Is this girl losing interest in me?

[clueless_one]

I like this girl who had found out I had asked out a girl. The girl I had asked out lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

So from this description, is she losing interest in me?

If you don't understand, here is a more clear view with the two different girls I talk about numbered girl 1 & 2.

I like this girl (girl 2) who had found out I had asked out a girl (girl 1). The girl I had asked out (girl 1) lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now (girl 2) doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

Hope its a little more clear now.

So from this description, is she losing interest in me?

[Meganium]

I like this girl who had found out I had asked out a girl. The girl I had asked out lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

So from this description, is she losing interest in me?

I'm sorry, but this is a tad bit confusing for me to give an appropriate response. Would you mind editing your post so that whenever you mention either of these two girls, they have some kind of alias?

[clueless_one]

I'm sorry, but this is a tad bit confusing for me to give an appropriate response. Would you mind editing your post so that whenever you mention either of these two girls, they have done kind of alias?

I like this girl (girl 2) who had found out I had asked out a girl (girl 1). The girl I had asked out (girl 1) lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now (girl 2) doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

Hope its a little more clear now.

So from this description, is she losing interest in me?

[Meganium]

That's much better, thank you.

Now there's two things I'm wondering here:

One, what kind of background did you have with #2?

Two, does she know you like her? (If neither answers lead towards this, then I see no reason as to why her recent behavior would be linked to your going out with #1.)

[clueless_one]

That's much better, thank you.

Now there's two things I'm wondering here:

One, what kind of background did you have with #2?

Two, does she know you like her? (If neither answers lead towards this, then I see no reason as to why her recent behavior would be linked to your going out with #1.)

Well she has been showing me signs of liking me.

SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Because the girl I asked out lied about wanting to go out with me I want to ask out this new girl but am afraid she might think i'm desperate to get a girlfriend. So i'm not sure what to do.
Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

I would have liked to ask her out but I was afraid I would look desperate. If she is losing interest, is there I chance for me to get her attention again.

[Meganium]

Ok. Let's go over this in order:

She has some sort of interest in you, to say the least. Whether it's infatuation or not, I think it's safe to assume she finds you interesting enough.

Second, you're afraid to ask her out because you may seem desperate? You can hop off of that excuse right now. If your story is true, then #1 lied about wanting to date you, right? Then you got shat on, simply put. You went to her, looking for a nice time, and possibly a good friendship, and she turned that away because she didn't want it. Her part in your relationship story is over. She is no longer significant.

If you're to ask #2 out, then she shouldn't think you're desperate. Really, you shouldn't even have to explain yourself. However if you must, then that one guy who told you that #1 was lying should vouch. As well as anyone else who knew.

I don't think she's losing interest, but if she is interested in you in that way, she's possibly distancing herself, as you've, in a sense just been dumped (by a bitch no less), and because of this you really haven't shown any signs of mutual feeling.

My advice? Go for her. If she is truly interested in you, she really shouldn't be reluctant because of any of the recent events.

[clueless_one]

Ok. Let's go over this in order:

She has some sort of interest in you, to say the least. Whether it's infatuation or not, I think it's safe to assume she finds you interesting enough.

Second, you're afraid to ask her out because you may seem desperate? You can hop off of that excuse right now. If your story is true, then #1 lied about wanting to date you, right? Then you got shat on, simply put. You went to her, looking for a nice time, and possibly a good friendship, and she turned that away because she didn't want it. Her part in your relationship story is over. She is no longer significant.

If you're to ask #2 out, then she shouldn't think you're desperate. Really, you shouldn't even have to explain yourself. However if you must, then that one guy who told you that #1 was lying should vouch. As well as anyone else who knew.

I don't think she's losing interest, but if she is interested in you in that way, she's possibly distancing herself, as you've, in a sense just been dumped (by a bitch no less), and because of this you really haven't shown any signs of mutual feeling.

My advice? Go for her. If she is truly interested in you, she really shouldn't be reluctant because of any of the recent events.

From this, it definitely does seem to me that she has interest in me (likes me). What do you think.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

[Meganium]

In that case, go for it. If she wants something more with you then things will go well.

[clueless_one]

In that case, go for it. If she wants something more with you then things will go well.

It just seems to me that she could be losing interest because of these things she does.

I like this girl who had found out I had asked out a girl. The girl I had asked out lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

So from this description, is she losing interest in me?

Is she playing hard to get instead or losing interest in me?

[ElectricStar21]

I honestly say go for her. If you really believe she likes you, then tell her face to face. It's a win-lose situation and don't be nervous when telling her. Make it casual as possible, but if you feel more to the side of that she's lost interest in you, then you should invest in someone you think has more interest in you. Good luck.

[clueless_one]

Ok. Let's go over this in order:

She has some sort of interest in you, to say the least. Whether it's infatuation or not, I think it's safe to assume she finds you interesting enough.

Second, you're afraid to ask her out because you may seem desperate? You can hop off of that excuse right now. If your story is true, then #1 lied about wanting to date you, right? Then you got shat on, simply put. You went to her, looking for a nice time, and possibly a good friendship, and she turned that away because she didn't want it. Her part in your relationship story is over. She is no longer significant.

If you're to ask #2 out, then she shouldn't think you're desperate. Really, you shouldn't even have to explain yourself. However if you must, then that one guy who told you that #1 was lying should vouch. As well as anyone else who knew.

I don't think she's losing interest, but if she is interested in you in that way, she's possibly distancing herself, as you've, in a sense just been dumped (by a bitch no less), and because of this you really haven't shown any signs of mutual feeling.

My advice? Go for her. If she is truly interested in you, she really shouldn't be reluctant because of any of the recent events.

Wait, so you think she likes me but is playing hard to get. But, if I ask her out (to the sports game we both like) there is a possibility she will go with me and that she might think it is a date?

If I do ask her to the sports match do you think she will think its a date also?

[Meganium]

Wait, so you think she likes me but is playing hard to get. But, if I ask her out (to the sports game we both like) there is a possibility she will go with me and that she might think it is a date?

If I do ask her to the sports match do you think she will think its a date also?

I'm not saying she's playing hard to get. I'm saying that due to recent events that she's been hearing about, she has reason to try and distance herself. Either...

A: She saw you ask someone else out and gave up.

B: She feels bad about what happened and she's giving you space.

If she were playing hard to get, she would be showing more signs of wanting to go out with you, but would deliberately distance herself. From what you describe, either the signs are too subtle or she doesn't play hard to get very well.

It's only a "date" if you make it, well, a date. If you both go just to hang out and learn more about each other, then yeah, that will probably be her thought unless you convince her otherwise.

[clueless_one]

I'm not saying she's playing hard to get. I'm saying that due to recent events that she's been hearing about, she has reason to try and distance herself. Either...

A: She saw you ask someone else out and gave up.

B: She feels bad about what happened and she's giving you space.

If she were playing hard to get, she would be showing more signs of wanting to go out with you, but would deliberately distance herself. From what you describe, either the signs are too subtle or she doesn't play hard to get very well.

It's only a "date" if you make it, well, a date. If you both go just to hang out and learn more about each other, then yeah, that will probably be her thought unless you convince her otherwise.

She didn't see me ask someone else out. She just heard about it from one of the boys who found out. I haven't told her that the girl I asked out lied so she doesn't know the girl I asked out lied. So what does that mean then?

[Meganium]

She didn't see me ask someone else out. She just heard about it from one of the boys who found out. I haven't told her that the girl I asked out lied so she doesn't know the girl I asked out lied. So what does that mean then?

I meant she FOUND OUT that you asked #1 out. Sorry.

That shouldn't matter. Again, you shouldn't have to explain yourself in that case. You like her, you want to ask her out, and any previous relationship or attempt at one isn't her business. However, if she REALLY wants to know, again, the one guy who told you that #1 lied could vouch.

[clueless_one]

I meant she FOUND OUT that you asked #1 out. Sorry.

That shouldn't matter. Again, you shouldn't have to explain yourself in that case. You like her, you want to ask her out, and any previous relationship or attempt at one isn't her business. However, if she REALLY wants to know, again, the one guy who told you that #1 lied could vouch.

So, do you think she likes me from the actions that she has done below

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Because the girl I asked out lied about wanting to go out with me I want to ask out this new girl but am afraid she might think i'm desperate to get a girlfriend. So i'm not sure what to do.
Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

And that she is showing me the following signs because she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied

when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

If so, do you think its alright if I tell her that the girl I asked out lied about wanting to go out with me and then tell her that I like her now and that I want to know if she wants to go to the sports match with me?

[Meganium]

I believe you're correct in assuming both of those things.

Only tell her if she STRONGLY insists. Not on your own account. Remember, it doesn't matter anyway. #1 is no longer significant. I wouldn't be TOO quick on telling her you like her, as you DID just ask someone out. But asking her to go to the game would be a good start.

A question, why did you ask out #1 in the first place again?

[clueless_one]

I believe you're correct in assuming both of those things.

Only tell her if she STRONGLY insists. Not on your own account. Remember, it doesn't matter anyway. #1 is no longer significant. I wouldn't be TOO quick on telling her you like her, as you DID just ask someone out. But asking her to go to the game would be a good start.

A question, why did you ask out #1 in the first place again?

I asked out girl 1 because I liked her a bit and wanted to get to know her a bit and by this wanted to go and watch a movie and do something like that. Just wanting to do something with a friend as I will feel a bit uncomfortable going with a guy friend to the movies. The only thing was I didn't expect the news to pass around the school. Because the news passed around the school that I asked out a girl (girl 1) I lost my chance of entering a relationship with her friend (who I had lost interest on once I found out she had a boyfriend).

So, I only asked girl 1 out just to get to know her and hope to have a relationship with her in the future but the news spread around and people think I asked her out to be my girlfriend meaning I also lost a chance in being in a relationship with her friend.

[Meganium]

I asked out girl 1 because I liked her a bit and wanted to get to know her a bit and by this wanted to go and watch a movie and do something like that. Just wanting to do something with a friend as I will feel a bit uncomfortable going with a guy friend to the movies. The only thing was I didn't expect the news to pass around the school. Because the news passed around the school that I asked out a girl (girl 1) I lost my chance of entering a relationship with her friend (who I had lost interest on once I found out she had a boyfriend).

So, I only asked girl 1 out just to get to know her and hope to have a relationship with her in the future but the news spread around and people think I asked her out to be my girlfriend.

Ah, ok. Just wondering.

So yeah, that shouldn't mean anything to #2 if she's really that into you, but if you find yourself in need of defense, explain what happened and she should understand.

[clueless_one]

Ah, ok. Just wondering.

So yeah, that shouldn't mean anything to #2 if she's really that into you, but if you find yourself in need of defense, explain what happened and she should understand.

I found out somewhere else that they said that she is leading me on. Is this a possibility? Also what does it mean if a girl is leading you on.

[Meganium]

Yeah, it's possible, but there's no reason as to why. Basically you'd be going through #1 all over again if #2 was leading you on. There's no reason why she would though, especially if she showed signs of liking you prior to you asking out #1.

[clueless_one]

Yeah, it's possible, but there's no reason as to why. Basically you'd be going through #1 all over again if #2 was leading you on. There's no reason why she would though, especially if she showed signs of liking you prior to you asking out #1.

At first it sounded like she likes me and now it sounds like she is just playing games. Why would this happen from what she did.

As I said in the signs:

The day or two after this girl found out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it, looking at my eyes a bit while reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Why would she do this the day or so before, she had found out I had asked out a girl and called her my girlfriend. Yet she shows me signs of liking me still like below.

I spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything.

She also asked me which teams do I go and see the matches of and I named two teams. Why would she tell me which teams I go to matches of if she didn't have any interest in me about wanting to go to the game with me.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite.

After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

The essay was about the subjects with this essay the day after she found out I had asked out a girl. So I knew she was joking around about that.

So why/how is she leading me on. It doesn't make sense. I feel that she is showing me signs of liking me but at minimal amounts after what had happened. How is this new girl leading me on. I don't get it at all now...

I'm guessing I've lost a girl who I actually like because I asked a girl to do something just as friends. :cry:

[Meganium]

So why/how is she leading me on. It doesn't make sense. I feel that she is showing me signs of liking me but at minimal amounts after what had happened. How is this new girl leading me on. I don't get it at all now...

I'm guessing I've lost a girl who I actually like because I asked a girl to do something just as friends. :cry:


"But at minimal amounts after what had happened..."

Again, there's a good chance that she doesn't want to bring any conflict or make you uncomfortable by showing that she likes you right now. You literally JUST were in a bad situation. She could just be trying to be polite until things smooth over. She knows what happened, but not how you were affected by it.

Again, I STRONGLY doubt you're being led on by her.

"I'm guessing I've lost a girl who I actually like because I asked a girl to do something just as friends..."

I don't think that would happen so easily. But only asking her out and seeing what's up will answer that for you.

[clueless_one]

"But at minimal amounts after what had happened..."

Again, there's a good chance that she doesn't want to bring any conflict or make you uncomfortable by showing that she likes you right now. You literally JUST were in a bad situation. She could just be trying to be polite until things smooth over. She knows what happened, but not how you were affected by it.

Again, I STRONGLY doubt you're being led on by her.

"I'm guessing I've lost a girl who I actually like because I asked a girl to do something just as friends..."

I don't think that would happen so easily. But only asking her out and seeing what's up will answer that for you.

How would she have found out? I have only told 2 people which one was part of a group of a few. Then one I asked in the group was so recently that she couldn't have found out from them. I don't understand how that could be it though.

The group of people I asked recently, this happened:

I told someone that I like a girl. The group were all surprised saying really and a few of them asked me if I wanted them to send a message to the girl I like saying that I like her.

Could this mean the girl I like likes me back and she told others that she likes me but not directly towards me?

[Meganium]

How would she have found out? I have only told 2 people which one was part of a group of a few. Then one I asked in the group was so recently that she couldn't have found out from them. I don't understand how that could be it though.

The group of people I asked recently, this happened:

I told someone that I like a girl. The group were all surprised saying really and a few of them asked me if I wanted them to send a message to the girl I like saying that I like her.

Could this mean the girl I like likes me back and she told others that she likes me but not directly towards me?

Sorry for being unclear. I meant she knew about the situation between you and #1. You haven't said anything about anyone telling her.

[clueless_one]

Sorry for being unclear. I meant she knew about the situation between you and #1. You haven't said anything about anyone telling her.

About girl 1 lying?

If so, I didn't tell anyone about it. Unless she has seen it from my facebook relationship status.

[Meganium]

About girl 1 lying?

If so, I didn't tell anyone about it. Unless she has seen it from my facebook relationship status.

Not necessarily her lying, just that you two split.

[clueless_one]

Not necessarily her lying, just that you two split.

Well there was this that had happened...

The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

She might have just seen my facebook relationship status and obviously thought that she lied and is giving me a little space. Is this possible?

[Meganium]

Well there was this that had happened...



She might have just seen my facebook relationship status and obviously thought that she lied and is giving me a little space. Is this possible?

Yes. Very. I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case.

[clueless_one]

Yes. Very. I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case.

So do you think I should ask her out to the sports game. The game is not of the team she likes but one of the teams from the same place who I support (I don't like this team only support, I like the same team as this girl). So do you think I should ask her to the game? Do you think there is a possibility she will say yes to go out with me? Should I ask her out ASAP or should wait for a while?

[Meganium]

So do you think I should ask her out to the sports game. The game is not of the team she likes but one of the teams from the same place who I support (I don't like this team only support, I like the same team as this girl). So do you think I should ask her to the game? Do you think there is a possibility she will say yes to go out with me? Should I ask her out ASAP or should wait for a while?

Yeah, the game would be a good choice. It sounds the most convenient, so go for it.

There is a good chance she'll say yes, I'd wait a little bit though. No later than the end of this week or the day prior to the game.

[clueless_one]

Yeah, the game would be a good choice. It sounds the most convenient, so go for it.

There is a good chance she'll say yes, I'd wait a little bit though. No later than the end of this week or the day prior to the game.

But the game is in the middle of the exam weeks. Do you still think she might go to the game with me even though its in the middle of the week of exams?

[Meganium]

If she can spare the time, then yes. You're going to have to make an arrangement that you will both be able to manage. If the game doesn't suffice, then you'll have to think of something else.

[clueless_one]

If she can spare the time, then yes. You're going to have to make an arrangement that you will both be able to manage. If the game doesn't suffice, then you'll have to think of something else.

I told someone that I like a girl. The group were all surprised saying really and a few of them asked me if I wanted them to send a message to the girl I like saying that I like her.

I was thinking if I should tell the person I told that I liked this girl (by telling them her name). Do you think I should ask them to hint to the girl I like by messaging her that there is a guy who likes her from a certain class. Or do you think I should still wait it out until the end of the week and just ask her to the game.

[Jevon]

Umm yah that was a little confusing...did this girl ever like you in the first place I'm confused sorry

[clueless_one]

Umm yah that was a little confusing...did this girl ever like you in the first place I'm confused sorry

I think so. Here are the signs she showed me of liking me back...

SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Because the girl I asked out lied about wanting to go out with me I want to ask out this new girl but am afraid she might think i'm desperate to get a girlfriend. So i'm not sure what to do.
Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)



The signs i'm confused about...



I like this girl (girl 2) who had found out I had asked out a girl (girl 1). The girl I had asked out (girl 1) lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now (girl 2) doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.


Just to also add, today she has spoken to me a bit about school work and to a few others also. But she looked at me a lot in one lesson, in fact I think a bit more than usual.

[Meganium]

I was thinking if I should tell the person I told that I liked this girl (by telling them her name). Do you think I should ask them to hint to the girl I like by messaging her that there is a guy who likes her from a certain class. Or do you think I should still wait it out until the end of the week and just ask her to the game.

I think so. Here are the signs she showed me of liking me back...



The signs i'm confused about...



Just to also add, today she has spoken to me a bit about school work and to a few others also. But she looked at me a lot in one lesson, in fact I think a bit more than usual.


Don't go through all of that. Doesn't help you or your confidence at all. In fact, it could be quite off-putting.

Stick to the plan and ask her out to the game (if she can make it) before the week ends at the earliest.

[clueless_one]

Yeah, it's possible, but there's no reason as to why. Basically you'd be going through #1 all over again if #2 was leading you on. There's no reason why she would though, especially if she showed signs of liking you prior to you asking out #1.

I already told one girl and it got passed through a group of boys at the table (which the girl I told is in) in class. Is this a problem that I did this? They then asked me if I wanted them to send her a message saying that I like her. I told them no, but i'm not sure if the news spread to her. Today, I did notice her look at me a little more than often and also she seemed to lean towards me and have her arm/hand more on my side.

[Meganium]

I already told one girl and it got passed through a group of boys at the table (which the girl I told is in) in class. Is this a problem that I did this? They then asked me if I wanted them to send her a message saying that I like her. I told them no, but i'm not sure if the news spread to her. Today, I did notice her look at me a little more than often and also she seemed to lean towards me and have her arm/hand more on my side.

Wow, you are worried about this...

There shouldn't be a problem with it, no.

[clueless_one]

Wow, you are worried about this...

There shouldn't be a problem with it, no.

So with what she did with the sign below, it is only another sign of liking me.

Today, I did notice her look at me a little more than often and also she seemed to lean towards me and have her arm/hand more on my side.

Can I ask her to the game 2-3 days before the end of the week.

[Meganium]

So with what she did with the sign below, it is only another sign of liking me.



Can I ask her to the game 2-3 days before the end of the week.

Only reason I say before the end of this week I'd because my guess is, the whole thing with you and #1 will be forgotten by then entirely. If that's the case, and you don't ask, then it could probably go either way, since she may be thinking about the event much differently if at all.

So yes. Do that. I'm not sure when the game is, but I personally like to give at least a three day heads up on whether I'd like to go somewhere or not. So just ask her before three days prior to the game.

[clueless_one]

Only reason I say before the end of this week I'd because my guess is, the whole thing with you and #1 will be forgotten by then entirely. If that's the case, and you don't ask, then it could probably go either way, since she may be thinking about the event much differently if at all.

So yes. Do that. I'm not sure when the game is, but I personally like to give at least a three day heads up on whether I'd like to go somewhere or not. So just ask her before three days prior to the game.


Today she asked me how I have been after I asked what her mark was in a project. She asked what my mark was and she said thats good. Nice job. She was also leaning back towards me (sitting behind her) again. Her shoulders were once again a little more open to me. Before the lesson, she waited next to me while the teacher came to the class. Does this still seem like signs she likes me?

The game is on the weekend of next week and the exams start next week for three weeks. So, I won't see her much during the time of exams. Only on the last day of exams I will definitely see her. So is it alright to ask her tomorrow to the game.

[Meganium]

Today she asked me how I have been after I asked what her mark was in a project. She asked what my mark was and she said thats good. Nice job. She was also leaning back towards me (sitting behind her) again. Her shoulders were once again a little more open to me. Before the lesson, she waited next to me while the teacher came to the class. Does this still seem like signs she likes me?

The game is on the weekend of next week and the exams start next week for three weeks. So, I won't see her much during the time of exams. Only on the last day of exams I will definitely see her. So is it alright to ask her tomorrow to the game.

You can't keep going off of her varying behavior every day. Overall, with the signs you've been seeing throughout the past week, she seems interested in you. That's what matters. If she keeps this behavior up, then she's still interested it looks like.

Yes. If you won't see her at all next week, then ask her at the earliest convenience.

[clueless_one]

You can't keep going off of her varying behavior every day. Overall, with the signs you've been seeing throughout the past week, she seems interested in you. That's what matters. If she keeps this behavior up, then she's still interested it looks like.

Yes. If you won't see her at all next week, then ask her at the earliest convenience.

I've given up with asking her out to the sports game because of the school exams we have. What's the second best place to go on a date instead of asking her to a sports match. Is the movies alright?

[Meganium]

I've given up with asking her out to the sports game because of the school exams we have. What's the second best place to go on a date instead of asking her to a sports match. Is the movies alright?

God yes.

[clueless_one]

God yes.

God yes as in it is better if I ask her to the movies or god yes as in your annoyed with me asking questions.

Anyway, I did ask the previous girl who lied out to watch a movie and eat at a restaurant or some fast food. Is doing is like this alright?

[Meganium]

God yes as in it is better if I ask her to the movies or god yes as in your annoyed with me asking questions.

Anyway, I did ask the previous girl who lied out to watch a movie and eat at a restaurant or some fast food. Is doing is like this alright?

The first. You may have a lot of questions, but I can be patient. :D I just meant that if I were in your shoes I'd be quicker to ask her out to the movies in the first place.

It should be fine. Her reaction should be entirely different from #1's, regardless of her reply, so you'll just have to see. I can't imagine her denying it or thinking about it in a rude manner.

[clueless_one]

The first. You may have a lot of questions, but I can be patient. :D I just meant that if I were in your shoes I'd be quicker to ask her out to the movies in the first place.

It should be fine. Her reaction should be entirely different from #1's, regardless of her reply, so you'll just have to see. I can't imagine her denying it or thinking about it in a rude manner.

Alright.

Today something happened that has made me really confused. The girl who I had asked out was dropped to school by her father she said hi and I had a conversation with her about her holidays and then about how she feels about flying. When we reached our yard in school, she looked and said theres [another guys name]. This made me wonder maybe she actually likes me still and actually wants to go out with me. But i'm still not sure. She only said what she did on holidays and how she feels about flying and just spoke to me. Nothing showed to me that she might like me more than friends.

But anyway with the girl I like now, she was looking at messages from her girl friends phone and the guy sitting next to her was also looking at the phone and were swiping it reading messages (their hands were close together but not really touching). After she almost seemed to lean/move away from his side. Do you think she could be liking this other guy too? They only talk in class and nothing else.

Also. her friends (who went on the excursion which I went to) are looking at me a lot. I only see if she is at school but I sometimes notice a few of her friends look at me if I walk past and sometimes her full group looks at me. One of her friends from her group is also in one of my classes and also seems to look at me during class and it seems like she faces me during class. Does this mean anything?

[Meganium]

Alright.

Today something happened that has made me really confused. The girl who I had asked out was dropped to school by her father she said hi and I had a conversation with her about her holidays and then about how she feels about flying. When we reached our yard in school, she looked and said theres [another guys name]. This made me wonder maybe she actually likes me still and actually wants to go out with me. But i'm still not sure. She only said what she did on holidays and how she feels about flying and just spoke to me. Nothing showed to me that she might like me more than friends.

But anyway with the girl I like now, she was looking at messages from her girl friends phone and the guy sitting next to her was also looking at the phone and were swiping it reading messages (their hands were close together but not really touching). After she almost seemed to lean/move away from his side. Do you think she could be liking this other guy too? They only talk in class and nothing else.

Also. her friends (who went on the excursion which I went to) are looking at me a lot. I only see if she is at school but I sometimes notice a few of her friends look at me if I walk past and sometimes her full group looks at me. One of her friends from her group is also in one of my classes and also seems to look at me during class and it seems like she faces me during class. Does this mean anything?


You are AWFULLY conscious about these little things that people do. I mean, seriously. I hope this doesn't interfere with your exams.

You're genuinely focusing too much. What you noticed when #2 was with you was fine, but with everyone else, it could mean absolutely nothing. And this shouldn't be your concern anyway. If you're goal is #2, focus on her, and not anyone else who may interfere or slow down the process of being with her.

Especially #1. I don't know the context of when she said there was this other guy, but regardless, if I were you, I would have no further business with her unless I received a sincere apology from her. And that's if I accept. Disregard her entirely unless these are your terms as well.

The others you may see at a table or something, there's so much stuff to observe, you may be seeing a bit of everything, some of which may seem directed towards you, but not.

[clueless_one]

You are AWFULLY conscious about these little things that people do. I mean, seriously. I hope this doesn't interfere with your exams.

You're genuinely focusing too much. What you noticed when #2 was with you was fine, but with everyone else, it could mean absolutely nothing. And this shouldn't be your concern anyway. If you're goal is #2, focus on her, and not anyone else who may interfere or slow down the process of being with her.

Especially #1. I don't know the context of when she said there was this other guy, but regardless, if I were you, I would have no further business with her unless I received a sincere apology from her. And that's if I accept. Disregard her entirely unless these are your terms as well.

The others you may see at a table or something, there's so much stuff to observe, you may be seeing a bit of everything, some of which may seem directed towards you, but not.

I don't even think about girl 1.

I was mostly wondering about girl 2. with the situation with her friends.

her friends (who went on the excursion which I went to) are looking at me a lot. I only see if she is at school but I sometimes notice a few of her friends look at me if I walk past and sometimes her full group looks at me. One of her friends from her group is also in one of my classes and also seems to look at me during class and it seems like she faces me during class. Does this mean anything?

[Meganium]

I don't even think about girl 1.

I was mostly wondering about girl 2. with the situation with her friends.

Still, you had a discussion with her, which made things seem as though she wanted a friendship. That ship sailed. Whether she wants a friendship or not should not be of your concern, depending on your tolerance of people such as herself.

That's...not all that much of a situation. It's just something they did that you probably won't know about, ever. It's like sitting at a lunch table with a bunch of girls you don't know, and they're passing around a phone going "Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhh"

And glancing in your general direction for a moment. You're like, "Oh shit, I wonder if it's about me?"
But you'll never know and you just move right on and forget about it. The guy was probably just joining in for the lolz.

Similar story here. Just disregard and take the next step. Generally, nothing she does in a crowd should show you anything new, or something that someone else does unless it's very apparent.

As far as this other person, quite frankly, does she matter? If your focus is #2, then it's #2. If other girls look at you funny and seem interested, but you're into someone else, fuck it, you can't satisfy everyone. Whether it means something or not, shouldn't matter to you. Hate to sound so heartless, but seriously.

[clueless_one]

Still, you had a discussion with her, which made things seem as though she wanted a friendship. That ship sailed. Whether she wants a friendship or not should not be of your concern, depending on your tolerance of people such as herself.

That's...not all that much of a situation. It's just something they did that you probably won't know about, ever. It's like sitting at a lunch table with a bunch of girls you don't know, and they're passing around a phone going "Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhh"

And glancing in your general direction for a moment. You're like, "Oh shit, I wonder if it's about me?"
But you'll never know and you just move right on and forget about it. The guy was probably just joining in for the lolz.

Similar story here. Just disregard and take the next step. Generally, nothing she does in a crowd should show you anything new, or something that someone else does unless it's very apparent.

As far as this other person, quite frankly, does she matter? If your focus is #2, then it's #2. If other girls look at you funny and seem interested, but you're into someone else, fuck it, you can't satisfy everyone. Whether it means something or not, shouldn't matter to you. Hate to sound so heartless, but seriously.

What do you mean with this?

That's...not all that much of a situation. It's just something they did that you probably won't know about, ever. It's like sitting at a lunch table with a bunch of girls you don't know, and they're passing around a phone going "Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhh"

And glancing in your general direction for a moment. You're like, "Oh shit, I wonder if it's about me?"
But you'll never know and you just move right on and forget about it. The guy was probably just joining in for the lolz.

Similar story here. Just disregard and take the next step. Generally, nothing she does in a crowd should show you anything new, or something that someone else does unless it's very apparent.

are you talking about this incident her friends (who went on the excursion which I went to) are looking at me a lot. I only see if she is at school but I sometimes notice a few of her friends look at me if I walk past and sometimes her full group looks at me. One of her friends from her group is also in one of my classes and also seems to look at me during class and it seems like she faces me during class. Does this mean anything?

or this

But anyway with the girl I like now, she was looking at messages from her girl friends phone and the guy sitting next to her was also looking at the phone and were swiping it reading messages (their hands were close together but not really touching). After she almost seemed to lean/move away from his side. Do you think she could be liking this other guy too? They only talk in class and nothing else.

[Meganium]

The second.

[clueless_one]

The second.

well, what does it mean when her friends look at me. Most of who look at me went for the excursion with me. One of her friends are in one of my classes and looks at me a bit and glances at me.

[Meganium]

As far as this other person, quite frankly, does she matter? If your focus is #2, then it's #2. If other girls look at you funny and seem interested, but you're into someone else, fuck it, you can't satisfy everyone. Whether it means something or not, shouldn't matter to you. Hate to sound so heartless, but seriously.

a-HEM.

[clueless_one]

a-HEM.

Her friends don't show signs of liking me but only look at me. I don't like any of her friends but am only friends with a few of them. Just wondering why is her friends looking at me. Could this be a SIGN of her LIKING me?

[Meganium]

Her friends don't show signs of liking me but only look at me. I don't like any of her friends but am only friends with a few of them. Just wondering why is her friends looking at me. Could this be a SIGN of her LIKING me?

It's possible, but I don't see why that's a concern at the moment.

[clueless_one]

It's possible, but I don't see why that's a concern at the moment.

I thought that maybe she must have told her friends that she likes me.

[Meganium]

I thought that maybe she must have told her friends that she likes me.

If she did, that wouldn't make them stare at you.

[clueless_one]

If she did, that wouldn't make them stare at you.

I've looked at this site showing the signs of a girl liking you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-a-Girl-Likes-You-in-School

numbers 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 13, 18, 19, 24, 26, 28, 30, 37...

especially 10...
Which says


If her friends look at her and then you, or whenever you are talking to her, her friends give looks at you and raise their eyebrows, this is also a good sign, and if somebody says she likes you, chances are she told them because she was hoping you would find out. Don't worry if her friends don't act different around you, she may not have told them.

[Meganium]

I've looked at this site showing the signs of a girl liking you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-a-Girl-Likes-You-in-School

numbers 1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 13, 18, 19, 24, 26, 28, 30, 37...

especially 10...
Which says

What's the relevance of whether or not she told her friends or not? I don't think that'll effect her thoughts on you at all.

Although, if this site is to be followed, then it can add another reason to the pile of "she's interested".

[clueless_one]

What's the relevance of whether or not she told her friends or not? I don't think that'll effect her thoughts on you at all.

Although, if this site is to be followed, then it can add another reason to the pile of "she's interested".

I also forgot to add this before...

The girl I like asked me how many kids I want when older. I said how much my partner wants. Without me asking her how many she wants, she randomly said she wants two kids. What does this mean then?

[Meganium]

She COULD just be responding to her own question. I'm pretty sure she's not to the point where she wants to have your babies.

[clueless_one]

I'm pretty sure she's not to the point where she wants to have your babies.

I know that... I just thought that maybe she said that because she sees a future with me. She was with a friend when she said it but her friend didn't really say anything from it though.

[clueless_one]

She COULD just be responding to her own question. I'm pretty sure she's not to the point where she wants to have your babies.

I forgot to also add that the girl I like now went to the school ball with another guy. The girls were meant to ask the guys and the guys who we're not asked couldn't go. I was not asked by any girl, so couldn't go at all.

[Meganium]

I know that... I just thought that maybe she said that because she sees a future with me. She was with a friend when she said it but her friend didn't really say anything from it though.

Again, she could just be answering her own question. Tends to happen if you don't ask the same question back. Probably nothing.

I forgot to also add that the girl I like now went to the school ball with another guy. The girls were meant to ask the guys and the guys who we're not asked couldn't go. I was not asked by any girl, so couldn't go at all.

Once again, we go back to the "she could just be backing off to avoid hitting a nerve or something" theory. If she's interested, she's probably going to be reluctant to ask YOU anything until you go up to her and make it clear that everything is good. She could have just gone because she wanted to go and she could not be interested in anyone else at all.

The only way to find out is to confront her.

[clueless_one]

Again, she could just be answering her own question. Tends to happen if you don't ask the same question back. Probably nothing.



Once again, we go back to the "she could just be backing off to avoid hitting a nerve or something" theory. If she's interested, she's probably going to be reluctant to ask YOU anything until you go up to her and make it clear that everything is good. She could have just gone because she wanted to go and she could not be interested in anyone else at all.

The only way to find out is to confront her.

So what your saying is that she could have been scared about asking me because she was afraid to ruin the friendship just incase I don't like her that way. That is kind of stupid but makes a bit of sense. I was thinking that if a girl asked me to the ball I would think that she is interested in me and therefore later ask her out...

[Meganium]

So what your saying is that she could have been scared about asking me because she was afraid to ruin the friendship just in case I don't like her that way. That is kind of stupid but makes a bit of sense.

That could very well be the case if she's interested.

It's not stupid, simply because she doesn't know what the hell went on. All she knows is "Conflict. Let me back up."

[clueless_one]

That could very well be the case if she's interested.

It's not stupid, simply because she doesn't know what the hell went on. All she knows is "Conflict. Let me back up."

I don't understand what you mean?

[Meganium]

[/b]

I don't understand what you mean?

Or rather, she wants to avoid making things worse in some way. It seems to her that to do anything right now would be "too soon", but in reality, it isn't.

[clueless_one]

Or rather, she wants to avoid making things worse in some way. It seems to her that to do anything right now would be "too soon", but in reality, it isn't.

You have a good point. Another reason it could be is that she didn't know me that well to show signs she likes me and ask me to the ball. Also it could be because she had to select someone because it had to be prepared a while before.

Anyway, i'm in the middle of our exam weeks and After an exam, I was talking to my friends and could also see the girl I like with her friends. I looked at her a few times and noticed she was looking at me. At another time I looked both her and her girlfriend (from another one of my classes) looked at me. Then the girl I like looked a few times after and then all her friends looked at me. (All this looking by me was at intervals with me talking to my friends).

I moved to the benches with my friends (where we have our lunch) and was looking at the entrance of where the exams were waiting for a friend to finish... I could see that the girl I like was looking at me from a distance (next to the entrance of the exam area).

What does all this staring/looking from the girl I like and her friends mean?