Gay/Bi guys ONLY!

[slimboy1997]

Here lately, I have really been questioning my sexuality (Maybe not being straight) and I'm having a problem. How did you all know that you were gay/bi?? Like did something happen or did you just feel "different?" The only reason i ask is because I don't want to make the "wrong" decision. Thanks for any and all help!!!

[Thatimportantkid]

Well ever since I was 12 I started liking boys in a weird way. Then one day I talked to my friend who was Bi. She asked who I liked more boys or girls. I just said both, she then told me I might be Bisexual. I later thought about it more & said I think I am. I guess for me it came sorta natural. I always caught myself looking a boys but I still liked girls. Need Anymore help just message me be happy to help (:

[answers-101]

i've suspected ever since i was 12 when i started watching gay porn. but it wasn't until i was 14 that i started to get emotional attractions to guys and started to come to terms with it. so if u have emotional attractions (ie wanna spend lots of time with guys, kiss/cuddle, move in with another guy etc) then that would certainly be a sign.

[XxVeggiexX]

I knew in the 7th grade when I started developing feeling for my best friend, but I also like this girl. I was so confused but then I determined I was bi, preferring guys more.

[The_Hunger_Games]

Just to with the flow man

[TheUnknown12345]

Sexuality is something you don't "choose" but rather ARE. Ever since I was growing up I would see guys differently, I grew up with girls so I saw girls like I would see the girls I grew up with. I dated a girl in 8th grade but didn't get emotionally attached, then in high school I was with a girl, dating, just kissing and the same thing happened no attachment. So then I tried it with a guy and preferred it, was more comfortable and felt more "right" to me. So it's not that I chose to be gay, I just saw what I was more physically, emotionally and sexually attracted to. I would say experiment with both, the teen years are years of experimentation and then see what you are more attracted to. You can never make a "wrong" choice, you live your life the way you want to and be with who makes you happy. (:

[Thatimportantkid]

i've suspected ever since i was 12 when i started watching gay porn. but it wasn't until i was 14 that i started to get emotional attractions to guys and started to come to terms with it. so if u have emotional attractions (ie wanna spend lots of time with guys, kiss/cuddle, move in with another guy etc) then that would certainly be a sign.

Me Too Exact Same Thing Happened Same Age & Watching the same thing

[Jasperf]

Here lately, I have really been questioning my sexuality (Maybe not being straight) and I'm having a problem. How did you all know that you were gay/bi?? Like did something happen or did you just feel "different?" The only reason i ask is because I don't want to make the "wrong" decision. Thanks for any and all help!!!

It's not a decision, it's an emotional connection to the same sex. If you only feel sexual connection then I doubt your gay/bi your probably just curious of pther guys.

[Marco97]

I accepted that I'm gay when I fell in love with my best friend about 1 year ago. (He's straight so nothing happened) At first I didn't want to be queer but now I know you can't do anything about it. You are what you are.

[OddGuyOut]

I just kinda realized it. I have always been slightly interested in cock and after finally making some close guy friends I started dreaming about what they were like below the belt. It wasn't until I'd jacked off with another guy I sorta finally admitted to myself that I was bi. Then I came out and the rest is history.

[OddGuyOut]

I accepted that I'm gay when I fell in love with my best friend about 1 year ago. (He's straight so nothing happened) At first I didn't want to be queer but now I know you can't do anything about it. You are what you are.

Ugh I feel you! My first crush (still ink he's hot) is flaming straight and it's kinda awkward cause he knows I like him. A lot...

[Seth.]

I've just always found boys extremely sexually desirable, even before puberty.

[Mirage]

Better in teen sexuality.

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[teen.jpg]

For me, it's just something you notice about yourself. It's a way that you look at other people, and re-evaluate who you think you are. And that's when you find out what you are.

[ElectricStar21]

It's something you feel. If you FEEL you are, then you are. I feel in my heart that I'm Bi because I have a connection with both genders.

[steellord321]

Just noticing that i was attracted to guys and only guys. It's kind of a dead giveaway.

[Bazinga]

Not being interested in girls sexually (when i was interested in boys sexually) and always finding it easier to bond with girls and not really having a 'crush' on them :)

[ladygaga200]

I knew that i was gay because i was looking at boys instead of girls :) You know the same way people know their straight.:)

[LiamC]

I was about 10 or 11 and I was watching Big Brother, there was a really hot guy called Dale and I was attracted to him, I was imagining his dick and everything and I didn't really know I was gay then but it did occur to me I never really thought about girls. I did pretend for a while (even to myself) that I was bi, until the age of about 13 when I just thought 'what is the point? I am gay, I don't fancy girls at all'.

[DanBaller.23]

I don't no but im curious :')

[Xavier2]

For as long as I can remember I've been attracted to guys. When I started swimming and seeing the other guys in their swimwear every week I basically knew without a doubt I was at the very least bisexual. But to be honest I think I'm 100% gay in actuality because I haven't been attracted to any girls in a very long time and doubt I will be again.

[lumberturd]

Im having the same problem, I wish I was 100% straight

[CosmicNoodle]

Dont ask me, im am just as confused as you. I lie girls and want a GF but sometimes see a guy and am like "Damn he has a nice ass" and other times i will see the same guy and think i was insane for liking him...my head is a mess

[Abyssal Echo]

I guess I always knew I was different. about 9 -10 I noticed my friends were starting to get interested in girls. I wasn't at all. by 13 I still wasn't interested in girls. I was 13 almost 14 when I came out to my cousin that I was gay.