Need girls help!

[Crissi]

So my bf and me just had our first experience with a threesome. He suggested it, and I've always wanted to so I went along with it. But it just made me realize that I really like girls more than dudes. I mean I've always thought girls were sexy and I've done a lot of stuff with them. But I think I could be with a girl. I know this probably sounds horrible but I'm really thinking about leaving Tim for the girl we were with (a really good friend of mine at that). WHAT SHOULD I DO????? advice please!!!!!!!

[honeybear]

you probably want to take it slow..experimentation would be a good idea here before you do anything drastic...most importantly if you care about your bf discuss this with him...it would be the fair thing to do.

[Harley Quinn]

So my bf and me just had our first experience with a threesome. He suggested it, and I've always wanted to so I went along with it. But it just made me realize that I really like girls more than dudes. I mean I've always thought girls were sexy and I've done a lot of stuff with them. But I think I could be with a girl. I know this probably sounds horrible but I'm really thinking about leaving Tim for the girl we were with (a really good friend of mine at that). WHAT SHOULD I DO????? advice please!!!!!!!

I think you should relax, personally. Yeah you had a sexual experiance and you like it and you think you like girls, that's okay but it's a huge leap to leave your boyfriend over it. I think you need to talk to him about what happened that day/night and your feelings towards it. Then, you need to also talk to the girl involved and if she feels the same way that you do, go from there.

[Taryn98]

This is why people shouldn't have 3somes while in relationship. It never works out. Save the 3somes for fun times while you're single.
But in your case just follow your heart and do what makes you happy.

[Moondust]

Girl, try staying away from threesomes. I mean, I'm not telling you how to live, but you'll really end up a lot better if you keep to 1 person as a partner. If you want to date a girl, go right ahead, but try doing nothing too extreme and just relax and get to know her.

[Jenny13]

Do you want to break up with your bf? You could just develope a close relationship with the girl as a friend and if your straight relationship ends up jot working out then just ask the girl.... Idk I'm just thinking out loud

[ElliEvens]

Well this is a tough one for me cause like i go both ways. like breaking up with your bf is sad and like do you know if this other girl feels the same way? But like also it's not right to stay with your bf if you don't feel the same about him either. So like this is one of those cases where you just gotta be honest with yourself and everyone else i think.

[CatieBi]

I don't have a quick answer but as the others said threesomes do bring other emotions then just two but you might just be curious you don't have to break up with your bf just because you've had these feelings

[PandaLeah]

I had this same realization a few years ago

Speak with your boyfriend there is no easy way to break it to a person ...



So my bf and me just had our first experience with a threesome. He suggested it, and I've always wanted to so I went along with it. But it just made me realize that I really like girls more than dudes. I mean I've always thought girls were sexy and I've done a lot of stuff with them. But I think I could be with a girl. I know this probably sounds horrible but I'm really thinking about leaving Tim for the girl we were with (a really good friend of mine at that). WHAT SHOULD I DO????? advice please!!!!!!!

[Victory]

It sounds like you may just really be craving a woman's touch again, to put it as innocently as I can, lol... You don't want to end a relationship with your boyfriend because you think you're only into girls but then realize a few months after you miss sex with guys.

BUT, it does sound like you may not be into your boyfriend anymore. I say tell him you want to try new things and that it'd be best to be out of the relationship for it. And then, go exploring girl! hehe. You don't have to be in a relationship to have fun with people you're physically attracted to. Just be safe and sensible about it, and you'll learn a lot about yourself.

[Sierra_Kompsi]

I've been with both boys and girls and i love them both (girls more) but if you enjoy both then be bisexual. There's nothing wrong with it, just need to find a balance.

[chanara98]

It could be that you like both boys and girls, which is fine. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to a friend, but you need to ask who you love, or care about, more. Is it your boyfriend or her?

[emily-candace]

it sounds to me like he likes doing your girlfriend, why didn't he invite another boy to the group for you to experience with. I think you got the short end of the stick. and yes leaving him may be the best for you.

[Shortie]

I guess I would do whatever makes me happy bit don't go cheating on anyone. I mean if you want to be with this girl, end the relationship you're in first.

[Swimmie]

I wouldnt like to be your bf right now....

[anastanes]

Go with your heart, be open with your boyfriend tell him what you want. I find it hard now to go back to guys after being with more girls.

[kitten13]

take slow.

kim