School mistake

[Will1997]

Hey guys,
Last year, I did a big mistake in school. I told a friend on facebook that I wanted to have sex with this one popular girl from school. Unfortunatly, my friend send the conversation to that girl and to people in school. SHe pretty much hated me all year long and people that didnt know me called me a rapist. I have put all that in m back and now I'm thinking how about I'm going to make good impression next year. I don't want people to have that same opinion.
PS: I'm in high school and I'm 16.

[LouBerry]

Well, just make sure you treat girls with respect. If you are just wanting to use girls for sex, they will know, and people will not like you.

[hyperkid99]

Yeah you have to be very careful what you tell other people. Lou couldn't have said it better!!

[Castle of Glass]

Yea. i can't trust anyone on my facebook because of this. just keep that sort of stuff to yourself, and what lou said.

[Will1997]

Thank you for your replies! But do you have any clue on how I could have a fresh start next year?

[LouBerry]

Thank you for your replies! But do you have any clue on how I could have a fresh start next year?

Like I said, don't be the kind of guy who people don't like. Treat people like they should be treated.

[SuperSamson]

ahhhh this is classic. just be you. you are in high school. there are so many groups/ cliques whatever you can hang with. I am personally a true prep who has gone to prep academies every summer. We try to make friends with everybody so i hangout with everybody and help everybody.

[Allain1996]

Hey guys,
Last year, I did a big mistake in school. I told a friend on facebook that I wanted to have sex with this one popular girl from school. Unfortunatly, my friend send the conversation to that girl and to people in school. SHe pretty much hated me all year long and people that didnt know me called me a rapist. I have put all that in m back and now I'm thinking how about I'm going to make good impression next year. I don't want people to have that same opinion.
PS: I'm in high school and I'm 16.

Well, first of all, I wouldn't be calling that person a "friend" but more like a "traitor little bitch" if I were you, but that's just me.
Come the start of school, just try to move on, make new friends that aren't people that need a zipper put on their mouth, and try to not be seen anywhere near this "popular" girl! ;)

[Zanman11]

Wow you're in a situation!! Just defend your ground, apologize and be you... This will eventually blow over. Good luck man!!

[Castle of Glass]

didn't you already create a thread like this, or is this deja vu?

[SammieRose]

Hey guys,
Last year, I did a big mistake in school. I told a friend on facebook that I wanted to have sex with this one popular girl from school. Unfortunatly, my friend send the conversation to that girl and to people in school. SHe pretty much hated me all year long and people that didnt know me called me a rapist. I have put all that in m back and now I'm thinking how about I'm going to make good impression next year. I don't want people to have that same opinion.
PS: I'm in high school and I'm 16.

I'm sorry your "friend" back-stabbed you, but the reaction you got from her was normal, she got freaked out, but the part about people calling you a rapist, that was harsh and unworthy of your offence. You did not do anything sexual to her, you just desire her. Sorry Lou, but it is quite common for straight guys 16 and up to want to have sex with a girl around or over their age, raging hormones and stuff. Back on topic, unless she's like 12, nothing out of the ordinary happened there.

Next semester, I will say stand your ground against those calling you a rapist, your actions might have been ones of a pervert if you had stalked her and gotten stuff from her to masturbate to, but I guess you did not, so you were just being a 16yrs old straight horny male at that moment.

You can say, "I was horny and you cannot denied she is quite desirable."

Let me ask one more thing that I just thought about, and is what did you actually say in the message?

If you gave a full detail of how you were going to have sex with her, and you told it in a way that it sounded like forced sex, aka rape, then you might have a bigger problem with the name calling issue and all you can do is wait for it to wear off.

That is my 2c.

[DerBear]

A good tip to remember for online is don't say anything you wouldn't want your grandmother or a family retaliative seeing.

Basically avoid doing things like that.

[Luminous]

You have the right attitude. Just keep your head up high and don't let people bother you. Only two years (or a year?) until it's over. You can make new mistakes in college.

[Cygnus]

People will forget it in time, don't worry. However make sure you never say that again and just be a person who respects absolutely everyone.

[Arsenalfan123]

I had this nearly happen so I know your feeling

[KrystalBear98]

yeah you gotta keep that stuff private

[DerBear]

Thread has been merged, please avoid creating multiple threads of the same question in the future.

[teen.jpg]

Try to apologize for it? Try to act like a better person, and people should move on from it eventually. If they don't, then don't waste your time with their opinions.

[RAGE DJ]

That's my number one rule in school: Never tell anything you don't what to spread. It's can be even a good friend that you tell and they just use it to start a conversation with someone. Not gonna I find myself doing it even when i try not to.