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Polo2847
July 16th, 2013, 05:18 AM
Idk if it's better to lose v-card with someone I really like, or with someone at a party or something like that. It's just a one time event and sure everyone remembers their first time. Would it be better if you wait for that one special person, possibly missing out earlier opportunities to have fun? Or take every chance to have fun?

Some guys want to wait for that person while others just wanna rack 'em up.

hotdude
July 16th, 2013, 06:05 AM
you will remember it for ever. make it someone you like a lot and stay sober.

Samstar
July 16th, 2013, 08:45 AM
It's definitely better to lose it with somebody you really like IMO. I'm 17 and still a virgin cause I'm waiting for the opportunity with somebody I like a lot. I think it's a bit dumb just to have sex with somebody after quite a few drinks at a party.

PinkFloyd
July 16th, 2013, 08:48 AM
I made sure that it was a girl I was and still am really close to. That way we could really have a good time with it instead of just basically having sex and that's it.

torcon4421
July 16th, 2013, 10:39 AM
i gues it just depends on the circumstances

moonwolf9
July 16th, 2013, 08:12 PM
Depends i did it with someone i just met because i was scared i would suck

ElectricStar21
July 16th, 2013, 08:39 PM
I would rather do it with someone I know well and love. That's just me, though.

gladiator528
July 16th, 2013, 09:22 PM
Wait for that special person. You'll regret it if you have sex with some random person.

Plasma
July 16th, 2013, 09:23 PM
As much as everyone would want me to say "lose it to someone you like" or whatever, theres nothing wrong losing to someone you dont like, and being more prepared for when you find the right person. Thats just my thoughts though

Swagging god
July 16th, 2013, 11:13 PM
Your first time is one you'll remember for the rest of your life you should loose it to someone you love, or if not to someone you love then at least to a close trusted friend either way the bottom line is do it so you'll have no regrets after it happens.

HahaWaitWhat
July 17th, 2013, 02:14 AM
I'd rather wait for a special person that I love. I don't want to give it to some undeserving girl and treat my virginity like it was nothing, and I would be less likely to regret losing it to somebody I love.

crispxtra
July 19th, 2013, 11:07 PM
well u just have to ask yourself, is virginity something to lose?

azza955
July 20th, 2013, 03:20 AM
I made a mistake by loosing it at a party, and I really regret it!
Save it for someone who you really care about :)

stevemichaelsii
July 20th, 2013, 09:19 PM
I lost my virginity to my best female friend. She was a virgin too and we both wanted to lose it with someone we were comfortable with.

And yes we are still friends and yes we still have sex.

Jevon
July 20th, 2013, 09:35 PM
I would want to wait for someone but he'll I would probably do it as a spur of the moment type thing

Bubbsy
July 22nd, 2013, 04:19 PM
Lose it to someone you love!!! Best thing ever!!

JamieDelRey
July 23rd, 2013, 07:49 PM
I lost my v card with a girl i met on holiday

Ethan3939
July 26th, 2013, 02:35 PM
I'd just like to have sex!

Catholic Guy
July 26th, 2013, 04:02 PM
It's definitely better to lose it with someone special, someone you care about and not when you are drunk so you can remember it, I regret the way I lost it, it was with someone I didn't really care about and it was kind of rape it was horrible

Purple_haze
July 28th, 2013, 09:24 AM
I'm waiting for someone to fall in love with.. cheezie I know but I since it would be my first time I was to look back and remember it as something special. Not just some random that I didn't care about.

BlueEyedFloridian
July 28th, 2013, 01:00 PM
For me.... Toooo

AlexC
July 28th, 2013, 05:08 PM
If you're feeling ready and if you want the experience then maybe go for it. But up to you if you want to wait for the right girl.

Unicornasaurus Rex
July 29th, 2013, 07:11 PM
I've always wondered this myself. Idk like what if it gets awkward with the one you "love" and ruin it all :L

DerBear
July 29th, 2013, 08:25 PM
See I've always found that when people have to ask if they are ready then they aren't ready so to speak.

irishmaniac2000
July 30th, 2013, 12:51 AM
Since I'm not religious, i don't believe there is 1 special person for you. Theres people you lime and people you don't. that's it. my opinion? Go ahead and do it if you wanna

ChrisA1998
August 3rd, 2013, 11:35 AM
Idk if it's better to lose v-card with someone I really like, or with someone at a party or something like that. It's just a one time event and sure everyone remembers their first time. Would it be better if you wait for that one special person, possibly missing out earlier opportunities to have fun? Or take every chance to have fun?

Some guys want to wait for that person while others just wanna rack 'em up.

its your choice, its is up to you to decide what you want to do.

personaly, 1st time or other time, I couldn't do it with a girl I dont like, just for the fun ;)

Moondust
August 3rd, 2013, 02:48 PM
Special person. Losing virginity is wayyy over rated. There's no signiftcance with a random person.