that mother f***er

[Imaustinigeuss]

he cheated on me ... you know the one who tried to kill him self yea he cheated on me I was talking with one of my friends and I sent him an dpics an dhe said ummm idk how im going to tell u this but .. an dthen he sent me a pic of my bf naked and then I tal;ked to my EX and I asked him if he was cheatinf an di sai dno an dthen I said well then can u eplain this and I sent him the pic and he hasn't replied sence

[willrob]

That really sucks! Do you think they were just sending pics or doing something more behind your back?

[Imaustinigeuss]

That really sucks! Do you think they were just sending pics or doing something more behind your back?

I don't realy know

[willrob]

Did you ask your friend that had the pic how he got it? or why he would have it?

[Imaustinigeuss]

Did you ask your friend that had the pic how he got it? or why he would have it?

He didn't know he and I were datin

[teen.jpg]

Why would you send pics anyway? Thats like What Not to do in a Relationship 101.

[Rayquaza]

You need to confront them rather than talking through messages. That way when you ask something you'll be sure an answer. If they avoid the question you need to pressure them into giving an answer. If he's cheating on you then he's clearly an immature boy that's not ready for a relationship.

Why would you send pics anyway? Thats like What Not to do in a Relationship 101.

That's not really helpful to the OPs situation.

[teen.jpg]

Just dump him and move on. He's not worth your time.

[Jevon]

Umm well just break up with him

[nice]

If you really love him you could try to forgive him just one time but if it's not that serious break up with him because if he really did care for you he wouldn't be sending nudes to other guys so he's not worth your time anymore. If he cheated once its a good chance he'll just do it again and again.

[jayjay's toocool]

Wait you sent your friend pics?? And your bf did the same??? Why be mad at him Quote me with your reply please

[Cognizant]

Wait you sent your friend pics?? And your bf did the same??? Why be mad at him Quote me with your reply please

I kind of have to agree. OP, maybe you worded it funny, but if you've pic swapped with the friend and so has your boyfriend and you're getting mad at your boyfriend for swapping pics with him, then maybe you're the offender in this relationship and should have a deep thinking about what you're doing and if it's hypocritical to get mad at him for doing the same thing you are.

If your boyfriend was the only one who traded nudes with the friend, he's crossing the line. Unfortunately, I can only give you a list of options because I'm not you:

-You can forgive him, make certain that he knows that what he did was inappropriate and if it happens again the relationship is over, or;
-Just break up with him. It may be hard but what he's doing is not okay
-If you still love him and he still loves you back (but is just a horny asshole) and you don't want to end the relationship, perhaps propose an open relationship. I honestly don't recommend it, but it works for some people.

Regardless of your choice, please don't let this incident ruin your trust for everyone. Not only does it hurt you, but it hurts every one around you. I know this from experience. When you don't trust someone else in a relationship (and it doesn't even have to be boyfriends, even just friends and family), it falls flat because you eventually trust them so little it throws you into paranoia. It ain't fun.