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Toptoptop
July 17th, 2013, 08:14 PM
Alright ill cut it down to the chase:

I like to watch gay porn

Want a relationship with girls

Am not emotionally attracted to either boy or girl

Want to expriment with boys

But only want be with a girl for a relationship

What does this sound like and is it only a phase? Am I straight, bi, gay, Indiana of being gay or bi? I have no problem with gay people though. I feel that you shouldn't love a person because of their gender but because of their soul..

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July 17th, 2013, 08:41 PM
Honestly, you're making it more difficult by over-analyzing this. If you're that confused, you don't need a label in the first place. Just invest your time in something more important right now.

Lost in the Echo
July 17th, 2013, 08:59 PM
Honestly, you're making it more difficult by over-analyzing this. If you're that confused, you don't need a label in the first place. Just invest your time in something more important right now.

This ^ is correct.
You're only 13, you've got many years of puberty ahead of you. Maybe you're going through a phase, or maybe you're bi. Right now, I think your hormones are making you confused. But it's normal to want to experiment during puberty, as your hormones are raging. Causing you to be horny. This will happen less frequently as you begin to finish puberty, and your hormones calm down, but I can't guarantee you won't still be attracted to guys.
So, as for now, don't worry about labels. Don't label yourself until you're completely sure of your sexuality. :)