Ready for sex?

[joshcac]

Hm, I'm with her since last year and she really wants to have sex but I feel I am not ready (because I haven't developed in terms of puberty too much) and other things (including religion stuff) but she keeps pressuring me and saying thinks like "this is not what a man would do" etc. what do y'all think?

[HollisterGirl98]

I honestly think she has to stop thinking about herself and think of how you feel. You should definitely talk to her

[Lost in the Echo]

You should be honest with her, and tell her you're not ready. If she truly loves you, then she'll understand. If not, you can find someone better.

[PinkFloyd]

Tell her that you know what's best for you and that you just don't feel ready for multiple reasons. She should understand..

[LouBerry]

Don't do that shit until you are ready.

Are you ready to deal with the consequences, like an unplanned pregnancy? If not, don't have sex. You have your whole life to do those things.

[joshcac]

We had a discussion bc I didn't want to take her home (I was also afraid cause my parents could come home anytime) and she started ignoring me. Girls, if this happen with you, what would you think about the boy? A "no-action boy"...?

[Peta]

If you don't want to have sexual realtions, your partner should respect that. It's your body and your choice not someone elses.

[ElectricStar21]

If you truly feel as if you're not ready, tell her. Don't let anyone control you. As said, if she understands, good. If not, find someone worth your time.

[Magus]

She wants you for sex? Goddamn, who old is she!?

[joshcac]

We're 16

[Sydneyy]

I'm fine with a 'no-action boy' because I'm not ready either. If you don't feel like you're ready then don't let her pressure you into doing something you would feel uncomfortable with. That's called being selfish.

[Walter Powers]

Ask yourself this: Are you prepared to have a kid with her, should she get pregnant? If the answers no, better safe then sorry and don't go that far.

If you can't get the message across, ask her the same question and tell her your just looking out for both of your best interests.

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Tell her you don't want to, and that if she doesn't respect your wishes that you'll break up with her.

[DanteZombie]

Talk to her.Tell her you don't want to have sex, and if she won't listen, I'm sorry to say, she isn't the girl for you.

[Bilbo Baggins]

She ain't the girl if she wont accept the fact that u ain't ready