Do guys fantasize about girls they like?

[Sara97]

So I know for a fact that my friend likes me. I was just wondering, if you like a girl, do you fantasize about them? ...just trying to get inside a teenage boy's mind. :lol:

[Castle of Glass]

yea. I mean if I really like a girl, of course i will. I am just trying to imagine want she is hiding ;) TBH, it is just natural. We are guys.

[Meganium]

So I know for a fact that my friend likes me. I was just wondering, if you like a girl, do you fantasize about them? ...just trying to get inside a teenage boy's mind. :lol:

I'd be lying if I said I didn't. :/

[batwomr.smithshane]

Yeah we do... alot lol

[Blackhawknut1]

YES!

[MoonMan]

The girl I like? I fantasize about anything that even resembles a vagina, does that answer your question?

[teen.jpg]

Well yeah buuut recently I've only been fantasizing about famous people I don't even know :lol:

[thatcountrykid]

Actually i dont fantasize about girls i like.Like if i really like them i just think about them being beautiful and having a nice personality, not to sound corny.
Now if i see a hood lookin girl that i kinda like then maybe but it just feels wierd if theyre a friend.

[CharlieHorse]

It's practically the only thing on my mind 24-7

[Sara97]

Thanks guys...I kinda figured that would be the answer. He seems to really care about me, genuinely. Do you think that makes any difference? I know thatcountrykid said something about that.

[Jevon]

Yes I do on occasion lolol

[ElectricStar21]

Yes, often.

[Synyster Shadows]

yep. I fantasize a lot about girls I like

[Its Pretty]

When guys are truly in love with a girl they usually will not fantasize often

[MoonMan]

When guys are truly in love with a girl they usually will not fantasize often

Says who? That's a pretty big assumption to make.

[Camazotz]

When guys are truly in love with a girl they usually will not fantasize often

Based on what, your experience? You're one guy, your conclusion is invalid.

As for OP, even if he really likes you, he probably has fantasies about you, although it's totally possible that he doesn't.

[Sara97]

Based on what, your experience? You're one guy, your conclusion is invalid.

As for OP, even if he really likes you, he probably has fantasies about you, although it's totally possible that he doesn't.

I'm gonna agree with that :) and wouldn't being really 'in love' only heighten the tendency to fantasize about a particular person anyway?

[Inzanethingy]

I do and it makes me feel more attracted to the girl(for better or worse)

[jayjay's toocool]

Please don't say you wanna get inside a guys head it doesn't send off the right message to me. But yeah it happens sometimes

[PinkFloyd]

yep. Sometimes for hours on end

[Vocabulous]

is that even a question

[The-Chosen-Hero]

So I know for a fact that my friend likes me. I was just wondering, if you like a girl, do you fantasize about them? ...just trying to get inside a teenage boy's mind. :lol:

I always fantasize meeting her again and dating. Almost never about sex though. Wish to see her soon again (7 years now)

[jak926]

Of course we do.

[CharlieHorse]

I fantasize about close, intimate moments with girls. nobody specific, well, maybe, but mostly the feeling.

[chrisawesome]

Ok, this is going to sound corny, but follow with me... here it goes. A friend of mine (female) was dating another friend of mine (male). I liked this friend (female) you know sexually and she is a little slutty. I didnt want to loose the other friend(male) by having sex with her, and I was told that another cute girl had a crush on me(my current gf) who has a really hot body; anyway, I didnt want word going around that I had sex with my friend (female) because I would loose my guy friend who was her boyfriend and having sex with another girl would make the one who had a crush on me think I didnt care about her!

Long story short I photochopped a picture of my friend(female)'s head to a picture of a girl on a porn site and jacked off to it for an hour. A week later I asked out my current girlfriend. So yes, guys do fantasize about their friends. Well of the opposite gender I would hope! But if not that's o.k. too, I have some well endowed friends, oh come on... I know you take a peek in the locker room shower!!!

IIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNhhhhhhAAAAAAALLLLEEEE,
EXXXXXXHHHHHHHAAAIIIILLLLLLEEEEEEEEE

[chezhans]

Of course they do. Lol

[believable]

In the group I hang out in (Jocks), they judge girls purely on how hot they are. We'll talk girls all the time put it is never about personality and more about looks.

[Wisconsin]

Thanks guys...I kinda figured that would be the answer. He seems to really care about me, genuinely. Do you think that makes any difference? I know thatcountrykid said something about that.

Just because guys fantasize about girls doesn't mean we can't care about them at the same time. In fact, it makes the fantasies more meaningful.

*but yes. I fantasize about the girls and guys I like.* and its actually kind of weird, but my girlfriend and I will talk about who's hot and who's not. Guys and girls. Lol

[Ballboy]

Thanks guys...I kinda figured that would be the answer. He seems to really care about me, genuinely. Do you think that makes any difference? I know thatcountrykid said something about that.

If he cares about you and he's a friend already, who likes spending time with you(?), then it only depends on whether he's attracted to you. Chances are he fantasises about u alright. Do u like him?

[johnsmith1]

I'd say it'spretty common to do s, yes.

[Austinb13]

So I know for a fact that my friend likes me. I was just wondering, if you like a girl, do you fantasize about them? ...just trying to get inside a teenage boy's mind. :lol:

Yes i do and im sure almost everyone else does

[tim13531]

if u see him acting better to u than to other girls and doin more things for u than usual he is fantasizing(spelt wrong)...all guys do it weather they notice it or not

[dontfiguremeout]

Yup! haha It just makes us more physically attracted to the girl then any other girls. At least it is for me.

[thewhiteyeezus]

I try to only fantasize us together not having sex that makes me feel creepy, this is for guys too lol

[plebble]

Sometimes, it's about whether the guy wants to have sex with her or not.
But not all the time! There are decent guys who go for girls only for their personality. If I liked someone right now, I wouldn't stop thinking about her, I may talk about it to a friend like asking if I should ask her out or not, but boys don't really talk about things like that as much as girls do

[Josh from SoCal]

first, yes, of course we fantasize. all the time. about all the girls.

second, be careful entering our minds. its narrow, dark, and pretty creepy. :)

[chezhans]

YES- that's a far too easy question

[TheRedViper]

There is a girl I truly care about and dare I say it, love, and although she has a boyfriend we are still very good friends. She is a very beautiful girl, but also very intelligent and mature (when she isn't getting drunk at parties). I fantasise about her every day, which often leads to me getting extremely jealous of her boyfriend -_- So yes, although I truly care about her and feel like I am in love with her, as the person she is, I would be lying if I said I didn't imagine having sex with her every day, even when I'm with her. I don't exactly feel proud of this, but hey, I'm a guy. As pretty much everyone else has said, we all do it, even to girls we really care about and like, and not just on a superficial level.

I hope my answer helped, as well as everyone else's.

[Swedish_boy]

Of course we do! But I wont tell what we fantazise about. ;)

[jcs5943]

of course

[roadwarrior]

absolutely yes, of course...

[MattPainter]

Haha yea of course!

[TheStyleGuy]

yes we do, its creepy but all guys will

[Saint of Sinners]

I beg to differ. For some reason I have a strong aversion to fantasizing about somebody I like. I have no trouble fantasizing over anyone else, just people i like :P

Yeah I'm weird like that.

[Cagy58]

Yeah more often then you think

[Cognizant]

Yes, I daydream for sometimes hours about being with them.

[Luminous]

Yeah more often then you think

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