My breasts

[Jenny13]

I take home schooling first of all. I have a club that I go to with other homeschooling in my county. All of the other girls in the group have bigger breasts than I do. It seems to me that all the boys hang out with the girls with big breasts. I want the guys to hang out with me too. What should I do?

[ValerieR10]

lol just talk to them. they dont like you, leave. who cares if you
dont have" boobs

[Juana]

I don't know how big your breasts are, but there also boys who don't look only to breasts. on your picture you're looking good, so try to talk to some guys, that will help.

:)

[Moondust]

If they only like girls for their bodies, they're perverts who don't deserve you. Find someone who actually cares about personality and romance, not your body. If you want guys to hang out with you, do something boyish. Act a bit more like one and don't squeal if you see a bug.
You're going to have to wait a few years before being an adult, so enjoy having fun more, like going to the movies or trying out soft ball. Enjoy teen years, don't waste them looking fir love in guys like that. The perfect guy will come, for now, just be friends with the ones who support you and don't care about what you look like.

[TinyDancer]

Be friendly. Talk and laugh with everyone. Enjoy being you. Guys like girls that are happy and fun.

[Jenny13]

Omg you all are soooooo nice :-)
Thanks for the advice....
I feel like people really care about me on this site

[Wanderer_]

You look gorgeous - they are probably just too shy and find it isnt as hard to talk to the big boobed easy girls that go to them

[Jenny13]

Here is a link on youtube with the same thing you should probably see it and if they dont like you they have to be blind by the way you're really cute

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HErdtVkR3Nw

Thanks

[Jenny jr]

You shouldn't worry about it baby girl. Try and be more social if anything but if guys don't want to talk to you because you have small boobs then they clearly aren't the people you should be with.

[Jenny13]

You shouldn't worry about it baby girl. Try and be more social if anything but if guys don't want to talk to you because you have small boobs then they clearly aren't the people you should be with.

Lol baby girl hahaha.... Thanks for the advice....

[ElliEvens]

I think that guys are stupid and pretty superficial so don't worry about it just be you and fun and talk to them and it will be fine. I have friends that have bigger boobs and smaller and it doesn't matter. I have lots of guy friends it's all about attitude to me.

[Jenny13]

I just feel like they stay away from me and i thought it's because I'm small... Or a ginger lol. ^_^

[emily-candace]

Your only 13 don't worry about it, I didn't have real boobs until I was 15 I had puffies until then and I'm still only a 34B now. boys just want to take your bra off and get in you panties, just be a little hard to get and you will be fine. just don't give in too easily because the boys look at other girls rather than you. it's just their hormones growing.

[CatieBi]

It may be your just not opening yourself to other people, you should try and join the others and if you get rejected from the group it's no big deal I'm sure you can find better people :)

[Jenny13]

I feel like if I try to talk to them I'd get really embarrassed. It's hard to admit but I tried to talk in a group when I was 11 and i was so bad at fitting in that I couldn't say anything else. I felt so embarrassed. They asked me if I was OK but I couldn't say anything. I just can't talk to people in real life. Idk y online I guess it feels like less of an intimate conversation. This is really hard and I want to feel comfortable talking with people but I can't start conversation even. I feel like if I had a more attractive body people would like me more. If I had bigger breasts then people would want to start conversation with me. It's so embarrassing to say all this and I hope someone goes through the same thing I do. I want to feel better because I hate crawling into bed at night and crying for an hour and cutting myself.

[Luminous]

oh, jenny, i'm sorry:( that's not the right thing to say is it. ugh. I'm sorry that anyone has to go through something like that. I have for a very long time not been accepted by my peers, and I think itmay very well be because I am short and small chested and I have a childish face. I have learned to accept that people are judgemental and have moved on, we'll all be dead one day anyways so might as well have more fun and less sadness.

[Jenny13]

Sometimes I don't think that people are judgemental o just think that I can't have a conversation or talk to them so there's no point in them talking to me cause I'll just get embarrassed and not be able to say anything.

[Magenta]

Hon, you are so not alone in this. The one thing that's nice when you're older though is you can come to sites like these and hopefully have an answer for someone your age now. Anyway, that being said, boys your age? They're weird. :P Everyone changes so much when they're a teenager and just entering that part of their life. Boys your age are starting to see girls they know have breasts for the first time just as they're starting to learn more about themselves and all that jazz. So yeah, younger boys can be like that and think big boobs are the greatest thing. But not all boys are like that and some grow out of it too. It's almost like... hm. When you're younger and suddenly that scrawny little boy you knew when you were ten suddenly grew a foot and a half and has some muscle when you come back from summer break (holy crap, you wouldn't believe what the summer between grade 10 and 11 does to boys somehow). You may not even like muscle or really tall guys later on but it's new and you're experimenting with all this stuff.

When you get older and start making friends, no one cares what size your boobs are or what colour your hair is. Maybe if it's someone who is looking to date you, yeah, they'll care a bit more but that's normal. For now, if someone is seriously ignoring you because of your breast size, then it's not really worth bothering. You ultimately can't change how your body really is and that's okay. A lot of girls grow up thinking they're supposed to have great hair, big breasts, curves in all the right places... some girls look like that, some don't. Does that mean you're any less of a great person? Not at all. And believe me, not all guys end up wanting that first description when they're older. But it's all new to them to right now.

It's okay to be shy and awkward and just... a teenager. They're probably not as judgemental as you think though. And guys don't understand girls when we do certain things that we do. That's pretty much a proven thing. So if you want to make friends with guys, and it'll probably take a couple tries before you get your confidence up to do so, just go up to them. Ask what they're into. If they like sports and you play any, ask if they want to hang out and play sometime. Same with video games or any sort of activity that you both like. Likelihood is, if you're hanging out with a guy, their eyes won't be on your boobs the whole time. If they are, remind him that your eyes are on your face. :P

[Jenny13]

Hon, you are so not alone in this. The one thing that's nice when you're older though is you can come to sites like these and hopefully have an answer for someone your age now. Anyway, that being said, boys your age? They're weird. :P Everyone changes so much when they're a teenager and just entering that part of their life. Boys your age are starting to see girls they know have breasts for the first time just as they're starting to learn more about themselves and all that jazz. So yeah, younger boys can be like that and think big boobs are the greatest thing. But not all boys are like that and some grow out of it too. It's almost like... hm. When you're younger and suddenly that scrawny little boy you knew when you were ten suddenly grew a foot and a half and has some muscle when you come back from summer break (holy crap, you wouldn't believe what the summer between grade 10 and 11 does to boys somehow). You may not even like muscle or really tall guys later on but it's new and you're experimenting with all this stuff.

When you get older and start making friends, no one cares what size your boobs are or what colour your hair is. Maybe if it's someone who is looking to date you, yeah, they'll care a bit more but that's normal. For now, if someone is seriously ignoring you because of your breast size, then it's not really worth bothering. You ultimately can't change how your body really is and that's okay. A lot of girls grow up thinking they're supposed to have great hair, big breasts, curves in all the right places... some girls look like that, some don't. Does that mean you're any less of a great person? Not at all. And believe me, not all guys end up wanting that first description when they're older. But it's all new to them to right now.

It's okay to be shy and awkward and just... a teenager. They're probably not as judgemental as you think though. And guys don't understand girls when we do certain things that we do. That's pretty much a proven thing. So if you want to make friends with guys, and it'll probably take a couple tries before you get your confidence up to do so, just go up to them. Ask what they're into. If they like sports and you play any, ask if they want to hang out and play sometime. Same with video games or any sort of activity that you both like. Likelihood is, if you're hanging out with a guy, their eyes won't be on your boobs the whole time. If they are, remind him that your eyes are on your face. :P
Thanks it means a lot ^_^

[stepht]

Wait. Seriously you probably don't need to worry about attracting boys that age anyway. Most don't have a clue what to do, how to act or especially what they have right in front of them. They'll come around eventually, lol! As gorgeous as you are you got nothing to worry about.

[Jenny13]

Wait. Seriously you probably don't need to worry about attracting boys that age anyway. Most don't have a clue what to do, how to act or especially what they have right in front of them. They'll come around eventually, lol! As gorgeous as you are you got nothing to worry about.

So you're saying let them approach me?

[Jenny13]

But I do worry about it every night. In response to stepht

[anyone50]

From looking at your avatar picture you not exactly flat chested I'm guess at least a B cup which isn't bad for someone your age. Your breast will still grow until your around the age of 16 or 17 so I wouldn't worry too much about your present size. That being said why would you want a guy that would base your worth on your cup breast size. As you get older you'll discover that there are just as many or more men that prefer smaller to average size breast. Just remember what goes up must come down and while those girls that are so huge and getting all the male attention right now will eventually be wearing those breast closer to their waist line while you will still have a youthful and perky bust line. Better to work on your social skills and learn how to make friends than to worry about how small your breast are.

[marrisa]

Yes your are gorgeous.Soon you will have to beat them off with a stick.

[stepht]

But I do worry about it every night. In response to stepht

I guarantee they'll be more guys than you know what to do with! Of course there's more to you than your looks, Im just saying that your looks alone will get you the attention of plenty of guys.

[Jenny13]

OK thanks everyone!

[hoboliz]

Just keep being yourself. There's a glove for every hand, and you'll find where you fit eventually.

[watermelon_pineapple]

Guy are just talking to them because they like looking and there boobs do not change your body for them trust me you will find that one guy that will love you for you and just the way you are no matter how big or small your boobs are

[Elysium]

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