Has This Ever Happened Before?

[Beachgirl1]

My 14 year old cousin was visiting us from Jacksonville this pass week and something felt a little weird. Her parents are pretty strict and definitely are in denial of her growing up. As expected, the issue of swimwear come up since me and my mom are really into our g-strings. The three of us were by our pool, me and my mom in our g-strings and my cousin in her pink one-piece. My cousin started to ask us a lot of questions about our choice of suits and my mom suggested that I let her borrow one of mine. We went to my room and I asked her what kind she wanted to try on since I have like 50 or more. She suprised me when she said she wanted something sexy like mine and I gave her a tiny pink g-string bottom to try-on. I noticed she was completely shaved which is good so she was'nt going to be embarrassed about hair. She seemed to like it and it fit her pretty good but I suggested she try another one on just to make sure. As she was taking-off the pink one I noticed she was really, really excited because her juice was really clear and stringy and was like 6 inches long. She was really embarrassed and I said it was no big deal because it happens to me all the time. I handed her a black g-string which she liked and headed back to the pool with my mom. What is so weird to me was I got soooo super wet walking down the stairs from my room I excused myself to go to the bathroom to wipe then masturbated. So my concern was what made me so wet. My first thought is I might be a lesbian or worse I'm lusting over my cousin who just turned 14. I'm pretty sure I still like guys but this is worrisome to me. Has anyone else been in a similiar situation?

[Jenny jr]

I don't think you are a lesbian just because you got excited. I guess your not used to being in that kind of situation and it made you a little excited. I think it was very sweet of you to help out your cousin like that. I bet it made her day!

[CatieBi]

It does not make you lesbian just because you got excited and mbated afterwards, it was still nice what you did.

[Luminous]

I think you just got turned on cause she was turned on, I don't think that means you're a lesbian if only happened once

[Farmgirl101]

If u want to find out ask her when u are alone to go to your room and talk about it it has happened to me I sex with girls it's normal ask if she feels the same and if she does ask if she wants to have a little fun

[Beachgirl1]

Marybeth, she's my cousin and she's only14. So no I don't want to make-out with her.

[ElliEvens]

Well I don't think this is a big deal and it doesn't make you a lesbian but just so I know, would you think there is something wrong with being a lesbian? I don't mean with your cousin. I mean in general? Anyway, I think you got aroused at the sight, thought, smell, situation in its entirety of being that aware of someone else being that excited. Nothing more! Just my guess.

[Amy15kitty]

it is no big deal on getting excited. I say keep your options open

[SammyG17]

Marybeth, she's my cousin and she's only14. So no I don't want to make-out with her.

Have you even read these forums? If that's all she has against her, you are like 100% clear to do whatever with her.

Really though, I've played around with my cousins since I was 11. Boys and girls. It was just one of those things that was natural. Ok that sounded kinda lame, but I can't give details, so I was just sharing that tidbit. Now for the science!

Humans are known as a type of great ape. Ape, actually means (seriously, look this up) to mimic. We learn, by seeing and doing. Example - Move to a new region of your country, and you suddenly start learning to talk with that accent. Maybe not all your words, but sometimes it will show. Your situation isn't unique, or an exception to this rule of being an ape.

Your cousin - Teenager. You - teenager. Teenager = hormones, feelings, chaos, horny, emotions, curiosity, experimentation, confusion, etc. Your cousin was turned on for any number of reasons, most likely, doing something sexy in front of someone else. If she lives a "sheltered" life, she has that much more drive to get out and try things. In this case, maybe her mom is too hardcore with her friends, but as her cousin you are "safe" and she relaxed enough to get turned on. Maybe it was just random. Maybe it was everything...I can only guess at the common things. Hell, maybe it was even you. Being 99% naked next to another person...I'd be more worried about if the person near you WASN'T getting turned on. So anyway, for whatever reason she got wet. You saw that, and then your body had a series of chain reactions that followed seeing that, that culminated in you getting turned on too. You were a mimic to her. This is why porn works for so many people. They "pretend" to be in the scene, and mimic the emotions/actions of what they are seeing.

I'm sure she has questions. I'd suggest being open to things, because you might be the only one who can answer them. And you are family, so it is safe. Cousin or not, she is a girl, she is a person. Cousin is just a title anyway. I'd feel honored if my cousin was trying to open up with me, especially if she was in as closed environment as you say. Besides, having someone else give you a hand has its rewards.

[KrystalBear98]

yeah that doesn't mean you're a lesbian. you just got excited that's all

[Sarah_Ward]

I agree with all the other girls here, just coz you got excited knowing that she was excited too dosnt mean that your a lesbian its just knowing that someone else is feeling that amazing tingle. :)

[jazyckovami]

Of course it doesn't mean your're a lesbian, you need to calm down ;) I've been fooling aroung with my female cousin for years and actually had my first orgams with her, and that's not uncommon for girls! It still gets me wet thinking about it, but I'm not ever trading for my boyfriend ;)