Girls: Have you had sex (BE HONEST)

[ThisGuyKnows]

Okay, this is similar to my older thread where I pointed out that I was seeing young teens claiming they have toys. Well now I have another question about things girls have been saying. I can believe girls 15 and up having sex, but there are a lot of 13-14 that claim they are doing it as well. I am 14, and don't know anyone doing it. Maybe the odd one person, but I am shocked by how many girls are claiming this. Even saying they started at 11 or something. Even other girls are shocked by this. Can you please be honest with your answer, theres no point in lying, it doesn't make you look cool. Or it will even make another young person think its normal, and they will go off and do it when its not. Thanks girls, I just want a straight answer on this.

[Troy35216]

I spend half my time on urban dictionary cuz of this site. I never heard of "posh wank" or "soggy biscuit" till i saw them on posts here. Now I can add "tango'd" to the list. scuse me while I go look it up.

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okay all i could find was Towel Tango.
"The dance performed under a towel, most commonly seen at the Beach, or in a changing room, when getting changed under the towel to hide as much skin as possible."
but based on the actual question instead of just the subject I'm guessing it's some kind of sex act. I know we're not allowed to give tips and stuff but what about definitions? what the heck is tangoing? can only girls do it? is it done TO them or BY them? does it have something to do with tampons? they both start with "ta". idk. i'm dumb about this stuff obviously

[Calum mcewan 15]

I spend half my time on urban dictionary cuz of this site. I never heard of "posh wank" or "soggy biscuit" till i saw them on posts here. Now I can add "tango'd" to the list. scuse me while I go look it up.

Lol me too :)

[ThisGuyKnows]

I spend half my time on urban dictionary cuz of this site. I never heard of "posh wank" or "soggy biscuit" till i saw them on posts here. Now I can add "tango'd" to the list. scuse me while I go look it up.

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okay all i could find was Towel Tango.
"The dance performed under a towel, most commonly seen at the Beach, or in a changing room, when getting changed under the towel to hide as much skin as possible."
but based on the actual question instead of just the subject I'm guessing it's some kind of sex act. I know we're not allowed to give tips and stuff but what about definitions? what the heck is tangoing? can only girls do it? is it done TO them or BY them? does it have something to do with tampons? they both start with "ta". idk. i'm dumb about this stuff obviously

Lol me too :)

I was using it as a derogatory term for sex.....changed the title.

[Infamous Eric]

I bet a lot of people on here are full of it.

[Sara97]

I have to say I haven't...for the longest time growing up I was certain that I wouldn't have sex till I got married. It was just a no brainer...but of course then I got older and realized eehhhh I'm not gonna make it that long hahaha but ad of right now, I'm still a virgin.

[SammyG17]

I was under the impression that the site was originally designed as a support group for persons who have been abused. That itself is a hard subject, and although not all the stories on here in these sections are of abuse, it stands to reason that the average age of penetrative sex is young. (I'm not saying they are 100% linked, but some connection can be made about some of the posters.)

Kids are growing up younger and younger. I had a chance to watch over a 5th (american) grade class last school year, and they were asking me more adult questions. the average ages were 10-12. The current "young" generation (basically anyone 5-32) has had access to an invention called the world wide web. The amount of information stored, and read on a daily basis on the web is utterly staggering. Think about the 90's, if you were old enough to remember, or at least the stories you've heard. The internet was young, so places like the smithsonian had websites dedicated to factual information. TV shows like the magic school bus, wishbone, 321 contact, and bill nye (or beakman's world) were on. Learning about sex, masturbation, the birds and the bees, etc, was up to parents, friends, and occasionally the crazy relative.

Things happened, kids still had sex early, but it wasn't spoken of as openly. Fast forward to today, when you have the net, and tv that certainly isn't as education friendly (really dora? hola? psh) and kids are exposed to A LOT of things earlier. It doesn't take a crazy relative, a parent, or a friend anymore. The whole kit and kaboodle, right there in front of you, in full glorious color/3d and the pictures...or videos...

But along with the hyper exposure, there are safe havens, like virtual teen. Where people who have had experiences (abuse) and not (choice) can share stories. maybe if just one person has a similar experience, that person won't commit suicide. Maybe that one person who had sex with a neighbor at 10, met someone to talk to and realized it wasn't his fault. And the biggest lynchpin in this whole situation is the anonymity of it. You can be whoever you want to be online. For some people, that means being able to open up and share experiences. For others, that might be creating stories, or an intricate web of lies.

Either way, if someone gets some help out of it, the end does justify the means.

For me, I'm open about anything. I was initiated into sex young. It was my choice. I do not regret it, I don't hold any animosity towards the people who did it, and I would do it all over again if I was given the choice. For me it was loving, bonding, and an utterly amazing thing. I'm not sharing to be cool. I have no intentions of seeming more grown up. I share, so that maybe someone else will realize that its ok to open up here.

Besides, this is the internet. Anyone can be anything, so everything you read, take with a grain of salt.

[ThisGuyKnows]

I was under the impression that the site was originally designed as a support group for persons who have been abused. That itself is a hard subject, and although not all the stories on here in these sections are of abuse, it stands to reason that the average age of penetrative sex is young. (I'm not saying they are 100% linked, but some connection can be made about some of the posters.)

Kids are growing up younger and younger. I had a chance to watch over a 5th (american) grade class last school year, and they were asking me more adult questions. the average ages were 10-12. The current "young" generation (basically anyone 5-32) has had access to an invention called the world wide web. The amount of information stored, and read on a daily basis on the web is utterly staggering. Think about the 90's, if you were old enough to remember, or at least the stories you've heard. The internet was young, so places like the smithsonian had websites dedicated to factual information. TV shows like the magic school bus, wishbone, 321 contact, and bill nye (or beakman's world) were on. Learning about sex, masturbation, the birds and the bees, etc, was up to parents, friends, and occasionally the crazy relative.

Things happened, kids still had sex early, but it wasn't spoken of as openly. Fast forward to today, when you have the net, and tv that certainly isn't as education friendly (really dora? hola? psh) and kids are exposed to A LOT of things earlier. It doesn't take a crazy relative, a parent, or a friend anymore. The whole kit and kaboodle, right there in front of you, in full glorious color/3d and the pictures...or videos...

But along with the hyper exposure, there are safe havens, like virtual teen. Where people who have had experiences (abuse) and not (choice) can share stories. maybe if just one person has a similar experience, that person won't commit suicide. Maybe that one person who had sex with a neighbor at 10, met someone to talk to and realized it wasn't his fault. And the biggest lynchpin in this whole situation is the anonymity of it. You can be whoever you want to be online. For some people, that means being able to open up and share experiences. For others, that might be creating stories, or an intricate web of lies.

Either way, if someone gets some help out of it, the end does justify the means.

For me, I'm open about anything. I was initiated into sex young. It was my choice. I do not regret it, I don't hold any animosity towards the people who did it, and I would do it all over again if I was given the choice. For me it was loving, bonding, and an utterly amazing thing. I'm not sharing to be cool. I have no intentions of seeming more grown up. I share, so that maybe someone else will realize that its ok to open up here.

Besides, this is the internet. Anyone can be anything, so everything you read, take with a grain of salt.

Wow, that was an amazing post, answers everything. Thanks, I understand a lot more nappreciate you sharing.

[ThisGuyKnows]

haha a straight answer huh? so nothing about playing with other girls then? lol

ok sry funny mood today... first had sex when i was 11 it wasn't like this was my earliest sexual experience though it took a little while to get there. i think its important to keep in mind doing it at 11 doesn't mean it was happening every day just that it happened.

Lol, I see what you did there. Good one. Also thanks for the answer.

[Sydneyy]

I haven't had sex yet. Haven't found the right guy. Plus I'm not all that ready

[Levityler101]

I'm 14. And I have weird and rather uncomfortable feelings for this girl I've known since kindergarten. I think she might feel the same. I feel love and maybe even… sexual urgeWhat should I do? Please help me! Also she is shy. And lastly she is really cute. PLEASE HELP ME!
I really Need help. What should I say help me

[Jenny13]

The first time I had "sex" I was 11. I put it in parenthesis because it was just one of my guy friends putting his penis in me and experimenting.... There was no real mental connection.... It just felt good...

[AyVannah]

17 and still a virgin :) proud of it!

[ValerieR10]

lol im 13, so im virgin :3

[Obey jay]

I'm 16 turning seventeen in August:) but I'm not a virgin. But there's alot saying they did either they got raped,Or wanting to grow up faster then normal,To much freedom.Or pressured.My opinion is that's nasty if your 14or under having sex.But yeah there it is.

[TonyBig]

I have to say I haven't...for the longest time growing up I was certain that I wouldn't have sex till I got married. It was just a no brainer...but of course then I got older and realized eehhhh I'm not gonna make it that long hahaha but ad of right now, I'm still a virgin.


:yeah:

[cheerbaby13]

just before i turned 11

[xXx_Seventy_xXx]

Does giving a cousin a blow job count?

[xXx_Seventy_xXx]

Jk, I'm 14 and sadly still a virgin :(

[Obey jay]

Jk, I'm 14 and sadly still a virgin :(

Why are you not happy about that!?

[xXx_Seventy_xXx]

Why are you not happy about that!?

I'm a lonely teen… the black sheep, I want to feel the love of someone other than my family.

This is just the thoughts that was going through my head as I read what you said about my post.

[Obey jay]

for some that would be an improvement don't forget to be thankful for the good things that you have.

Agreed^.^

[trimm_tom]

ya shouldnt be sad

[GigglyAbby]

Sadly without regrets -- I started early and I'm not alone.
One mod here stated in another thread the anonymity here can create lies and exaggerations and to expect anything different from that can be foolishness. To the point that our posts are encouraging younger people to have sex sooner than they want to is ABSURD. If parents actually monitored their kids internet usage and had the balls to have open discussions about sexuality -- we wouldn't be seeing younger kids making adult decisions or trying to act like one at such a young age.

[BStar1999]

This is nothing new to me my friends have sexy every week with their Girl friends and one of them got a handjob at 10 and the youngest I know wa actual full on sex in fourth grade no one can stop it it just happens yet somehow even though 90% of my friends are not virgins i still am

[BStar1999]

This is nothing new to me my friends have sex every week and I know one kid that did it with his gf in 4th grade 90% of my friends have had sex 60% of my middle school yet I'm still virgin

[melissa13]

Real sex when i turned 12

[ninja789]

im not a virgin

[Sandra Main]

Still a virgin

[highschool]

i'm a virgin. though i've done oral since i was 13

[schoolgirlz]

not a virgin

[WALLE]

I'm a lonely teen… the black sheep, I want to feel the love of someone other than my family.

This is just the thoughts that was going through my head as I read what you said about my post.

i know exactly how you feel. Im in the same boat as you but doesnt mean you shouldnt be proud of yourself though.

[Luminous]

I'm going to be 14 in a day in a half, I have never had sex or even held hands with a crush. I'm only out to my parents and sister. Sex is not coming for a LONG time.

[Azalez070]

I'm going to be 14 in a day in a half, I have never had sex or even held hands with a crush. I'm only out to my parents and sister. Sex is not coming for a LONG time.

Thats something good, because if you don't take care you could get pregnant and/or a disease. Its better to wait the right person..

[Luminous]

Thats something good, because if you don't take care you could get pregnant and/or a disease. Its better to wait the right person..

I'm gay, so not getting pregnant.. But yeah I am a responsible young person and I will take care.

[Azalez070]

I'm gay, so not getting pregnant.. But yeah I am a responsible young person and I will take care.

Well that's great Princess. It's good that you wait, you sound very mature for your age.

[bethgirl1986]

Still a virgin :)

[its.me.akshay]

17 B|
still a virgin!! B|
and proud of it B|
coz its strting ta be a trend out here for girls ta goo for virgin guys! B|

[kylem]

Totally a virgin here and don't have an issue with it! I know I want to have sex one day with the right person, it just sucks when I get real horny some days then that's all I can think about is having sex! Least masturbation helps with that lol. :P I've heard stories about guys and girls that have had sex already and it just created a lot of issues and drama, not to mention teen pregnancy!

[emilysut]

not a virgin

[Tash]

I'm not a virgin but only because I've been in a solid relationship for a while now. I wouldn't have sex just to be able to say I'd done it.

[Fillie]

I lost my virginity at 15 and can't even imagine it happening around age 12 or 13. I would've been nowhere near ready.

A thread entitled "Have you had sex?" or "At what age did you lose your virginity?" will primarily attract those who have, in fact, lost their virginity, which is why you can't really count on the answers to reflect reality. Hell, if I met an 11-year-old who'd lost his/her virginity, I'd be completely shocked.

[CheekyLinda]

Does lesbian sex count in this thread??.. then, yessss

[schoolgirlz]

I lost virginity when I was 15, I'm still dating that same person.We have been dating since we were 11. Though we techinally broke up at 13 and got back together 3-4 months later.

[haileyb]

I lost my virginity about a year and a bit ago

[MuLil]

14 and virgin. I think it's normal, isn't it?

[Katelyn6]

I'm 14 and a virgin. I'm scared to have sex but I'm sure I will eventually. I'm proud of my v-card :)