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KAKY
July 19th, 2013, 06:58 PM
Could the way how people treat you makes you scar yourself? Could having no boyfriend do the same? Could having no such real friend do the same too? Well,that what happend to me.
I was raised in a fair family(i didn`t find the right word to describe xp),i mean i had no problems with any of my family members,actually,i was kinda bored,until the time of facing other people has come,i`m not too shy or afraid from others,the problem is,i couldn`t accepte the way they live,their world is full of lies,hurts,injustice....i tryed to adapt,but they refused me,i`m always,ok not always honest,but they don`t want that.
I care too much for my bfs,but they don`t,even for my friends i do the same,but at the end i find that no body cares for me,no body have the same feelings for me,can you imagine how hard is that,that`s why i hurt myself,because i`m idiot,i wish if i wasn`t like that.
thank you for your reading^^
Jessiibear
July 20th, 2013, 10:48 AM
You're not an idiot. It's normal to feel the way you're feeling. Been that way for me, too, for years. You feel unappreciated by those around you, but you love them a lot. You just wish they'd show it more. Show that they really do care. I understand. But try not to call yourself names because it only makes you feel worse. You're beautiful and a wonderful person, I bet. I mean that. Hold your head high and don't make room for haters. You are who you are. And that's one heck of a human.
I cut. I have no boyfriend. Not one friend here. My dad's neglectful and my younger sister ridicules me and makes me feel like her bitch every blessed day. I'm saying all this to show you that you're not alone. If cutting helps you, good! But it will only get shittier later on. You're not only showing that you're hurt to others but you're showing that your hurt to yourself. Making it as plain as day. I'm not particularly against cutting--or expressing your emotions (you should do that!)--I just want you to feel good about yourself. You deserve that.
Keep showing the people you care about that you care. Eventually, if they really care for you, they will return those gestures. If your friends don't show you respect and care, then they aren't good friends and you might need to look for better ones. Don't settle for shit. Look for happiness. :)
KAKY
July 21st, 2013, 06:30 PM
You're not an idiot. It's normal to feel the way you're feeling. Been that way for me, too, for years. You feel unappreciated by those around you, but you love them a lot. You just wish they'd show it more. Show that they really do care. I understand. But try not to call yourself names because it only makes you feel worse. You're beautiful and a wonderful person, I bet. I mean that. Hold your head high and don't make room for haters. You are who you are. And that's one heck of a human.
I cut. I have no boyfriend. Not one friend here. My dad's neglectful and my younger sister ridicules me and makes me feel like her bitch every blessed day. I'm saying all this to show you that you're not alone. If cutting helps you, good! But it will only get shittier later on. You're not only showing that you're hurt to others but you're showing that your hurt to yourself. Making it as plain as day. I'm not particularly against cutting--or expressing your emotions (you should do that!)--I just want you to feel good about yourself. You deserve that.
Keep showing the people you care about that you care. Eventually, if they really care for you, they will return those gestures. If your friends don't show you respect and care, then they aren't good friends and you might need to look for better ones. Don't settle for shit. Look for happiness. :)
Well you have no idea about what your words did to me,i want to thank you forever,i don`t really know what to do to thank you,thank you for sharing with me my sadness,i promise you that i will help you anytime you want,i`m ready to do every thing you want me to do,thank you alot jess^^
KAKY
July 21st, 2013, 06:48 PM
thank uuuuuu^^
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