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Hauptmann Kauffman
January 6th, 2008, 07:57 PM
I cant get a date! :D Everyone likes me, and yet no-one does in "that way". it's very frustrating! Every girl i like is already dating... Any advice?
byee
January 6th, 2008, 08:11 PM
Nawwww, poor Layne! One of the few times I wish I was gay (or at least bi!). LOL!
Seriously, I cannot imagine how this is at all possible, how is it that YOU cannot get a date? Impossible.
If you're anywhere near as delightful in real life as you are here, if you are as intelligent and aware and downright shrewd and sharp (in a good way), if you're as funny, then I simply have to believe in all honesty that you're simply not picking up on the cues the girls are giving you.
14 year old girls are subtle in the cues they give, they don't come right out and always tell you how magical they think you are and how much they like you and wish you'd ask them out.
But, i'd bet that there's at least one hottie that is, and you're not picking up on it. Refocus that radar of yours and start picking up the cues. And start taking some risks by going up to NEW girls and starting an easy convo, like saying 'hi'. Just do it, I think you'll be surprised by their responsiveness.
ThatCanadianGuy
January 7th, 2008, 07:39 AM
lol girls are amazing creatures that us mere mortal guys will NEVER understand completely :D but we can try!
I agree 5010% with IAMSAM! Same thing happened to me; I'm actually NOTICING now if girls are interested in me and I've just been too dumb and... "guy-ish" to not realize it!
ThatCanadianGuy
January 9th, 2008, 04:40 PM
Just get yourself out there buddy. Go out and meet new people and just be yourself. You want a girl to be liking you for YOU, so don't be put off by your lack of success by changing who YOU are. When the right girl comes that likes you just the way you are the relationship will mean ALOT more than the ones everyone else is getting (you know, a lot of them are just purely physical and based on their partner's looks)!
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