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Dragonite15
July 17th, 2013, 02:37 AM
Is it bad to be 16 and still be a virgin?

batwomr.smithshane
July 17th, 2013, 02:40 AM
No... even tho im not lolbut not at all the bible beleives in sex after marriage

Jasperf
July 17th, 2013, 03:37 AM
Is it bad to be 16 and still be a virgin?

There is nothing wrong with it, some people wait til they get married. I don't agree with that, I lost my verginity to a girl I'd been going out with for 2 years a week before my 15th birthday. I don't believe that sex is anything sacred, though virginity isn't really something to throw away. Why haven't you lost it?

Goonch97
July 17th, 2013, 03:48 AM
Its very normal, I'm 16 too, and I have never once lost my virginity

TheUnknown12345
July 17th, 2013, 04:13 AM
It's completely okay to be a virgin at that age, I lost mine this year, I'm 19. Sex is natural so at this age you probably want to do it and get it over with, but I will add that you should find someone who will make it worthwhile and someone you care about and at the same time cares about you. Sex is both an emotional and physical embrace between two people so choose wisely with who you do it with. :)

Dragonite15
July 17th, 2013, 06:15 AM
There is nothing wrong with it, some people wait til they get married. I don't agree with that, I lost my verginity to a girl I'd been going out with for 2 years a week before my 15th birthday. I don't believe that sex is anything sacred, though virginity isn't really something to throw away. Why haven't you lost it?

Because I haven't found the right girl.

sdude
July 17th, 2013, 07:43 AM
Take your time, there is a lot to be said for waiting for the right one...It will make it that more special for you...and you always have your best friend (right or left hand!!)to keep u happy!!

handle with care
July 17th, 2013, 08:01 AM
nothing wrong with being a virgin

LunarScorpio
July 17th, 2013, 08:12 AM
No way!.

I would encourage people to not have sex until they are well mature and understand everything.

booboo22
July 17th, 2013, 08:25 AM
I'm 19 an a virgin too... Not by choice though... I've just never really dated anyone... I had a 'significant other' in high school but she wasn't allowed to 'date' so we could only hang out at school and stuff...

gloverjake
July 17th, 2013, 08:32 AM
nah dude. dont be pressured to lose your virginity until you are ready. im 16 and a virgin and i plan to keep it that way till i find the right person.

BenjiCleland
July 17th, 2013, 04:19 PM
That's not bad at all, if anything you should be proud

mrmee
July 21st, 2013, 12:40 AM
At teenage, defonitly better to be a virgin. If you lost ur virginity it would be a lot harder to find a gf who isn't a slut. Rumors travel fast. That's how it is in a little town like mine anyway.

Jevon
July 21st, 2013, 12:42 AM
I m a sixteen year old virgin no worrys you aren't the only one and you will find someone eventually

The captain
July 21st, 2013, 12:48 AM
not at all dude...Im still virgin and wanna really make love not just sex for sex

Jasperf
July 21st, 2013, 12:54 AM
What's the big thing about sex, I don't understand how people think it's sacred or special. It's just sex, and if you've done it then you'd know it's nothing sacred ;)

superstarB
July 21st, 2013, 01:20 AM
I'm 16 and still a virgin

TexasBoy
July 21st, 2013, 01:23 AM
Not in the slightest. You should still be a virgin for several more years. Sex is a big deal, not necessarily because of any religious meaning but because it can have HUGE consequences.

UTurn
July 21st, 2013, 01:26 AM
Trust me, being a virgin is not bad in any way. It's actually, in my honest opinion, very impressive. I am a virgin too. There are so many teenagers today that throw away their virginity to someone that they don't actually love, and then end up having more and more sex trying to replace love with sex and it just doesn't work. And more and more sex leads to the likeliness of having an unplanned pregnancy or an STD. Being a virgin until marriage is not cool today and it's not the norm. But it is worth it.

johnsmith1
July 21st, 2013, 07:45 AM
18 and still a virgin. There's nothing wrong with ir. Our time will come when we meet the right person.

Bas2509
July 21st, 2013, 02:06 PM
That's fine, lose your virginity when you feel comfortable and with someone who's special to you. It really doesn't matter when you lose your virginity.

hihowisitgoin
July 21st, 2013, 02:07 PM
not really

centropede
July 21st, 2013, 02:55 PM
Totally not :)

thewhiteyeezus
July 21st, 2013, 03:14 PM
Why would it be? I would think if an 11 year old lost their virginity that would be weird

Catholic Guy
July 21st, 2013, 04:39 PM
No you should be proud that you are still a virgin at 16, I was 12 but it was rape and then I did it volunterily with girls and regret it

JamieDelRey
July 23rd, 2013, 07:53 PM
Yess

Liven
July 23rd, 2013, 08:00 PM
No, it is not. Don't feel bad being a virgin.

Toptoptop
July 23rd, 2013, 08:05 PM
Nope nothing wrong at all I'm 13 and there's kids you get than me who have lost it and I think that just wrong and that they just threw it away. I'm waiting for the right person to do its with. You will always remember who it was with so make it your best

Ruairi
July 23rd, 2013, 08:10 PM
Nah its probably better to be a virgin at 16 as many people rush in to having sex and regret it later on in life

Allain1996
July 23rd, 2013, 11:25 PM
No, it's totally fine! I am 16 and I don't intend to lose my virginity until I find the right girl that I actually care for. I don't believe in the "saving myself for marrige" crap, but I also don't want to throw my virginity away for nothing to someone who I don't care about.

Its very normal, I'm 16 too, and I have never once lost my virginity
You know that you can only lose your virginity once, right? Lol

AbyssalLight7
July 24th, 2013, 01:58 AM
Virginity's probably a good thing for minors. I believe in marriage first but I don't judge if it's already lost. I'm a virgin.

Kainesp2
July 24th, 2013, 02:03 AM
I do understand where you are coming from thinking it may be bad but nower days people seem to think it makes them look good but it is in my eyes having your virginity isn't a big deal, there is no difference from having it and losing it but I think you are doing the right thing waiting for the right person and I'm sure loads will agree :)

crazypete92
July 24th, 2013, 03:56 PM
i was a virgin at 16 as well and i didnt mind at all.