Could I be bi?

[beautiful__disaster]

I am a girl and used to have a crush on two of my best friends.(who are girls) I've never felt any desire to have sex with a girl, but I had pretty strong feelings for them. What do you think?

[thewhiteyeezus]

Well you dont always have to want to have sex with someone to have feelings, like for example i had a crush on this one girl ( im a guy ) and didnt want to have sex with her, just a relationship. And if you have feelings that usually means a relationship, so yes it sounds like you are bi

[Victory]

You really just have do some soul searching I guess. Are the feelings you have for these girls actually a sort of romantic, sexual, or sensual attraction, or do you just really want to be their friend? The only thing you can do is go with the flow... Continue to be their friend, and your feelings should become more clear to you. Honestly, if you have to ask, I think you may actually have a crush on these girls, and yeah I suppose that makes you bi if you're attracted to the same sex like that, but embrace it! Those feelings are lovely, whether it be for a boy or a girl :D

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Don't even worry about the label for now. Not until you figure out what you are.

Remember, they only put labels on food when they're sure it's right. :)

[beautiful__disaster]

You really just have do some soul searching I guess. Are the feelings you have for these girls actually a sort of romantic, sexual, or sensual attraction, or do you just really want to be their friend? The only thing you can do is go with the flow... Continue to be their friend, and your feelings should become more clear to you. Honestly, if you have to ask, I think you may actually have a crush on these girls, and yeah I suppose that makes you bi if you're attracted to the same sex like that, but embrace it! Those feelings are lovely, whether it be for a boy or a girl :D

Well like I said, I've never felt any sexual attraction towards them. I told a friend of mine and they think it's just a phase. the thought of having sex with a girl is off putting to me.

[Victory]

Well like I said, I've never felt any sexual attraction towards them. I told a friend of mine and they think it's just a phase. the thought of having sex with a girl is off putting to me.


ah, it seems innocent enough then :D you might just have strong emotional feelings towards friends, which is awesome. I think it's kind of hard to find.

[beautiful__disaster]

ah, it seems innocent enough then :D you might just have strong emotional feelings towards friends, which is awesome. I think it's kind of hard to find.

I guess that could be a possibility. and I apologize if saying having sex with a girl is off putting is offensive, I have nothing against bi or gay people.

[Victory]

I guess that could be a possibility. and I apologize if saying having sex with a girl is off putting is offensive, I have nothing against bi or gay people.

Hey, you can't help what you like or don't like ;) no offense taken!

[Ruairi]

I know how you feel but I think you may just love these people as good friends because they have been nice and kind to you however you may not ever know unless you have that first kiss! I hope this helped and if you have any other questions for me then don't be afraid to ask :)

[beautiful__disaster]

I know how you feel but I think you may just love these people as good friends because they have been nice and kind to you however you may not ever know unless you have that first kiss! I hope this helped and if you have any other questions for me then don't be afraid to ask :)

Well, I haven't ever really thought about kissing them

[Ruairi]

Well, I haven't ever really thought about kissing them

Then i'm 96% sure that you feel so close to them because of how good they are to you and also because you enjoy being around them as friends :D
I hope this helped and if you have any other questions you want to fire my way don't be shy :)

[beautiful__disaster]

Then i'm 96% sure that you feel so close to them because of how good they are to you and also because you enjoy being around them as friends :D
I hope this helped and if you have any other questions you want to fire my way don't be shy :)

Thanks so much for your help! :)

[Ruairi]

Thanks so much for your help! :)

No problem :)