i feel confused

[tuckersquirrel]

im new here, im posting because ive had some problems

A while ago i went through a stage where i was only attracted to girls, and i had accepted that that was how i was, but i hated myself for it.

after a while of hating myself alot i forced myself to ignore girls and focus on boys instead, i was fine for a while, but now lately ive been spending alot of time with my friends that are girls, and ive felt very self consonance about weather or not they like or not, even though i shouldnt since they arent into girls.

so right now im starting to hate myself again.

[Ashleigh]

im new here, im posting because ive had some problems

A while ago i went through a stage where i was only attracted to girls, and i had accepted that that was how i was, but i hated myself for it.

after a while of hating myself alot i forced myself to ignore girls and focus on boys instead, i was fine for a while, but now lately ive been spending alot of time with my friends that are girls, and ive felt very self consonance about weather or not they like or not, even though i shouldnt since they arent into girls.

so right now im starting to hate myself again.

first of all you shouldnt hate yourself for it. its perfectly nautural for you to be around people and wonder if they are into you. you need to try and accept these feelings that youre having because there is nothing wrong with them.
do you consider yourself straight bi or lesbian just wondering?
im always here if you want to talk

[tuckersquirrel]

first of all you shouldnt hate yourself for it. its perfectly nautural for you to be around people and wonder if they are into you. you need to try and accept these feelings that youre having because there is nothing wrong with them.
do you consider yourself straight bi or lesbian just wondering?
im always here if you want to talk

bi i guess

[Milky Joe]

That's really sad that you would hate yourself for that :(

Why try and force yourself to like boys instead? If you like girls (or both) that's cool.

[Ashleigh]

bi i guess

you shouldnt to force yourself to do things or feel things because that way you wont actually feel it and it will all be a lie. its ok to like someone of the same sex and you shouldnt hate yourself for it. i know its easier to say it than to do it but try finding ways which help you to accept yourself and begin to love yourself.