dating older guys?

[Jessica14]

well im 14 and i have a huge crush on my older brothers friend he's 20. he comes over to my house to hang out with my brother and i sometimes hang out with them so i know him and i know he is sweet and so hot!!!!!!:wub: what should i do?

[Jessica14]

well i live with my mom and she dont care about who i date im just wodering if its wierd that i want to have sex with him and that i wanna date him and i want to know if he is to old for me

[Jessica14]

well it is illegal but my mom doesnt mind me dating him

[chlo]

I've had sex with older men and I've dated an older guy before, I was 16 and he was 25, I don't personally see a problem with dating older guys. You might want to be careful though, sometimes people get the wrong impression which could get him in a lot of trouble.

[emily-candace]

I would NEVER date a guy that is that much older than me and if you have sex with him, Im pretty sure that is sexual assault of a teen under the age of 17. He's even too old for me and Im 17.

[Charara]

It's illegal yes but in my opinion you should do what makes you happy. My boyfriend is 26 therefore he's 10 years older than me, we've been together a year and 2 months and I couldn't be any happier with him!

- My mum wasn't happy about the age gap but she really likes him so suppose she's fine with it.

[honeybear]

my last three boyfriends have all been at least 8-10 years older than me (I'm currently 17) each situation is different but if you are mature enough and are aware of the possible consequences but you still want to do it go for it...when I was 14 I had a bf who was 23...my mom knew we were sleeping together and it didn't bother her....just be careful

[Jennythethird]

Its really up to you everyones parents will react differently, your brother would probably kill him too if he finds out you both slept

[kentucky girl]

I really don't see anything wrong with it even if it is really illegal. I have been with guys a lot older than me.

[Taryn98]

I'm not really one to date much older guys but I have been known to fool around with a few.

[Zsofia]

To be honest for me there is really no limit by age... it means nothing to me if the person makes me horny, I'd go for it.

[bubble .]

I've always liked older guys. But 1.) In your mid or early teens, its never good to go out with someone more then two years older then you, 2.) If he's over eighteen, its generally illegal & 3.) if he's interested back, he may not be able to get a girlfriend his own age. He could be too controlling ect.

[jheaven96]

I love older guys too. they seem to know how to treat girls better

[Sandra Main]

I agree with these girls.
Just becareful.
Older guys can be fun.but when they get the wrong idea it could turn bad.
Just use caution when thing get heated up

[suicidalbutter]

I don't think you are mature enough to be in a relationship with a 20 yr old, nothing against you. I just don't think 14 yr olds have that mentality. You guys aren't close enough in age range. he'd be basically taking the last of your innocence away.

The crush is not weird, you aren't weird for having the thoughts you are having. It just would be completely illegal and against his better judgment to date you. He could go to jail for a very long time if he ever did anything sexual with you.

[Croconaw]

It's not really my thing. I like younger! :D

[RakshaMalayka]

Generally depends on maturity but I personally have never bee. With someone more than 3 years older than me. He being 18 and I 15, just if you go there hope it ends better than mine did. And its also illegal in most places due to age gap and him being over 18

[TinyDancer]

I prefer guys in high school like me. Doesn't matter what grade they're in. When I'm a senior I might feel differently.

[melissa13]

I love older guys, age is not a big deal for me.

[Harley Quinn]

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