscribed]

I'm having the same prob, it's just I'm finding guys really attractive. Lol

[southernguy]

I'm having the same prob, it's just I'm finding guys really attractive. Lol

Exactly! Now are you just finding them attractive or are you taking their personalities into consideration and stuff?

[Unsubscribed]

I've never confronted a guy like that before...

[southernguy]

Ok, so I've decided that I'm going to actually try and seek out a relationship with the guy at camp, but because he still thinks I'm exclusively straight, conversation is awkward right now. We're texting alot because we only see each other every once in a while, so does anyone have any tips on how exactly to approach the white elephant in the room subtly over text...?

[Zanman11]

You're probably just a little curious...I wouldn't go and say that you're full out gay but you have a little bit of curiosity for yourself

[Seth.]

So just like make sure that whoever I date knows that they're almost an experimental boyfriend to see if I like it or not and they understand my situation?

I'm gay and I'd go for that if I found him attractive and I didn't have a BF. I don't want to profess "gaydar" but I can usually tell once I get to know someone.

Ok, so I've decided that I'm going to actually try and seek out a relationship with the guy at camp, but because he still thinks I'm exclusively straight, conversation is awkward right now. We're texting alot because we only see each other every once in a while, so does anyone have any tips on how exactly to approach the white elephant in the room subtly over text...?

My suggestion is not to play games. You can be subtle, but don't try any tricks.

[Luminous]

Tell him you're bi curious, and then the next day or whatever hit on him, lol that should make your point

[southernguy]

Ok, so update time!

I was talking to him (the guy I like), and I told him the truth about me being bi, and he's gay, so he obviously accepted that. He started to ask me who I liked, and I told him that I didn't want to tell him yet, and he started asking more questions like "Do I know him??" and stuff like that. My next question is, what should I do? Thing is, I do really like him, but he's dating another guy right now, and I've just never been in this position before.... any help would be appreciated! :)

[Unsubscribed]

Tell him that it's somebody at that camp, and that you're talking to him right now?